Floris Bruynooghe

@flub
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I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.

In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.

In 2005 I started medical transition. For the state to recognise this I had to submit to standards of "care" which were humiliating, degrading and which placed me at risk of violence.

But I did it "by the book"

As I did it "by the book", the NHS agreed to reregister me as female, which makes sense because my anatomy now is.

In 2007 I had sex reassignment surgery. This had to be signed off by two mental health professionals, "by the book", and it was.

In 2008 I applied for gender recognition. This involved signing a statutory obligation, stating that I promised, BY LAW, to live fully as female for the rest of my life. As this was done, "by the book", the government promised that it would treat me as such.

Its first act as treating me as female was to annul our marriage because it was a same sex marriage and those were not allowed.

The state then reissued my birth certificate, correcting the "mistake" it had originally made when it recorded me as male, "by the book".

In 2009 Sylvia and I married for the second time, in a same sex civil partnership, which was done "by the book", because the state regarded me as female and I was bound by law to be female.

In 2013 we married again, because the state decided that same sex marriage was in fact allowed after all. This was done, "by the book". Despite having been married for 12 years, we had to submit ourselves to individual questioning to prove our relationship was genuine, "by the book".

In April of 2025 the state turned round and told me that I had been mistaken. That it never regarded me as female. That I was male the whole time. That the marriage it annulled because it was a same sex marriage was never a same sex marriage (but it stays annulled). That the civil partnership in 2009 never really happened because "opposite sex" civil partnerships were not allowed in 2009.

And that the legal obligation I have to live as female for the rest of my life, which I signed and gave up my marriage for, is still in effect but also if I keep following it, I am breaking the law and subject to arrest. As it's still valid, presumably if I don't keep following it, I am also breaking the law and subject to arrest.

The law of the land simultaneously requires me to be both a man and a woman and if I do either then I am breaking the law and subject to arrest.

At every stage I did what the state asked me to, even though it was humiliating, degrading and cruel.

And it kept moving the goalposts, and reneging on the agreements it made, whilst continuing to hold me to them even when they are now mutually contradictory.

Apparently this is "all my fault" and I should have known that this would be the consequences of my actions when I started medical transition 2 decades ago.

Perhaps you can now appreciate why we are upset?

Reminder that if you have Covid (or the mysterious unidentifiable "summer flu" with the same symptoms lmao) that the very best thing to do is: nothing.

Like yes hydrate, eat, take meds if you can get them. But the most important thing to do to stave off long covid is to radically rest. That means: brain off. Become potato. Do as little as possible. Ideally for around a month.

Reminder that https://github.com/djc/pyrtls is a thing that exists (and I would be willing to invest more if people wanted to start using it).

https://ioc.exchange/@durumcrustulum/115040969098080227

GitHub - djc/pyrtls: rustls-based modern TLS for Python

rustls-based modern TLS for Python. Contribute to djc/pyrtls development by creating an account on GitHub.

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Owl in Valdes Penisula, Argentina, 📸 02/2019

#owl #eule #animal #nature #natur #animals #tier #nationalpark #valdespenisula #argentina
An example of algorithmic resistance

Hill that I'll die on: you're doing code review wrong* if you do it primarily in a web browser UI.

Do it locally in your real development env/IDE!

The navigation is so much better. You can try little tweaks before suggesting them as feedback. You get more warnings/type hints/git blame/& all the other integrations you use the rest of the time.

* (sure, small changes you're reviewing on the go don't need a full local checkout. But for reviewing work of real substance, why knee-cap yourself?)

You might look at this request and think, "this is not going to make any real change, it's just performative posting, not activism" but if you can't even be bothered to click a link and submit a trivial form, be real. Are you actually doing any *other* real activism instead, with that 45 seconds you saved? It matters to Euan, it probably matters to quite a few other trans folks, for us to just stand up and say "we care" for a moment.

https://speedlines.stctp.zone/@Euan/115050687614085570
Euan 2025 (@Euan@stctp.zone)

Hey, something that regularly bums me out is that #Lego continues to make Harry Potter products. Lego brings me a lot of comfort, but their complicity in JK Rowling's hate campaign sours that significantly. As a trans person, it makes me feel kinda helpless and invisible. So I'd appreciate it if y'all could help me boost this petition across the fediverse, and share it around with group chats, and other socials if you're on them! Not necessarily because I expect Lego to listen to a change.org petition, but because it would give me a lot more hope and faith in people if the voices saying "Hey, it's really messed up that Lego is doing this" were a lot louder than they are now. (Alt-text: a change.org petition called "LEGO: End your relationship with JK Rowling and the Harry Potter franchise.") https://chng.it/mgvbH5qw5h

