Also, I had an epiphany. Therapy has inherent value even in shitty situations. At the very least, counselling can* grant you an example template of a (one-sided) healthy relationship.
It's unfair to have to wait or pay for it.
Regardless of what factors facilitate that experience, still, knowing what that COULD look like is constructive.

* [ I say "can" because some individuals should not be in mental health professions, others could be if they have better working conditions, and yet more can always have an off day -- or you two just might not mesh as people. It happens. ]

e.g. my therapist can't make my doctor stop being a shit, but knowing they believe me when I say it stresses me out is indispensable.
You need a handler for the spy-craft of existing while mistreated.
Someone must remind you that imagination for restructuring society is boundless.

We CAN meet everyone's needs if and only if we first consider it possible.

#SolarPunk #SolarPunkSaturday #therapy #counselling #CBT #psychodynamic #humanistic #PersonCentred #psychotherapy #MentalHealth #MentalIllness #distress #depression #situational #disability

The entombed lives. Integrative counsellor and psychotherapist Ying Liu uses a #psychodynamic lens to explore the experience of #sibling #abortion under #China #OneChildPolicy #OnlineFirst #OpenAccess https://link.springer.com/article/10.1057/s41286-025-00207-3
The entombed lives – the experience of sibling abortion under China’s One-Child Policy - Subjectivity

Drawing on the author’s own experience, this paper explores the rarely researched experience of sibling abortion under China’s One-Child Policy through a psychodynamic lens. The author uses writing as a method of inquiry to delve into the emotional impact of losing a younger brother to abortion due to the One-Child Policy and to dialogue with relevant psychodynamic literature on loss and grief. The main body of this paper consists of three separate yet interrelated sections. In the first section, drawing on the concept of The Dead Mother, the author explores the possible impact of her mother’s bereavement of a second child on the author’s emotional life in her formative years. The second section draws on psychodynamic literature on melancholia to understand how the lost life of an aborted brother is kept alive in the author’s psyche and the ambivalence this brings to the author’s psychical world. The third section is an analysis of the first two sections, constructing an understanding of the missing psychosocial elements in the first two sections. This paper gives voice to the longing and mourning brought by sibling abortion under the One-Child Policy, presenting the author’s process of trying to understand such experiences and attempt to understand the personal and the psychical under the influence of the political.

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TITLE: Microsoft Copilot: Data Privacy Violation? *How to Turn it Off*

Microsoft Copilot is now built into Windows 10 and 11 and highly integrated with all Office 365 apps.

It is arguably highly useful.

However (at least in Word), the entire point of Copilot is to learn from what you type, and suggest or write increasingly useful documents. This means it is learning from your confidential client documents -- so the question arises -- how far does that information spread and does it even understand what is confidential and what is not?

Personally -- I want to selectively engage AI as *I* need it, and not have it looking over my shoulder at all times.

In this video, a lawyer breaks down a conversation between another lawyer and a Microsoft employee addressing pointed conversations about confidentiality. The employee seems to say that confidential information won't transmit beyond your organization (if you are using a business license version of Office 365...) but leaves unclear whether or not confidential information might spread between employees in the same business on a group license. Then there is the whole question of whether or not to even trust that Microsoft is not sucking up the data from your client documents regardless of what they say (their licensing documents *ALLOW THIS*). This is *THE* video to watch right now concerning privacy and HIPAA implications: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9X6yMwmMpE

If you are viewing this on a web browser, also look at the comment section.

Please note that 4:48 into the video it discusses how to turn off Copilot in Office. Great. I tested this, and it also turns off my ability to synch OneNote documents with the cloud and different computers. So be aware of that.

