#relationships #love #intimacy #sociology #culture #psychology #behavior
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/02/opinion/americans-marriage-loneliness-love.html
And we question the rules and we question the game
And we question why on Earth everyone is still playing
And we question the things that others can’t see
And we get to question everything #anthropology #autism #fittingin #belonging #family #friends #school #sociology #social
if the house keeps winning they’ll just burn it down
One of the previous year's surprisingly difficult lessons has been the need to stop considering reportage from the US as in any way representative of a baseline for circumstances elsewhere.
https://www.velcro-city.co.uk/if-the-house-keeps-winning-theyll-just-burn-it-down/
Human beings are very creative about how they create a surveillance state.
#panopticon #foucault #surveillance #police #state #sociology #anthropology #writer

Break my unscientifically constructed #theory!
#Axioms:
1. People performing service jobs for which they volunteered can't have their performance criticized by service recipients b/c they aren't being paid.
2. People performing service jobs who are being paid also can't be criticized b/c they're not paid enough
3. People who make enough money to be criticized are immune to criticism b/c they have lots of power
Theory: Criticism is not possible within #capitalism
Another interesting take: If mere revelation does not trigger change, it may be more about asking why something is resonating right now and for whom. Reminds German readers of trigger points ("Triggerpunkte") by sociologists
Steffen Mau, Thomas Lux, @LWestheuser
https://www.niemanlab.org/2025/12/from-fact-checking-to-friction-checking/
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