@autismsupsoc
The highest statement of endearment I can give a friend, and the list who get this is extremely tiny, is "You don't cost me any spoons". Those on that short list get permission to contact me even when I've gone for alone time. These same friends get the benefit I will, wothout hesitation, burn spoons I cant afford or dont even have if they need me in crisis. They are priceless friends.

Currently, this list consists of 1 human, and 1 cat.