Sad story of a record shop who cancelled the RSD (Record Store Day) this year. The reason why it is exactly the same reason I have refused to make part of it with my record business at @FestivalTradeRecords

Mean time,if you are into records and think is funny to cue for the all night to get your (unknown exclusive record) read this!
It really explains what's really going on behind the scenes.
#RSD #recordstoreday2026 #vinyl #records #limitededition

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1ApdejzvLp/

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A disproportionate number of my toots in the last month or so have been frustration with #software

I think this upcoming talk is really freaking me out and #adhd dysregulation (and anticipation of #rsd bombs incoming) isn't helping

Fortunately it's tomorrow and then I effectively have a 4 day weekend.

1997 the year of Spawn

Schöner spätneunziger Crossover Triphop und Hardrock. Macht Laune, versetzt mich zurück in die Jugend. Schön laut natürlich!!!

#vinyl #spawn #rsd #vinylcollector #schallplatte #rock #crossover #hardrock

So, I have full fledged conversations in my head. And somehow, not only have I managed to reject myself, I also somehow managed to end up as a third wheel in a very imaginary relationship. Someone send help

#ADHD #RSD

#nowspinning
Gong - Live in Lyon December 14th, 1972
RSD 2023 Limited Edition
Triple Vinyl Set
LMLR 3 700477 835644
#vinyl #gong #rsd #progressiverock

Released as a limited edition coloured vinyl for Record Store Day Black Friday 2024, this historic live recording captures the legendary performance at Rock Im Park (Nürnberg, Germany) from May 21, 1999,previously unavailable on vinyl.
#CypressHil #hiphop #vinyl #record #RSD

https://www.festival-trade.com/product/cypress-hill-live-at-rock-im-park-1999-rsd-black-friday-2024

The subject of this doco sounds like the stereotype of an autistic man. Socially clueless, hyper sensitive to rejection, having zero empathy, & needing to control people & environments around him in order to be safe.

As an autistic person I can resonate (ie feel empathy) with most of this - except the no empathy bit. I know about being socially clueless. And how hyper sensitivity, to sensory input & to rejection, can make us feel that controlling our environments & resisting change is the only way to feel safe.

My neurodivergent peers understand this.

Among the autistic folx I know, most have heaps of empathy, & resonate intensely with the feelings of others. We meet - online or in person, as friends or as strangers - to communicate intensely with each other, listening deeply & offering recognition & care.

Most - not all - of my friends were raised as women.

Is there something here about how boys are raised? Boys are encouraged to feel they are entitled to shape the world & people around them to accommodate their needs, in ways women - except perhaps the most wealthy & privileged - are not. We see dominating behaviours valorised as ‘alpha’ & those who perform them accorded far more respect than they deserve.

Imagine if we all learned, as children, that we are not separate from each other - or from other living beings - & that one person’s suffering affects us all. Imagine if practices of care & compassion were valued more highly than those of domination. Imagine if our role models behaved in ways that respect all life.

I don’t believe autistic people have no empathy. I think we are misfits who feel unsafe. We struggle to make sense of the world around us, do our best to figure out what the rules are, then try to follow them in order to escape being targeted as ‘other’.

For too many boys and men, the rules they infer are toxic.

People are not our enemy.

#ActuallyAutistic #neurodiversity #RSD #CoerciveControl #Incel #misogyny

https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2026/mar/18/inside-the-incels-who-rent-girlfriends-zandland-ben-zand-interview?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other

‘You never know whether they’re acting’: my encounter with the man who spent £50,000 renting girlfriends

A new documentary delves into the phenomenon of men who pay women to role-play their romantic partners. The masked 27-year-old at its heart, and director Ben Zand, tell all

The Guardian
Plattenladen des Monats: 03/26 – RECORD STORE DAY GERMANY

I like Bumble's model better than Tinder's. It makes way more sense for hetro dating to normalise the woman choosing from her matches and sending the first message, rather than drowning in a flood of naff texts and dic pics from potential suitors. Also men don't have our confidence eroded by a flood of implicit rejections, so it's better for us too. *Especially* those of us with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria.

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#Bumble #RSD

@actuallyadhd