STCTP Speedlines
🔥🔥WATCH: “Rappers are smarter than economists”👇🏽 @dossdiscourse.bsky.social explains more cops doesn’t lower crime it just means more money for private prisons— Addressing poverty/hunger/health care lowers crime… but Trump’s trillions transfer just made all that MUCH WORSE… meaning crime will rise.
rustfmt.toml containing "hard_tabs = true; max_width = 140". Oh no no no

Digging into the drive in my NAS that faulted, I'm reminded that magnetic hard drives are preposterously magical technology.

Case in point, using Seagate's tools I can get the drive to tell me how much it's adjusted the fly height of each of its 18 heads over the drive's lifetime, to compensate for wear and stuff. The drive provides these numbers in _thousandths of an angstrom_, or 0.1 _picometers_.

For reference, one helium atom is about 49 picometers in diameter. The drive is adjusting each head individually, in increments of a fraction of a helium atom, to keep them at the right height. I can't find numbers of modern drives, but what I can find for circa ten years ago is that the overall fly height had been reduced to under a nanometer, so the drive head is hovering on a gas bearing that's maybe 10-20 helium atoms thick, and adjusting its position even more minutely than that

This is _extremely_ silly. You can buy a box that contains not just one, but several copies of a mechanism capable of sub-picometer altitude control, and store shitposts on it! That's wild.

Anyway my sad drive apparently looks like it had a head impact, not a full crash but I guess clipped a tiny peak on the platter and splattered a couple thousand sectors. Yow. But I'm told this isn't too uncommon, and isn't the end of the world? Which is, again, just ludicrous to think of. The drive head that appears to have bonked something has adjusted its altitude by almost 0.5 picometers in its 2.5 years in service. Is that a lot? I have no idea!

Aside from having to resilver the array and the reallocated sector count taking a big spike, the drive is now fine and both SMART and vendor data say it could eat this many sectors again 8-9 times before hitting the warranty RMA threshold. Which is very silly. But I guess I should keep an eye on it.

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An example of algorithmic resistance
@Xeniax this seems like what people in China have been doing for decades. The Machine does not quit.
@Qbitzerre @Xeniax Yeah, didn’t they start using GitHub repositories for communicating, knowing it would be impossible for the government to ban GitHub?
@mmcknett @Xeniax I didn't know about that but I think they've learned to be pretty clever. And there's an entire culture surrounding the ability to communicate in code. It seems that's the way we are headed in the United States.
@mmcknett @Qbitzerre @Xeniax Maybe they can start coordinating on MS Teams so that becomes the next thing the US Govt tries to ban putting us all out of our misery.
@Qbitzerre @Xeniax I love the way people get around things in China. I wish I could share this on RedNote, I mean the original post, but I can't. As my Brit buddies say, "It's brilliant!"

@Xeniax

Genius! The ICE be damned...

@Xeniax this is brilliant and probably the only way to fight back now.
@pedroleitao @Xeniax this also has a beneficial effect that normie/centrist folk who like music but don't want to get "too political" (or just want to avoid "bad news") and avoid more activist focused places like Fedi are still likely to see and maybe be influenced by the protest videos..

@vfrmedia @pedroleitao @Xeniax

You reminded me that someone could begin to tag some of the posts around other retail/capitalist things such as clothing lines, retail spaces, cleaning products, etc. Just to mix it up.

@MyWoolyMastadon @vfrmedia @Xeniax that is a great idea! beat the algorythms!
@vfrmedia @pedroleitao @Xeniax counter point: I'm rather leftist, but seeing this 24/7 is fucking exhausting and sometimes I do want to genuinely avoid it for my own mental health.
@Xeniax This is genius and I'm calling for an immediate review of all the other censor-evading terms. Instead of "unalive", why not "Boeing"?
@jackeric @Xeniax so something like "Noem the Trumps"?
@Xeniax i have called violence "angry moshing" on meta before to get through similar censorship. I hate that we have to do it but I love how people are finding language to do it.
This is the Insta version of the image I was afraid would get taken down for calling for violence btw 🙃
@Xeniax I disagree. Social Media and the MSM are focused on whatever new shiny thing that will generate the clicks. 2 weeks ago it was the Epstein files. Then it was Texas gerrymandering, Then it was the DC takeover. Climate Change, education, healthcare, honesty, integrity, ethics are dull and difficult problems that take a long time to resolve and users have short attention spans.

