we love #polyamory so much and feel very lucky to have so much love in our lives 🥰

we wish it was more accepted in society. people should be free to love who they love.

My boyfriend is dating someone new and was just telling me about her on video chat. This is a new, he's never had the experience of talking about someone he has feelings for, to someone he's already in love with.

Hearing him reflect to me that our deep conversations about consent helped him navigate this unfamiliar experience was pure bliss for me. As was watching the joy on his face on video.

This is why I am polyamorous. Love is multiplied when it is shared. ❤️♾️🥰

#compersion
#polyamory

You know when a person who has had difficult relationships tells my partner that our relationship style will fail because no member of our #throuple has #Autonomy , means the relationship is doomed 1. why does this bothers me? 2. why is this right or wrong? #Polyamory #Polyam #Triad

Der Evolving Love Project Podcast hat wieder eine interessante Folge Online. Die Frage ist diesmal, ob nicht-monogame Menschen eher narzisstischer veranlagt sind.

Hört gerne rein. 🎧

🌀 https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/p/are-non-monogamous-people-narcissists

#enm #nonmonogamy #polyamory #polygamous #narcist

Are Non-Monogamous People Narcissists?

Listen now | In this episode of the Evolving Love podcast, we dive into one of the most common accusations aimed at non-monogamous people: are we actually narcissists?

Evolving Love Project

RE: https://mas.to/@stevegis_ssg/116512493364545305

Now THIS is the kind of moral outrage around sexuality I can actually get behind! :D

#Polyamory #NonMonogamy

K-pop Demon Hunters came out nearly a year ago.

the PolyYuri subreddit is *still* 90% KPDH poly-shipped fanart.

Do with that what you will.

#polyamory #yuri

My turn under the knife next. Don't worry, it ain't a big deal: I'm getting a small nodule removed from my left hand before it does something to the knuckle. I was going to let it go but one of my wives fussed up a storm. (That's another #polyamory thing: you get outvoted)

Apologies for not writing yesterday,

I appear to have crashed for about 14 hours last night. My body desperately needed it, I have been exhausted and running on fumes of late and haven’t really been okay. But today was much better. I got to spend time with Emerson and my other local partner, whom I shall call Cadmium, today. She brought me a care package that included my favorite chocolate, Dubai chocolate, and two different kinds of eyeliner, as well as body spray! We cuddled and laughed a lot. It was wonderful. I’ve missed her a lot.

-Allēna

#Cadmium #chocolates #Emerson #makeup #polyamory #SliceOfLife

One thing I was thinking about this morning is that there's a difference about how I view myself with my anchor partner and how I view myself with my other partners.

When my partners call me cute, or beautiful, or hot, or what not, most of the time I just blush and lately I've been affirming that. But when my anchor partner does similar things, I'm still holding back.

The more I think about it, the more I believe it's because my anchor partner was attracted to me before I realized I was trans or even transitioning. We've been together almost 13 years, but I've only been transitioning for about 3 of those years. They loved me and wanted to be with me for longer 10 years before I realized I was trans.

And for 10 years, I didn't think much of my body. I didn't see myself as beautiful, or handsome, or cute, or whatever. And I think that's part of the problem when my anchor partner says those things now. They knew me before the changes, before the new confidence. And I still have to remember that they've always thought I was good looking, before and after transitioning.

#trans #polyamory