I don't know how to develop trust with someone if I don't understand why they do what they do. This is probably why I have such a hard time trusting neurotypical individuals.
The same applies when hurt happens. I need to understand the why behind the hurt to reestablish trust.
The sad truth is that - for whatever reason - many folks are not willing to explain their actions. My assumption: they often don't know themselves why they do what they do, so all you get are bullshit post-hoc rationalizations.
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