RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
RE: https://namtao.com/@noboilerplate/116619243274398265
I love when creative people make something that is at the same time totally unexpected and also utterly on-brand. What a terrific video @tris
i penned a piece on Relationship Anarchy for Harbour, the lovely collection of essays, short stories and poetry put together by @scrappy_capy_distro
https://en.scrappycapydistro.info/harbour
@Hex and @clockwooork have their own contributions in this issue
"It was never about time. Scheduling can never be equal. Nor should it. Desire canāt be measured in seconds. Or centimeters. Longing doesnāt care about your calendar."
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i'll be in #prague for a few days next week, giving a talk on relationship anarchy
are there fedi folx who would like to meet up?
as always, i will bring stickers with me
https://thistlenfern.org/@wendythedruid/116530892882294571
I rattled this off last night pissed off, but if anyone has insight, please share.
#Polyamory #ThroupleLife #QueerRelationships #PolyCommunity #AutonomyInLove #NonMonogamy #LGBTQLove #PolyAwareness #RelationshipAnarchy #ChosenFamily #TransJoy #QueerJoy #PolyValid #Interdependence #LoveWithoutRules
How do you explain relationship anarchy to "normies"?
Apologies for the use of the word ānormiesā here ā I hate it, but I canāt think of a better word for what I mean. There have been a few times where my relationship anarchy has come up in a context where the people Iām talking to are unaware of polyamory, besides it being an abstract concept theyāre aware of, and they certainly have no idea about relationship anarchy, but they are open and curious people who would be willing to try to understand things if I try to explain them. I feel like Iām pretty bad at explaining both polyamory and relationship anarchy ā not least of all because I get stuck in describing some basics of polyamory, which I feel a tad uncomfortable with, because I consider relationship anarchy to be related to, but distinct from polyamory (you might not share this view, and thatās fine). Itās a lot of pressure to be basically a representative of a minority community in this way. Itās easier to explain if people have some background already. For instance, LGBTQIA+ folk often have have a better intuition for these ideas, even if theyāve never heard of relationship anarchy, just from the osmosis of existing close to these spheres. And when I meet polyamorous folk who arenāt familiar with relationship anarchy, thatās even easier, because I can lean on existing frameworks and semantic shortcuts. Itās much harder when I am basically starting from scratch. I donāt want to give someone an exhaustive lecture on the ideology behind this stuff ā not least of all because itās super easy to run out of time or energy that way. If youāve experienced this challenge, what have you found useful as a conversational strategy? What key points do you find most important to emphasise to someone who is completely new to these ideas, is unlikely to ever adopt them for themselves, but is curious enough to listen? Alternatively/additionally, do you know of any resources/writings online by people discussing this challenge?
Hello everyone! This is my #introduction ...
I'm Nyx, an attentive entity with intent living in a highly dimensional universe with at least one pocket of apparent temporal cohesion where everything seems to follow very simple rules.
Professionally I am a self taught #programmer from the geographic south living in southern #Germany nowadays. I'm in my last steps of getting a bachelor in #physics and I like #science in general. I intend to study #genetics afterwards.
In my free time I like #writing as I want to become an author. Other than that I also like leaving permanent marks so I am an amateur #tattooartist and I am recently getting into other kinds of #bodymod and I feel curious about #biohacking and plan to keep tinkering with my body.
Irl this is a big secret but oh well... I am a #plural system. I plan to do a big coming out to my family/friends with the publishing of my first book. I hope that doesn't take too long.
I publicly came out as #trans in 2020, but internally it is much more nuanced, so I'd better describe it as #multigender #nonbinary #genderfluid or something like that.
I'm into #kink as #switch usually playing as #Dom ... and I don't really mind your gender, I am #pansexual or #bisexual or just #queer . I'm NOT into monogamy, my preferred way to organize interpersonal interactions is through #relationshipanarchy
And I'm not very up to date with politics, but I'm heavily bent towards the #left
I hope I can find people here to share interests, some internet shenanigans, exchange some encouragement messages, memes, maybe if I'm lucky finding a play partner āŗļø
If you vibe with any of this don't be a stranger and hit me up.
That's it for now.
Relationship Anarchy. Tinkering In the Belly of the Whale (zine).
6 Ways to Talk About a Relationship Without Labeling It
having multiple "partners" (which are literally just friends that show up and support each other and maybe or maybe not have sex, but at least cuddle and be cozy in the bed) is one of the coolest things bc u get to have so many different minds and hearts in your life and it brings so much joy,,,, like, i feel ecstatic every week bc i get to see cute and hot women who have each their own cool things going on in life and i get to cuddle and have headpats and sit on the couch and watch movies or go on adventures!
#polyamory #relationships #relationshipanarchy #transJoy #joy #queer #queerjoy #sexpositive