Moments before disaster... at least for Sammy.
A giggle, a jump, a long Meeeeeeeeeeeow ... and then splat.
Somebody is going to get muddy and wet. Well, two. And one is not going to be happy about it.
Poor Sammy!
But that's live with a little 8 year old bearkitty .'

Lovely art by Strawbsplayroom at Furaffinity.
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Moments before disaster... at least for Sammy.
A giggle, a jump, a long Meeeeeeeeeeeow ... and then splat.
Somebody is going to get muddy and wet. Well, two. And one is not going to be happy about it.
Poor Sammy!
But that's live with a little 8 year old bearkitty ^.^'

Lovely art by Strawbsplayroom at Furaffinity.
#kidfur #diaper #mudpuddle #jump #fun #happy

Jumping in the mud puddle of struggle solves nothing. You can't fix anything from that vantage point.

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Are you able to notice the struggle around you and be okay?

Does that seem insensitive or uncaring to you? I get why it might. Here's the thing - you don't think it's insensitive of the tow truck driver not to get stuck with you when they come to pull you out. You accept that if the tow truck gets stuck they can't help you. Why don't you have the same expectation of yourself in your own life?

You jump in the mud puddle of the struggle because you think you're making other people feel better or that you're supposed to, but it solves nothing.

Your power is not in the mud puddle. You can't fix anything from that vantage point.

When struggles would come up in my life I would stop everything. I would stop writing. I would stop posting on social media. I would stop doing regular day-to-day tasks. I would literally sit on my couch in a panic waiting for the problems to resolve. They rendered me completely powerless and useless.

Guess how well that worked for me. Guess how much that accomplished.

There are problems in the background right now and here I am. I stopped jumping in the mud puddle. I stopped rendering myself powerless anytime some little thing would happen. I learned to allow myself to continue my focus and be okay even though things were happening around me.

I learned to be okay in the struggle. I learned to be okay in the imbalance.

It doesn't mean you have to ignore everything or pretend it's not happening. Those things can be happening in the background and you can be okay at the same time. They aren't mutually exclusive.

It's all in your focus.

It's all in what you think about.

It's all in what you do inside of yourself with the things that happen around you.

You get a choice in how to respond or react to absolutely everything that you see going on in the world around you. Nothing in your response is a given, automatic, or required. You decide what you do with what happens; nobody else.

I made the choice to take my power back from the world around me that I had given it to. It's allowing me to continue on with my life even while things are happening around me. It's allowing me to focus. It's allowing me to make my own choices and do my own thing.

I want you to be able to do the same thing for yourself.

I can help with your focus and the thinking problem you have when you're ready. Hit up dellawren.com for more info.

Love to all.

Della

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