Men I do not want to be like: Andrew Tate, Logan Paul, Steven Crowder

Men I do want to be like: Henry David Thoreau, Ralph Borsodi, Scott Nearing

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[Micro-weblog] My latest weblog post continues the reflection on human interaction: The person consistently rejected my genuine compliments because they reject external judgments entirely, seeking a high degree of self-sufficiency. This rejection of validation is a psychological defense that, while admirable in its independence, definitely hurts the giver.

https://weblog.kalvin.my/2-the-pain-of-rejected-compliments-a-study-in-external-validation/

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[2] The Pain of Rejected Compliments: A Study in External Validation

This is a continuation of my previous micro-weblog entry. Not saying "thank you" to compliments: This is a classic example. To you, a compliment is a gift. To them, it's a threat. Why? Because if they accept your compliment, they are accepting you as a valid judge of their worth.

The Kalvin Weblog

[Micro-weblog] My online psychology reflection: It hurts when genuine compliments are consistently rejected. If the person rejects both praise and insults, it suggests they reject *all* external judgment, seeking total self-sufficiency. I admire that high level of independence, even if my raw self still wishes for that tidy, dedicated house!

https://weblog.kalvin.my/the-pain-of-rejected-compliments-a-study-in-external-validation/

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The Pain of Rejected Compliments: A Study in External Validation

This is my psychology reflection update. I have encountered many people online. Yes, online; I love online methods of communication as well. I found one person on TikTok. They consistently rejected my praises and compliments, such as comments about their success as a TikTok celebrity or their ability to 'adult'

The Kalvin Weblog

EDIT: car insurance is now only 1 month behind instead of 3! Let's see what else we can do to improve this situation, fedi!

Atha is bureaucratically and politically disabled from getting a job for a while.
Inamruzui is partly disabled by POTS and sleep issues. Employment is not a simple matter for them to arrange.

Atha was at the food bank yesterday and was given two small shopping bags of canned and dried food for hir and Inamruzui to last a month. Let's raise some funds for the rest of their grocery needs! $300 might be a good start for that.

Let's take another chunk out of Atha's debts! The IRS is being ass, cranking up its non-payment fees. They alone want $860ish. The rest of this part of the request goes to credit cards and car loan and car insurance, with any small change for food.
#MUTUALAID #URGENTMUTUALAID
$373.98/$2500 for debts and bills this week!

Then there's the matter of solar batteries: the #Vulpibus systems struggle to store enough energy to keep running overnight in winter.
We need to get them AT LEAST 2 more (ideally 10 more) batteries at around $250 a pop. So $500 (ideally $2500)
Any small change from that goes to cable crimps and mounting hardware.
They also need battery insulation and heaters!

Then there's the matter of insulating more of the bus itself. Not only is the insulation itself needed, so is something to hold it all in place. A layer of thin plywood would be good. Also not a cheap matter.

The bus grows heavier as more is added to it, so care needs to be taken to choose lightweight but sturdy things to fit.

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Technology and communication have progressed to the point that we are capable of creating an infrastructure of food, energy, and structure self-sufficiency, AND a global network for sharing and evolving it. With this foundation, we can relearn, redefine, and refocus what living is about...

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Tagging this thread for #SolarPunkSunday, @jwildeboer ! Some great ideas being shared!

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Growing your own food is like printing your own money."" ~ Ron Finley: Guerilla Gardener Here's a resource of resources on how to do this year-round. It includes videos, cost analysis, planting plans, links to building plans, seed providers, nurseries, and more."

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"We grow 95% of the produce we eat - we haven't visited grocery shop in 3 years"

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A quotation from Montaigne

The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.
 
[La plus grande chose du monde cโ€™est de sรงavoir estre ร  soy.]

Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592) French essayist
Essays, Book 1, ch. 38 (1.38), โ€œOf Solitude [De la solitude]โ€ (1572) [tr. Frame (1943), 1.39]

More info about (and translations of) this quote: wist.info/montaigne-michel-de/โ€ฆ

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