I’ve been silent for awhile, the extreme isolation, struggling to keep myself afloat and my child alive has literally broke me. My child recently turned 9. I’d like to say there was a celebration. Yet, it was just us at home struggling to get through the day.

There is no support system for chronically ill, disabled parents caring for disabled children who have chronic, complex medical conditions. We are either forced to tough it out while living in eternal isolation, or fear death by allowing caregivers in our home who couldn’t give a shit that their Covid exposure risk could literally kill us.

The ongoing abuse I’ve witnessed my child experience from structural ableism and medical providers. The weight of it all is crushing us, and there’s no one to hold unto, there’s no support network. It’s obvious abled folx and society would rather we just rot isolated indefinitely, ostracized, alone.
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Everyday, my disabled child experiences ableist hate directed towards them. We are an extremely isolated family, but we try to get out for a stroll every other day. Today on our short stroll, there were two bullying experiences from groups of teens. I’ve had several folx on here insinuate that “I’m just being too sensitive”, further reiterating abled supremacy and eugenics perspectives. I have realized this platform is not an empathetic or emotionally safe space for disabled children. However, collective liberation must center disabled children in order to be truly liberatory. #disabled #DisabledParenting #ableism #eugenics #liberation #eugenics #AntiAbleism
I just left a remote Long Covid support group that was advocating for dropping Covid mitigations, and insinuating that folx were being "too sensitive" for being frightened about catching Covid again.
One participant stated that subsequent
Covid infections didn't worsen their symptoms, and that isolating forever was ridiculous. I went off about abled supremacy and eugenics, and that disabled folx such as my child who cannot mask require others to mask to save their lives. I will never support anyone who has long covid and refuses to be covid cautious. I have observed an extensive amount of ableist exclusion in Covid groups towards disabled children, especially those who have chronic, complex medical conditions. We mask for collective care, love and solidarity, we isolate to protect ourselves and our community. #ableism #abledsupremacy #longcovid #disabledparenting #stillcoviding #mask #LongCovid #isolation #disabled
If your anti-ableist, still coviding activism isn’t centering disabled children then you are doing a shitty job. Disabled children who have chronic, complex medical conditions cannot mask, and need safe access to care, support and community. Yet, still coviding folx continue to exclude and censor this community, essentially committing the same eugenics and ableism they purport to be against. #ableism #AbledSupremacy #eugenics #covid #AntiAbleism #MaskUp #stillcoviding2024 #COVID19 #disabled #DisabledParenting
I used this pathetic thing to prize a stuck Peppa Pig toy out from under the sofa when I couldn't reach it and then remembered I had a grown-up grabber aid right there. Very tragic. #DisabledParenting