This webpage gives you an easy way to turn off Copilot using the Group Policy Editor:
https://www.tomsguide.com/computing/software/how-disable-copilot-in-windows-11

This also works for Windows 10. You have to have a Pro, Enterprise, or Education edition of Windows to use the Group Policy Editor. Otherwise, you will need to use the Registry Editor. You can find directions on how to do this in this conversation: https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/forum/all/how-do-i-delete-copilot-from-my-pc-i-dont-want-it/fdd780c5-fa50-4392-a374-fb0689dfbf34

Turning off Copilot through the Group Policy Editor does NOT damage my ability to synch OneNote files with OneDrive and between computers. (Moving to a solution that does not require this is a future goal of mine as its a security concern too...)

Meanwhile, Atomic Shrimp (a channel usually devoted to scam baiting -- highly amusing, I recommend him) apparently considers this all a scam. In a nutshell -- the price of Office 365 has been increased and Copilot has been added to it. However, if you are willing to wait on-hold 1-3 hours and argue with Microsoft, they still have an unadvertised tier of Office 365 at the old price WITHOUT Copilot functionality:
Microsoft’s Sneaky Forced-Upsell to 365 Users; If You Don’t Need/Want Copilot, Don’t Pay for It
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYVPThx7yss

So -- I guess I'd rather pay the higher price each year for Office 365 and just turn off Copilot, but to each their own... But then, the software still exists on our computers, so in theory it might still be functioning if Microsoft is lying...

It's time to switch to Linux Mint and move out of the Microsoft sphere.

If you missed it earlier:

a) Turn off Recall: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HMi6UaO1In4
b) What Microsoft User Agreements say about their rights to use your data:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1bxz2KpbNn4

I happen to have a HIPAA BAA agreement with Microsoft, but really -- am I going to sue Microsoft if they violate it?

At the risk of getting political, keep in mind that Microsoft just gave $1 million to the Trump inauguration fund. Perhaps just a savvy business move to stay in favor. It gets more ominous if we read into it, in light of likely administration future moves against transgender rights, LGBTQ+ rights, non-Christian religions, and pregnancy concerns -- all concerns we are likely to encounter as psychotherapists. All concerns we MIGHT document in client materials...

-- Michael

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Michael Reeder LCPC
Hygeia Counseling Services : Baltimore, Maryland

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Microsoft Copilot Manager roasted, doesn't understand Confidentiality

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It’s in the first years of our life that we learn about the world around us and how we see ourselves and others. What we felt and learnt from these early experiences is stored within each of us and influence our experiences in the here and now.
#psychodynamic #psychotherapy #thepastlivesinthepresent

New blog post! Thoughts on a classic article by psychodynamic therapist Nancy McWilliams. This was part of a recent discussion at the Sierra Tucson reading group for clinicians that I am happy to attend and co-facilitate!

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/how-do-you-know/202401/why-therapy-should-be-subversive

@psychology.grup.pe

#Psychology #PsychologyToday #Therapy #Culture #Psychodynamic

Why Therapy Should Be Subversive

Psychologist Nancy McWilliams advocates for challenging everyday values.

Psychology Today

#psychodynamic #psychotherapy a strongly-recommended treatment for common mental disorders - World Psychiatry

https://www.wpanet.org/_files/ugd/842ec8_1a64b313e7d4427cad92d4d54ce2c525.pdf

If you’re a #psychodynamic #socialworker working with adolescents or emerging adults, who’s also #Black #BIPOC and/or #LatinX please reply or dm me. This is for networking around referrals & educational projects. PLS RT

I have to do a piece on the characteristics, strengths and weaknesses of #Psychodynamic theory which is due in in a week & do you think I have the brain capacity to deal with this? Something I call Christmas Brain Fog is currently afflicting me. I'm sure many of you can relate.

P.S. Any things you can throw at me to get me started would be appreciated 🙏🏻

#Counselling #Therapy #Freud #Adler #Jung

This is a bit of an experiment: what's it like as a #psychodynamic #clinician to have a publicly-viewable #SocialMedia presence?
I think #psychodynamic theory takes as more or less axiomatic that, on some level, the feelings you have are the feelings that you decide to have