Nasty Person (after not reading a piece I wrote on how to fight fascism): "I'm not looking for advice from people who don't share basic values like opposing fascism."

Me (replying in kind): "That's fine. I'm not looking to exchange words with someone who doesn't share basic values like anti-racism, anti-classism, and anti-ableism."

Nasty Person: "Wow, that's a bad faith reading."

That is called DARVO. Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. You make a bad faith reading, get given back what you gave, and you accuse others of bad faith readings as if these had occurred in a vacuum.

You're not anti-AI. You're not even advocating for anything. You're just an abuser, Cass. You're abuser, and that's why you're miserable. That's why you feel the need to attack people you don't know.

And that's why you can't help but lose. I'll pity you until you decide to be more than just another screaming animal aping at being human.

This post is not meant for its addressee. Instead, it's meant to show the rest of the community how not to behave online in order to avoid being a caricature of virtue signaling brutes that ape being on the left while acting very much like our enemies on the right do.

To everyone, because they are beasts who live only to hurt others. Justice is not their purpose; their purpose is to use justice as a tool to harm those they feel victimized by. And how is that any different from Neo-Nazis, ICE, and MAGA?

Not at all different. That's the answer.

The prescriptive is obvious to anyone with a brain and a heart that are both in relatively good working order. For the rest of you, (using your own narcissism-tainted language) please consider that you are not the main character of the universe, and no one owes you validation for your shitty behavior, thanks.

#DARVO #BadFaithDiscourse #MirrorRhetoric #InterpersonalAbuseDynamics #Projection #NarcissisticFraming #PerformativeLeftism #VirtueSignaling #CommunityStandards

Just checking if a Reply acknowledging the non-consenting-sex side of a joke is #SeaLioning in your view.

#Consent #CommunityStandards

Leave normalising of non-consent sex alone.
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A detailed documentation of harassment, discriminatory conduct, and the breakdown of moderation standards. This report serves as a formal record for accountability when peaceful dialogue is refused.

https://blog.kalvin.my/cyberbullying-incident-report/

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Cyberbullying Incident Report

Date of incident: 9 April 2026 Platform: WhatsApp group chat Group name: 🔥KD - SABAHAN 💻 (part of the Kracked Devs community) Group size: Approximately 500+ members Victim: Kalvin Johnny (group member since 20 March 2026) 1. Background 1.1 What is the group? The group "🔥KD - SABAHAN 💻" is a

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A quotation from Madeleine L'Engle

I am very wary of those individuals who are neither writers nor editors nor even, in some cases, readers, who feel that they have the right to apply their own moral criteria to the books in public and school libraries. I have enormous respect and admiration and love for the librarians who are rising up to protest this, because they are putting their very jobs on the line.

Madeleine L'Engle (1918-2007) American writer
Speech (1983-11-16), “Dare To Be Creative,” Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DC

More about this quote: wist.info/lengle-madeleine/831…

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L'Engle, Madeleine - Speech (1983-11-16), "Dare To Be Creative," Lecture, Library of Congress, Washington, DC | WIST Quotations

I am very wary of those individuals who are neither writers nor editors nor even, in some cases, readers, who feel that they have the right to apply their own moral criteria to the books in public and school libraries. I have enormous respect and admiration and love for the…

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The prevalence of substandard AI-generated community notes is alarmingly high. This undermines the quality of information shared. #AI #CommunityStandards

Why I Reported Online Hate Speech: A Lesson in Boundaries

I recently shared a factual screenshot of AI-generated information on Mastodon. Someone attacked me personally for using AI, creating a thread of insults.

I did not engage. I reported the user and blocked them.

My Fedi profile is a Giving Container. I have zero tolerance for hate speech or personal attacks. Protecting my peace and maintaining a professional environment is more important than winning an argument.

Hurt people hurt people, but that does not mean I have to accept their hurt in my space.

Technology changes fast, but community standards change slowly. We must uphold them.

Have you experienced a negative reaction for using AI tools? How did you handle it?

#DigitalSafety #CommunityStandards #SystemIntegrity

Mastodon is only a decent community because we actively maintain it. If you see harassment, especially men targeting women, don't just scroll past. Call it out and report it. Let's keep the space clean. Take out the trash.

#Mastodon #Fediverse #FediTips #CommunityStandards #Safety #StopHarassment #WomenInTech #HumanRights

No Dating White Folks: Kahnawake's Iron Rule | Real Stories Full-Length Documentary

https://peertube.gravitywell.xyz/w/aEmHsWqE6xUknN6dXJhE9x

No Dating White Folks: Kahnawake's Iron Rule | Real Stories Full-Length Documentary

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📢 Public Accountability Post

I need to raise awareness about harmful behavior I experienced on the instance `wizard.casa`.

A person, possibly the admin (@nimda), bullied me. Another user, likely connected to them (@ps), also engaged in bullying and tried to provoke me in ways that justified kicking me out of `wizard.casa` without any chance to defend myself, appeal, or maintain my dignity.

This is abusive and deeply inappropriate behavior. I attempted many times to contact @nimda and @ps directly, but received no response. Their silence is not neutrality — it is refusal of ownership.

Accountability in the Fediverse is not optional. Every admin should be held responsible for how they treat users. Cyberbullying is never okay, and moderation practices like this are unfair, unsafe, and harmful to trust in the community.

I am making this public so others can be aware, and so that we can have an open conversation about accountability and dignity in the Fediverse.

#Cyberbullying #Accountability #Fediverse #OnlineSafety #CommunityTrust #MentalHealth #Dignity #SpeakUp #Support #Awareness #ToxicBehavior #CommunityStandards #Respect #UserRights #DigitalWellbeing