@Oldmikie

That too, but there is active censorship going on.

@Xeniax

@tomjennings @Oldmikie @Xeniax Yep. That a platform that algorithmically hid users with visible disabilities wouldn't censor protests too is a bit too hopeful.
https://www.pcmag.com/news/tiktok-censored-ugly-poor-or-disabled-people-to-attract-more-users
TikTok Censored 'Ugly, Poor, or Disabled' People to Attract More Users

Documents reveal how the popular app also censorsed content that would harm China's reputation or 'defames' civil servants, politicians, or religious leaders.

@Xeniax
Interesting I did not know that Tik Tok of all platforms was censoring
@ChrisHolladay @Xeniax
Do you know anything about the Chinese video platform TikTok?
@leeloo @Xeniax
I dont have it.
I was under the assumption it was one of the least censored platforms

@ChrisHolladay @Xeniax
Maybe because it (used to) mostly censor stuff the Chinese government doesn't like, rather than what the US government and churches dislike...

Trump got really unhappy about that.

@ChrisHolladay @Xeniax

Dude.

Have you not noticed the enormous list of euphemisms people have been using in videos for several years now? That's because TikTok squelches anything that uses certain words.

Also the thing's Chinese, so good luck bringing up, oh, say, Tiananmen Square etc.

ALL of the big platforms squelch anything they don't like. All of them.

(or was that sarcasm?)

@Xeniax
Resistance is useful! Resistance is useful!

@Xeniax Or a sign for #dictatorship or an #authoritarian regime!
People in countries with dictators did this long before algorithms. Every #resistance movement had a special language or code words. And they still do it without electronic devices.

So you can learn from history how to #resist.

@NatureMC @Xeniax in the USSR it was known as samizdat

and isn’t that desire to avoid censorship/gatekeeping part of what powers the zine movement ?

@Xeniax I love the LA music festival!
@Xeniax it's like straight out of a Cory Doctorow novel 😄

@Xeniax the LA Music Festival posts are spreading (mostly) misinformation about the size and quantity of these protests.

Videos frequently include BLM protests, ai fabrications, etc.

Users that believe they are sidestepping algorithmic suppression of massive, violent demonstrations are engaging with a conspiracy theory.

It might be an attempt at algorithmic resistance, but it is more revealing of our fractured information landscape.

Still cyberpunk af, but in the bad, cautionary way.

@mick @Xeniax I hate how much the "it's PRACTICALLY true" bullshit has spread to the left. I don't know if people just think they have to do it to compete with the right's firehose of lies or if it's bad actors.

I have had arguments on many platforms with people knowingly spreading fake info because the video or screenshot evokes the "correct" response and therefore is true "enough"...

It's a losing battle and frustrating as hell.

@Xeniax Reminds me of a post about gnomes with orange hats I read about the other day!
Orange Alternative - Wikipedia

@hosford42 @Xeniax Love this. Great rabbithole to go down.

@Xeniax tbh the main problem I have with this is that it's taking place on tiktok

sure, I love it for the people who use tiktok, but me personally I refuse to ever touch that platform with a 10 metre pole

@solonovamax I posted similar comment then read yours. nice to see systems thinkers are out there. well, on here actually.

@Xeniax Original source (August 8, 2025).

tl;dr: likely pre-emptive censorship; be careful not to speculate

in comments, tumblr user afriendofblahaj links this YT video by Etymology Nerd, who says there is actually little evidence TikTok is censoring or silencing content about anti-ICE protests, but that the "festival" tag is an interesting example of people both pre-emptively self-censoring and finding like-minded people using euphemistic code words.

he's quoted similarly in this Axios post about Washington, DC "music festivals", which notes that TikTok does not formally prohibit protest content. (Here's another article with some comments & statements from TikTok users.)

TikTok recently announced they're revamping their Community Guidelines. Mashable's breakdown notes:

The section on Misinformation, nestled in Integrity and Authenticity, is mostly the same but with some language edits. For example, the previous guidelines state that unverified information about emergencies is ineligible for the For You Feed; the new ones say the same about "crises and major civic events."

People are speculating this may be a response to content about current protests, but I doubt TikTok will say anything explicitly.

What I would want to know before boosting this: is there actual evidence certain tags or content are being de-prioritized or silenced, or are people just anticipating it? E. g. can you still find useful information about protests on relevant tags/are people's posts about protests not showing up for followers?

