Floris Bruynooghe

@flub
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Rust & Python developer, mountaineer, paraglider.
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I want to explain a few things and then it might be clearer why UK trans people are upset.

In 2001 I married my wife, Sylvia.

In 2005 I started medical transition. For the state to recognise this I had to submit to standards of "care" which were humiliating, degrading and which placed me at risk of violence.

But I did it "by the book"

As I did it "by the book", the NHS agreed to reregister me as female, which makes sense because my anatomy now is.

In 2007 I had sex reassignment surgery. This had to be signed off by two mental health professionals, "by the book", and it was.

In 2008 I applied for gender recognition. This involved signing a statutory obligation, stating that I promised, BY LAW, to live fully as female for the rest of my life. As this was done, "by the book", the government promised that it would treat me as such.

Its first act as treating me as female was to annul our marriage because it was a same sex marriage and those were not allowed.

The state then reissued my birth certificate, correcting the "mistake" it had originally made when it recorded me as male, "by the book".

In 2009 Sylvia and I married for the second time, in a same sex civil partnership, which was done "by the book", because the state regarded me as female and I was bound by law to be female.

In 2013 we married again, because the state decided that same sex marriage was in fact allowed after all. This was done, "by the book". Despite having been married for 12 years, we had to submit ourselves to individual questioning to prove our relationship was genuine, "by the book".

In April of 2025 the state turned round and told me that I had been mistaken. That it never regarded me as female. That I was male the whole time. That the marriage it annulled because it was a same sex marriage was never a same sex marriage (but it stays annulled). That the civil partnership in 2009 never really happened because "opposite sex" civil partnerships were not allowed in 2009.

And that the legal obligation I have to live as female for the rest of my life, which I signed and gave up my marriage for, is still in effect but also if I keep following it, I am breaking the law and subject to arrest. As it's still valid, presumably if I don't keep following it, I am also breaking the law and subject to arrest.

The law of the land simultaneously requires me to be both a man and a woman and if I do either then I am breaking the law and subject to arrest.

At every stage I did what the state asked me to, even though it was humiliating, degrading and cruel.

And it kept moving the goalposts, and reneging on the agreements it made, whilst continuing to hold me to them even when they are now mutually contradictory.

Apparently this is "all my fault" and I should have known that this would be the consequences of my actions when I started medical transition 2 decades ago.

Perhaps you can now appreciate why we are upset?

Reminder that if you have Covid (or the mysterious unidentifiable "summer flu" with the same symptoms lmao) that the very best thing to do is: nothing.

Like yes hydrate, eat, take meds if you can get them. But the most important thing to do to stave off long covid is to radically rest. That means: brain off. Become potato. Do as little as possible. Ideally for around a month.

Reminder that https://github.com/djc/pyrtls is a thing that exists (and I would be willing to invest more if people wanted to start using it).

https://ioc.exchange/@durumcrustulum/115040969098080227

GitHub - djc/pyrtls: rustls-based modern TLS for Python

rustls-based modern TLS for Python. Contribute to djc/pyrtls development by creating an account on GitHub.

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Owl in Valdes Penisula, Argentina, 📸 02/2019

#owl #eule #animal #nature #natur #animals #tier #nationalpark #valdespenisula #argentina
An example of algorithmic resistance

Hill that I'll die on: you're doing code review wrong* if you do it primarily in a web browser UI.

Do it locally in your real development env/IDE!

The navigation is so much better. You can try little tweaks before suggesting them as feedback. You get more warnings/type hints/git blame/& all the other integrations you use the rest of the time.

* (sure, small changes you're reviewing on the go don't need a full local checkout. But for reviewing work of real substance, why knee-cap yourself?)

You might look at this request and think, "this is not going to make any real change, it's just performative posting, not activism" but if you can't even be bothered to click a link and submit a trivial form, be real. Are you actually doing any *other* real activism instead, with that 45 seconds you saved? It matters to Euan, it probably matters to quite a few other trans folks, for us to just stand up and say "we care" for a moment.

https://speedlines.stctp.zone/@Euan/115050687614085570
Euan 2025 (@Euan@stctp.zone)

Hey, something that regularly bums me out is that #Lego continues to make Harry Potter products. Lego brings me a lot of comfort, but their complicity in JK Rowling's hate campaign sours that significantly. As a trans person, it makes me feel kinda helpless and invisible. So I'd appreciate it if y'all could help me boost this petition across the fediverse, and share it around with group chats, and other socials if you're on them! Not necessarily because I expect Lego to listen to a change.org petition, but because it would give me a lot more hope and faith in people if the voices saying "Hey, it's really messed up that Lego is doing this" were a lot louder than they are now. (Alt-text: a change.org petition called "LEGO: End your relationship with JK Rowling and the Harry Potter franchise.") https://chng.it/mgvbH5qw5h

STCTP Speedlines
🔥🔥WATCH: “Rappers are smarter than economists”👇🏽 @dossdiscourse.bsky.social explains more cops doesn’t lower crime it just means more money for private prisons— Addressing poverty/hunger/health care lowers crime… but Trump’s trillions transfer just made all that MUCH WORSE… meaning crime will rise.
rustfmt.toml containing "hard_tabs = true; max_width = 140". Oh no no no

Digging into the drive in my NAS that faulted, I'm reminded that magnetic hard drives are preposterously magical technology.

Case in point, using Seagate's tools I can get the drive to tell me how much it's adjusted the fly height of each of its 18 heads over the drive's lifetime, to compensate for wear and stuff. The drive provides these numbers in _thousandths of an angstrom_, or 0.1 _picometers_.

For reference, one helium atom is about 49 picometers in diameter. The drive is adjusting each head individually, in increments of a fraction of a helium atom, to keep them at the right height. I can't find numbers of modern drives, but what I can find for circa ten years ago is that the overall fly height had been reduced to under a nanometer, so the drive head is hovering on a gas bearing that's maybe 10-20 helium atoms thick, and adjusting its position even more minutely than that

This is _extremely_ silly. You can buy a box that contains not just one, but several copies of a mechanism capable of sub-picometer altitude control, and store shitposts on it! That's wild.

Anyway my sad drive apparently looks like it had a head impact, not a full crash but I guess clipped a tiny peak on the platter and splattered a couple thousand sectors. Yow. But I'm told this isn't too uncommon, and isn't the end of the world? Which is, again, just ludicrous to think of. The drive head that appears to have bonked something has adjusted its altitude by almost 0.5 picometers in its 2.5 years in service. Is that a lot? I have no idea!

Aside from having to resilver the array and the reallocated sector count taking a big spike, the drive is now fine and both SMART and vendor data say it could eat this many sectors again 8-9 times before hitting the warranty RMA threshold. Which is very silly. But I guess I should keep an eye on it.