Ace Community Survey 2025

October 1 is #InternationalMusicDay

And I got a free book for you where music plays a part:

"A Fundraiser Concert with The Demonettes" is a queer romance novella. You can download it here as a PDF or epub ebook: https://bit.ly/Demonettes

(The link leads to my Dropbox. You do not have to login or register there to download the ebook or PDF).

#reading #freebook #queerRomance #giveaway #books #music #agender #acespectrum #genderless

Asexuality is real. It’s valid. And it’s part of the rich spectrum of human diversity. 🌈 Being ace means experiencing little to no sexual attraction and that’s perfectly normal. Let’s break the silence, bust the myths, and embrace inclusion for all. 💜🤍🖤
#AsexualAwareness #AceVisibility #AceAndProud #InclusionMatters #LGBTQIA #HumanDiversity #AceSpectrum #RepresentationMatters #PrideEveryday #NoShameInNoAttraction

#selfpromosaturday
I am doing a give away with a novella: "A Fundraiser Concert with the Demonettes" is a wholesome queer story with a former post punk star and an antique dealer. Both are on the ace spectrum and the latter is agender.
You can download the ebook for free from my Dropbox, as a PDF or epub:
https://bit.ly/Demonettes

Feel free to boost.

#giveaway #acespec #acespectrum #queerromance #queerbooks #queerfiction #postpunk #goth #agender

A Fundraiser Concert with The Demonettes

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Esto sí merece mi voto, y no Eurovisión

❤️‍🔥sexy #EuropeanUnion citizens would sign this proposal to ban psychological "conversion" torture in the entire union💚

Are you 🫵 a sexy 💋 #EU citizen 🇪🇺?

https://eci.ec.europa.eu/043/public/#/screen/home

#LGBTRights #LGBTQRights #LGBT #LGBTA #LGBTAQ #LGBTQ #lesbian #sapphic #gay #gayeurope #achillean #homosexual #bi #bisexual #trans #transgender #transwoman #transfem #transman #transmasc #queer #nonbiany #nb #enby #ace #acespec #acespectrum

Folgeempfehlung:

@carmilladewinter

Carmilla ist neu im Fediverse. 👋 Beschreibung aus ihrer Bio:
Aroace activist, German, small-time blogger, writer of fiction and non-fiction, copy-editor, fanfiction afficionada, #StarOP grandma. More info at
https://carmilladewinter.com/

Carmilla hat u.a. dieses Sachbuch veröffentlicht: "Das asexuelle Spektrum - Eine Erkundungstour" (bei Marta Press).

#aro #acespectrum #acespec #aromantisch #asexualität #autor_innen
#schreibcommunity #fanfiction #blogger

Carmilla DeWinter

Phantastik und verquere Texte

Carmilla DeWinter

Give away:
I did an AU #fanfiction, later left the fandom for reasons and turned the fanfiction into original fiction, because the story had the potential for this.

It’s a short novella called „A Fundraiser Concert With The Demonettes“ and it is a wholesome queer romance. Both characters are on the #acespectrum and one of them is #agender.

You can download it here for free as an e-book (epub or PDF):
https://bit.ly/Demonettes
(Link leads to my Dropbox)

#queerfiction #fedibooks

Ich bin nicht mehr neu hier, mache aber mal wieder eine #Vorstellung, nur mit Hashtags, die mich so umtreiben. Weitere Details über mich gibts in der Bio und im angepinnten Beitrag.

persönlich:
#queer
#acespectrum
#agender
#genderless
#disability
#neurodivergent
#mentalillness
#mentalHealth

#vegan
#pagan
#witchcraft
#goth
#gothic

beruflich:
#MastoArt
#SchreibCommunity
#Fanfiction
#Fanart
#Schreiben
#Autor_innenLeben
#Lektorat
#SensitivityReading

📷 © @MarcoAnsing

I have a Christmas season Give-away for you. 😀

„A Fundraiser Concert with the Demonettes“

A wholesome queer novella with 44 pages. A hommage to the goth community and the music-genre post-punk. Both protagonists are on the ace-spectrum and Ainsley is agender/genderless.

You can download the novella as a e-book (epub) or PDF here:
https://bit.ly/Demonettes

Enjoy the read. 😊

#giveaway #agender #queerbooks #acespectrum #postpunk #goth #novella

A Fundraiser Concert with The Demonettes

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I think we need more information about attraction models because most of them just don't fit. Short labeling I am a polyamorous bisexual trans woman but that doesn't explain everything because I am also demi.

When I am at work or around others, I never get this sexual appetite others get. I don't have this attraction. In fact I forget sex is even a thing until my body says it needs it or my wifish walks by and rubs me. When I am at work or with friends this does not cross my mind. Like EVER. I often have to pause, evaluate and meditate if I even like a person and even then unless you are very special the sexua and romanticl interest generally fades.

But because of this ( despite this? ) sex to me has very high value and simultaneously very low value. I have had interest in sex with people with zero interest in romantic attraction. I wanted to be used, or make someone happy, or whatever because this is generally is valueless to me. If it makes someone happy so be it. Also makes polyamory quite easy when your attatchement is to a person and not to the things in the bedroom they provide.

Sexual and romantic attatchment/attraction to me are completely disjoint. I have been in completely consensual environments where I was the middle of a threesome because it's what people wanted. Okay whatever. It makes you happy, it's fun for me to so long as I consented. I truly feel that a great deal of what we view as "normal" really came as a reaction to the World Wars and late stage capitalism.

Our attraction models are garbage and as questioning your attraction, sexuality and gender is Taboo, I really don't think it's something we can even begin to quantify or qualify. I've met plenty of people that have described to me they are asexual. I have met a great deal of people that practice a wide variety of ethical nonmonogamy. Down to geographical proximity of when that is breakable by rule or based around the person being a sociopath. I love her to death, that's a reference to her disorder ( self described ) not an insult or an attack btw.

I really don't ever feel comfortable in telling people what "should" be when what is generally under the label of "should" is just weird latestage capitalist, allonormative nonsense. I just felt the need to vaguerant. I'll go hide in my hole again.

#acespectrum #lgbt #queer