Note: this particular screenshot was posted by "The Shitposting Robot" on Facebook (August 13, 2025). This is a page that uses Facebook's paid subscription option to make money off of screenshotting other people's posts, watermarking them, and posting them without credit, links, dates, or other context. You can decide for yourself whether this is a trustworthy source of information.

Postscript on research methods:

I found the original source by Googling (with udm=14) "thewitchoftheweed"+"la music festival", although searching for the first sentence in quotes also brings up many reblogs (which all have links to the original, because of how Tumblr reblogging works).

I found the articles by Googling "TikTok festival censorship", clicking the News tab, and using the "Tools" menu to sort by date instead of relevancy. (Query.)

I found the original Facebook post of the screenshot by Googling "the shitposting robot", finding the Facebook page, and going through their photos from Aug. 8 (the original post's publication date) onwards.

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@nev thanks for making this work and linking the source. Please don't yell at me with capslock ;) I happen to be a mom of two tiny human beings who depend on me, and I do not always have time to dig and do "research". I wish I could, that would improve the quality of the posts. But when I came across this screenshot, I wanted to immediately share it on Fedi, I found this interesting. Being a long term Russian oppositioner I have seen those kinds of practices deployed in my country and I am always interested in mapping those initiatives. This was the intention behind the post.
@Xeniax My apologies for yelling; I'll edit it out of my post.
@nev you did a very important work by finding the original post and bringing in more depth into this thread. I am really surprised it got shared so much, while it's just a repost of someone's ideas. And of course I am highly critical of TikTok myself. But I can't judge people who want to use it to make their cause widely known and seen beyond their bubble...

@nev @Xeniax

if a communication medium is centralized and controlled by geopolitical and plutocrat agendas, you can't trust it, regardless of the particular details of this episode

@nev @Xeniax

i understand why people use #tikTok:

easy to use, works, the immediacy of video

but it's controlled by a totalitarian govt

and #jeffYass

the largest #GOP donor

who also funded an #israel right wing think tank to help #netanyahu stay in power

when someone posts pro-#palestine content or anti-#ICE content to tik tok:

1. they are feeding what they are fighting

2. they are abrogating their privacy to their enemy

3. they trust their foe to control their content and their feed

@benroyce @nev @Xeniax

I have never used Tiktok - and genially dislike it. Can't stand YT Shorts, same story.

Getting close to my ultimate tensile strength with social media of all sorts. Look at this place - who can get a cogent thought out in 500 chars ?

Bah.

@tuban_muzuru TikTok is a plague, which makes sense, given that it was designed as a penetration tool, and the knowledge that it would do great harm. I agree with you broadly but secretly enjoy the mental exercise that I'm forced to do when I want to express myself with limited characters.

@Gustodon

Everyone gets Tiktok wrong. Global headquarters is in Singapore and Los Angeles.

Not Communist China.

So let's not run around saying it's controlled by a totalitarian government. Singapore may not be a democracy but it's a hell of an improvement on PRC.

@tuban_muzuru Go back further. Take a closer look at ByteDance.

TikTok is the most effective cyber-warfare device ever deployed.

@Gustodon

In Dec 2022, there was an insider breach of user data by two Tiktok employees trying to track down leakers. They were fired.

There's the 2023 allegation saying CCP had a god key - that allowed them to look into dissidents' accounts. This is pretty much bullshit - Chinese - and Russian dissidents use Signal and Telegram, not short video. This is a particularly stupid allegation.

There's also WhatsApp. Weibo and WeChat used coded phrases but that's just ordinary people grumbling

@tuban_muzuru Go back. I'm talking about the original idea in 2016 and the proud online bragging they were doing in 2018.

I don't appreciate being called racist and ignorant so I'm going to move on to other discussions.

@tuban_muzuru @Gustodon

tuban:

bytedance must follow the laws of the chinese govt

@benroyce @Gustodon

Inside PRC - that's true - but the business is in Singapore and USA.

Tell you what I think - the Tiktok fiasco is just more American racist ignorance - they have no idea how many people speak Chinese outside of China,

@tuban_muzuru @Gustodon

i think #taiwan blocks #tiktok for reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with #sinophobia

this bullshit:

"you don't want #socialMedia controlled by a totalitarian govt? nah you're just a sinophobe"

is the same as

"you only criticize israel because you're an antisemite":

lying deflection

#bytedance is a company in china

it is subject to the laws of china

nothing to do with with the people or culture of china

the problem is the govt of #china