@localzuk I guess it depends what media you watch/read, but I don't think coal tailings are a secret or anything.
The 'solution' is the time-tested "pile that shit up where only poor people live, and pay them just enough to not complain too much" disposal method. We (theoretically) don't allow that anymore, for good reason, but there's a de facto grandfather rule for anything we're doing already.
But yes, I agree that new energy sources should be compared to the status quo, not to some impossible standard of perfection.
I don't think the problem is the media discussing it, though, or that it would be improved by less discussion of the full lifecycle of new energy solutions. The problem is entrenched interests who actively oppose change and a political system that caters to them.
(Also, FWIW, the coal mining that most people think of in the US when they hear "coal mining"—underground Appalachian mines—is metallurgical coal. It's actually pretty safe for the foreseeable future.)