In Praise of Romance: Why “Comfort Reads” Carry Culture
When I was about eighteen or nineteen, my uncle gave my sister, Sarah, and me five hundred Harlequin romances. My father was horrified, but we were delighted. We read every single one of them. For every book I finished, Sarah read four — so you can imagine how quickly she made her way through the stack, and how many late-night conversations we shared comparing plots, heroines, and rogues. Eventually, we passed the books along for others to enjoy, but I sometimes wish I had kept a few of those vintage Harlequins. They were part of a season in our lives, a shared sisterly adventure that still makes me smile.
Fast forward to this summer, when I read Stephen Akey’s essay ‘The Rakish Rogue Who Loved Me” in The Hedgehog Review. In it, Akey introduces us to Elizabeth, a well-known New York editor who lives in an apartment lined not with the Booker winners or Pulitzer shortlists, but with row upon row of romance novels. She loves them unapologetically.
For Elizabeth, romance reading is not a step down from “serious” literature; it is an alternative to the self-consciously difficult books that dominate award lists and critical acclaim. Where some novels demand labour and solemnity, romance offers pleasure, connection, and hope. Elizabeth reminds us that joy is just as valid a literary aim as complexity.
Stephen Akey confesses that her example unsettled him:
“In considering Elizabeth’s reading life, I can hardly avoid thinking about my own. Inevitably, if unintentionally, she unsettles virtually every one of my assumptions about reading. It’s a chastening experience. Must I always read with care and deliberation?”
That question stayed with me.
For months, I had Julie Garwood’s “Ransom” waiting on my Kindle. Inspired by Elizabeth’s reading life and Akey’s reflection, I finally opened it. Within minutes, I was swept into the medieval Highlands—into a story of loyalty, justice, and courage wrapped in the irresistible pace of a romance. I understood, once again, why these novels are addictive.
Romance novels endure because they offer more than entertainment. They give hope. In times of uncertainty, the promise of a happy ending is not trivial—it is radical. They provide community. From Harlequin shelves to on-line reading rooms, readers find belonging through these stories. At the same time we can recognize that courage, trust, forgiveness, and love reflect the story of humanity.
For too long, romance has been dismissed as unserious or even shameful. Yet, what could be more serious than love, or more essential than hope? Romance, far from being escapist fluff, is one of the most deeply embedded cultural forms we have.
My takeaways from the article from Stephen Akey can be distilled into these thoughts:
Romance novels are a form of cultural storytelling that carries hope across generations. They remind us that joy, courage, and compassion belong in our reading lives as much as “serious” deliberation.
Romance is rarely read in isolation. My sister Sarah and I proved that with our five hundred Harlequins, racing each other through the pages and comparing notes late into the night. The books became a shared language between us — a way to laugh, debate, and dream together. That, to me, is the hidden strength of the genre: it builds community. From sisters sharing shelves, to friends swapping titles, to strangers connecting over on-line reading room recommendations, romance reminds us that love is never solitary — it is always relational.
Until the next page turns,
Rebecca
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