I just watched an interaction on IRC. I give people the benefit of the
doubt, but sometimes that doesn't last long. There's a free software project that's kind of interesting. I asked for an invite to their developer channel as I had some stuff I wanted to contribute, and they invited me in on the strength of my publically helping one of their users debug a tricky little problem, teaching them how to pick through an strace in the process.
During introductions yesterday, someone in there mentioned using Omarchy and my antennae went up, but I figured maybe it was just the one person. Anyway, another new person came into the developer channel around the same time I did.
I looked at the chat log after getting back from my doctor's appointment today, and a while ago one of the core folks for the project asked the other new person for some details so they could assign them a project email address. Among the questions they asked were, "how old are you," and "are you a man or a woman".
Not wanting to stir up public drama, I asked the core person in a private message why any of that mattered. I said I could see asking for pronouns, but that that was different. Their reply was enlightening: "because if you don't know if you are man or woman, you are probably confused, lot of people are these days".
So, yeah. Not doing anything with that project. I think next time I'll cut to the chase when I encounter a new technical community and lead off with, "How woke is this project?" And if they answer with anything other than something meaning "very" I'll have saved a bunch of time. I have no time for people or projects that tolerate, let alone promote, hate.





