Pat Farenga discussing Ivan Illich's "Deschooling Society":

"he makes a very powerful case that it [school] is indeed a modern ritual that we've created. Based on his studies of religious practice, religion, and his understanding of rituals and their purpose. As he says in the book the ritual of schooling hides--like most rituals do--it hides what happens. So if you do the rain dance, and the rain doesn't happen, it's not because the ritual is wrong. It's because you didn't do it hard enough. You didn't pray hard enough. You didn't mean it enough. So the ritual has that thing of protecting the servers of the ritual at the expense of those in it. And he said that in education what happens, those who have the most money or advantage continue to have it. And schooling is not addressing the people who need it the most, but instead uses the ritual to make them feel ashamed, to remediate them, to keep knocking them back."
#unschooling

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On a separate but related note: anyone (ideally UK-based but not essential) doing elective home education / child-led learning? #homeed #electivehomeducation #homeschooling #unschooling
Hi I'm new! Excited to join a community away from the old bones. I'm into
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Here are some things that I am interested in that my kids have gotten curious about too:
- calisthenics. I enjoy doing things like pushups, pull-ups and squats. My kids will try to do them too.
- running. I like running and have done a 5k recently. I would jog while pushing the kids in a stroller. Now my older son will race me while I push my younger son in the stroller. We look like a bunch of maniacs, but it's fun!
- Mastodon. I will read different posts, and they will ask about the different people that they see. As you know, you can learn some obscure things here πŸ˜ƒ.
- bird watching. I got back into it during the pandemic. The kids like doing the sound ID with the Merlin app.
- math. I really enjoy math. It comes up all the time. My older son has been enjoying finding situations where he can do division.

Some are more closely related to school subjects than other, but all involve learning.

#unschooling

I really like unschooling, because it meshes with my experience that kids are natural learners. But it can really throw people off; they say things like how will kids learn if they don't go to school? The unschooling approach is to first take the brakes off that are preventing learning. Things like forcing kids to learn topics on the school's schedule, grading, and limiting movement for good chunks of the day. These things can seem necessary and effective, but tend to limit self-motivated learning. And they are no fun! The more these pressures are lifted, kids have time to explore their own interests, which leads to rich learning.

With unschooling, there is still plenty for adults to do to help support kids with learning. We can express interest in whatever they find cool. We can help when they get stuck or something is more difficult than expected. And we can explore our own interests and share them with the kids. The kids will want to see what you're up to.

#unschooling
#selfDirectedEducation

I understand why people approve of violent coercive social systems -- they benefit from them! But to deny the obvious fact that violence is required to keep the system working is so transparently self-delusion I'd think they'd be embarrassed to expose themselves.

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Nazo (@[email protected])

@[email protected] @[email protected] Who the heck said a single word about violence? "It is required" does not in any way imply "at gunpoint." This law is not in any way enforced at gunpoint in any country I know of. Even here in America with all its *numerous* problems with violence it is not. The most violent thing I know of is if a parent continues to refuse to do basic required things for their child, the child may be separated. (This I will qualify as violence in its own way, but the safety of the child does matter too. It is complicated and will not fit character limits.) That is done in a courtroom, not at gunpoint. If your country uses guns to enforce this, then I will agree that that is not ok. Anyone who ever points a gun at a child is inherently broken.

URUSAI! Social

A very good read from an unschooling parent as her oldest child leaves the nest.

I especially appreciate what she writes about how unschooling is "antisocial," but not in the way people think. Not that kiddo has no opportunities to be social, but that parents choosing to unschool feels like rejecting the rest of "normal" society.

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I unschooled my daughter all the way to a prestigious college, and all I got was these lousy 5,099 days

https://smallthingsgrowing.substack.com/p/i-homeschooled-my-daughter-all-the
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I unschooled my daughter all the way to a prestigious college, and all I got was these lousy 5,099 days

A letter to my younger self

Small Things Growing
"I did it... because I wanted to believe it was possible.... because ultimately, I wanted to believe we could build a better world, full stop. I wanted to believe...our strengths would carry us through, that if we had the time to lean into them, we would better be capable of imagining a better world and actually contributing to it. I wanted to believe that if we had the time to be curious about the world, we would love it all the more."
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https://smallthingsgrowing.substack.com/p/i-homeschooled-my-daughter-all-the
I unschooled my daughter all the way to a prestigious college, and all I got was these lousy 5,099 days

A letter to my younger self

Small Things Growing