the people I lived with all my life, the family I was born in and my married family never heard a word I said, I spent my life talking and expressing my divergent self and they never apparently heard a word and they think I am their projections instead of everything I ever thought, felt, said, and did and so what conclusion can I possibly have except that they think everyone is lying and so speech, that human miracle is disabled for them, turned off? Why would a sane man keep talking to these people? How can they make their peace with this nonsensical world of bullshit, let alone force everyone else into it? (We’ve gone from my family to NT people in general.)
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That’s their whole theory of mind, learn to live without speech, right? Eye contact is a binary, a language with two words, yes and no, that’s what they have replaced the miracle with.
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You Don't Have to "Put Yourself Out There" to Get Clients | Autistic Business Advice #3

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fcz8PUiVTaM

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You Don't Have to "Put Yourself Out There" to Get Clients | Autistic Business Advice #3

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@tty It doesn't hurt, but it is very loud, and the 'tunnel' can feel a bit confining. But close your eyes and relax, and you'll be done v. soon. 👍

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#AuDHD / #autistic tidying.. Day #2

I've been avoiding coming back into the office. I was having restless sleep and anxiety dreams last night about finishing tidying up my office.

It's clean, just untidy. I'm a bit of a hoarder ( i mean I found a box of Iomega Zip disks and a USB drive to read them as well as my palm Vx and HP ipaq!!) So i have a LOT of clutter.

But I opened the office door to this and shuddered, closed the door again immediately had to go do some really important breakfast clear up instead. (Anything to face the issue directly ahead of me)

Overnight Android software update has subtly changed all the Fonts on my phone.

:: silent screaming ::

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Autistics say researchers are missing something about both Autism and Allism
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April is autism awareness month.

For every $10 you donate to my PayPal I'll make one neurotypical person PAINFULLY aware that I'm autistic.

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About working on your business when your plate is already full.

One of the real problems nobody talks about: how do you carve out time and energy to work on your business when what's already on your plate is taking everything out of you? 1/2

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i always get lost in the sauce when i play with this thing, so good #magnetic #lostinthesauce #stimtoys #fidgettoys #panda #notech #audhd