The stim/tic post I did earlier became an internet rabbit hole I fell down. Which became an overly long blog post.

The answer to "is this a stim or a tic?" seems to be "it's complicated." Which is both validating and annoying.

Post also includes: a list of my greatest vocal hits, MrsVark finding my weird noises comforting, and the understanding that "more symptoms" may actually just be "less masking."

https://theaardvark.co.uk/frank-en-furter-my-vocal-stimstics-the-soundtrack-of-my-life.html

#AuDHD #Autism @autistics #Stimming #Neurodivergent

Frank-En-Furter - My Vocal Stims/Tics - The Soundtrack of My Life

For a short while now, I've found myself saying 'Frank-En-Furter' out loud.

theaardvark.co.uk

No matter what I’m doing I take too long.

Or too short

Or it’s just right and then it sets a standard as if I know what I’m doing.

Fellow ADHDers - How do you deal with your time blindness?

@actuallyadhd #adhd #AuDHD

#adhd

Made the mistake of trying to run two simple errands on a Saturday.

First stop, my usual grocery store. Zero open parking spots and 3 different people not up to the task of parking their stupidly oversized SUVs.

Second stop, backup grocery where I was "lucky" enough to get a parking spot, but where they didn't have half the things on my list.

Third stop, Trader Joe's. 'Nuff said.

Now home, in my basement, bordering on a complete, non-speaking shutdown.

Oh, and I forgot the coffee. Wasn't on the list, therefore didn't exist.

@autistics

#auDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD

ahhhh Love on the spectrum has a new season #netflix #audhd #autism

I am probably on the spectrum myself and I love unconventional not-sex-focused datingshows, for me it'sa perfect match. I don't know how the autism community thinks about that series tho?

@autistics

Alright folks. Favorite water bottle / tumbler brands with straws. Needs good flow.

My current one just quit on me. I didn't really like it to begin with since it was a metal tumbler (so loud) with no handle, but it was a gift, so... 😅

I'm chronically dehydrated and I need my cup to perform well and also be cute, or I won't drink enough. It's just how it is over here. 🥲

Recommendations?

#AuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #POTS

@autistics
Announcement: #Voxelibre multiplayer casual game tomorrow (Sat) for 4 hours in the late afternoon to evening (North America).

Voxelibre is a free and #OpenSource #Minecraft clone. More details here:
https://docs.autis.toque.im/

Damage has been turned off. People with #Autism, #ADHD or #AuDHD are invited.

#ActuallyAutistic #AuDHD #ADHD #gaming

Autism-themed games server

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A real sentence I said today: "Well, it's not that pets make your life better, it's that they change the reality of your situation in a positive way."

I found it amusing in retrospect. Not sure what made me feel that the distinction was necessary, but I can't help it sometimes. I wonder if it's a #ND thing.

#AuDHD, #neurodivergent

So, for those who believe, it’s Good Friday, commemorating the very first #AutismAwarenessMonth
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#ActuallyAutistic #ND #AuDHD @autistics
The holidays are stressful for a lot of people. But when you’re #Autistic or #AuDHD, and especially if you have complicated relationships with family, and sensory stuff feels extra intense, things get even more overwhelming. 1/2

We’re still catching up to the complexity of how neurodivergence shows up.

AuDHD (ADHD + autism) isn’t just a set of challenges. It also shapes creativity, problem-solving, and how people build things that didn’t exist before. #AuDHD #ADHD #Autism

https://www.inc.com/victoria-salves/beyond-adhd-the-audhd-breakthrough-that-is-redefining-what-it-means-to-have-an-entrepreneurial-brain/91318675

Beyond ADHD: The ‘AuDHD’ Breakthrough That Is Redefining What It Means to Have an Entrepreneurial Brain

New research on ADHD and autism reveals a hidden neurotype with real advantages.

Inc