👩‍👦 #Widowed parents who enjoy close relationships with their adult children still struggle with loneliness, according to German research

https://www.scimex.org/newsfeed/children-dont-fill-the-void-after-the-death-of-a-spouse

Children don't fill the void after the death of a spouse

Children don't fill the void after the death of a spouse Widowed parents who enjoy close relationships with their adult children still struggle with loneliness, according to German research. The study spanned 25 years and was based on interviews with more than 5,500 men and women, including

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#DOGE also announced drastic cuts at depts that provide critical #SocialServices including #VeteransAffairs [#VA], which administers #healthcare for #veterans, & the #SocialSecurity Administration, which sends out checks to #retired, #disabled & #widowed Americans [money Americans put into the #SSA out of their own paychecks].

#OPM …has laid off >200 of its own employees & allowed >400 to *opt in* to *voluntary* exit programs since #Trump took office…

#law #kleptocracy #autocracy #AbuseOfPower

I'm trying to sign up for men's #cooking #lessons here in #Japan to placate my busy #Japanese wife. While she was away, I made this cheese omelette; beginner's luck! A #community center has me on a waiting list, or I could spill for more upscale lessons. It is astonishing and unJapanese that single-person #households are approaching 40%. #Single #men of all ages have a poor #diet, which exacerbates the #lifespan gap with #women. #Loneliness is also a #health hazard. Many men are #widowed, never #married, or their #wives #divorce them, often after the children become independent and the husband is useless around the house after a busy career. Single men, or married men interested in cooking or helping their wives, possibly fearing their wives' pent-up anger, can find #companionship as well as #survival #skills in cooking lessons. Men's classes start from zero; women #cook and #socialize.

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#psychology #sociology #food #gerontology #aging #elderly
@psychology @sociology

@bethroots @tehuti88 I read recently that "#widowed" was not rare as a #census answer in order to hide the shame of #divorce or abandonment.

The lighter penguin is an elderly female whose partner died this year. The darker one is a younger male who lost his partner two years ago. Biologists have followed them as they meet every night to comfort each other. They stand for hours together watching the lights. Photographer Tobias Baumgaertner captured this image of two widowed fairy penguins looking over the Melbourne skyline. It has won an award in Oceanographic magazine’s Ocean Photography Awards 2020.

#Penguins #Widowed 💖

Spouse has been gone almost 3 years and I think I might finally be starting to be OK. It was just as lockdown was starting so the whole first year I was completely alone. It was months before I could see anyone, and by the time socializing was allowed everyone else had moved on. I still have 18 years of our life to pack up, but I think maybe I can do it now.
#grief #loss #widowed
#introduction In 500 characters or less:
Me defined in hashtags: #widowed #cats #film #retired
From: #Poughkeepsie
Lived In: #Lomita #Torrance #Holtsville #Charlotte
Worked For: #retail #bigtech #banking #IT
Hobbies: #cameras and #photography, #oldtech
Interest: #opensource #Linux user since 1995, #movies #books #filmnoir
#coffee #food #music #electronics #repairs
Helped form #googleplus group #techandcoffee in 2011
There is more but that’s all for now.←[459 characters, see profile for more]
#Introduction
Hello I'm Harry. Ageing metal fan and guitarist. I'm originally from Manchester, but now I live in a rural #Dorset village having spent a few years in London and Essex. I've been a #singleparent and #widowed. Now I'm bumbling along as a dad of three teens and as a husband to a vicar. I work in the web/social media field. My interests include #Guitar #Photography #HeavyMetal #Videogames and sleep.

It’s here! The second edition of my book is out now! How to help a bereaved friend - full of ideas from myself and other widow(er)s.
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#bereavement #grief #widow #widowed #death @thegriefcast @WidowedAndYoung @widowed_parent

🐦🔗: https://nitter.eu/CarolineVoaden/status/1272484065845919745

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