Mir fallen ja direkt 100 andere Sachen ein die Fahrrad Fahrenden das Leben retten würden, das wäre nur kein Victim Blaming. 🤷

Aufkleber die Leben retten - auf dem Fahrradhelm | ndr.de
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#autofrei #VictimBlaming

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mL21iRFPoJU

The two-way communication, including social media, which involves using devices with low latency, has made it easier for irresponsible people to hurt others. They will think or use every justification, such as too many people, the communicator's style being in a communication manner they personally dislike, the people communicating being of low-quality communication style, and many more. If I missed any contexts, please tell me!

#vulnerability #communication #mentalhealth #silencetreatment #emotionalharm #basicneeds #injustice #victimblaming #relationships #digitalethics #advocacy

Healing from trauma is crazy. It is unstable and it destabilises self and others.

Why? Because it requires me to grow beyond the "stable" pseudo-personality that the traumatising family-, cult- or societal systems pushed on me.

Society is sick and sickening, it causes trauma and dissociation. Then it tells us that WE are crazy, unstable, perhaps ridiculous and perhaps dangerous for doing what we need to do to heal. In order to truly heal, one HAS TO become even more crazy than before, as in more "unstable" in society's eyes. Less adjusted to its "stable" structures and demands.

I know, I know, the first step of trauma therapy is stabilisation. But what we want to be stable is stuff like having basic needs met, having housing and food and at least one stable, respectful and nurturing relationship. We DON'T need to stabilise the pseudo-personality! That's the crime of therapy that I'm rebelling against. They stabilise the wrong thing and they destabilise the wrong thing. They take away our agency to let our true self emerge and make choices.

It's like telling a caterpillar that emerging from its cocoon is "unstable" and pathological and that it should go back to the nice stable larval version of itself.

In my case, that was the version that is easily lead and that assimilates into existing systems. Not a threat.

But we deserve to destabilise the systems that did this to us. The families, cults, religions, therapies, states, capitalism - all of it. And that includes getting rid of the rules and beliefs and triggers and feelings that they installed inside us. Killing the cops in our heads. Killing the despotic parents, the double-standardised inner critic, the victim blamer in our heads.

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