How To Raise a Reader in an Age of Digital Distraction
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How To Raise a Reader in an Age of Digital Distraction
Jessica Ewing on the Ways Parents Can Promote Thoughtful Technology Use and Sustainable Reading Habits
By Jessica Ewing, September 15, 2025
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People make certain assumptions about you when youâre the CEO of a childrenâs book company. Some assume I must have spent my childhood summers in a hammock reading Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm, or winters taking turns reading Little Women by the ïŹre with my sisters. The reality is far more complicated, quite a bit less wholesome, and probably more familiar to most parents reading this.
The truth is I spent a good chunk of my childhood rotating between three game consolesâa Sega Genesis, a Gameboy, and a multitude of PC games, some featuring nudity and/or violence. During the school year, I had the entire TGIF television lineup memorized (and still do). My idea of a middle grade novel was Carrie, which I conveniently âborrowedâ from my brotherâs vast Stephen King collection.
That isnât to say I didnât grow up with books and even age-appropriate onesâjust that I donât recall my parents being particularly concerned about screen time. There was no cultural panic about technology rotting my brain. We werenât unusual in this regard. Screens were alive and well in my childhood, just as they are today.
The real challenge isnât technology itself, but how technology has evolved to actively compete with the very cognitive processes that reading requires.
The difference wasnât the presence of technology in our lives; it was the nature of our relationship with it.
When I ïŹred up Kings Quest VI, I committed. I guided Alexander through the Land of Green Isles, memorized the magic map, and worked my ass off to solve the puzzles at the Cliffs of Logic. The game didnât ping me with notiïŹcations every few minutes. It didnât track my behavior to sell me anything. It didnât fragment my attention into bite-sized dopamine hits designed by teams of psychologists to maximize engagement. It was, in its own way, long-form content that demanded sustained focusânot so different from the mental muscles required for reading.
This distinction matters more than we might think, especially for those of us trying to raise readers in 2025. Itâs easy to blame screens wholesale for declining literacy rates, but I ïŹnd that both reductive and unhelpful. The real challenge isnât technology itself, but how technology has evolved to actively compete with the very cognitive processes that reading requires.
The Unnatural Act of Reading
Hereâs something that might surprise you: reading isnât natural. Unlike speaking, which humans develop organically, reading is an acquired skill that literally rewires the brain. Neuroscientist Maryanne Wolf, whose research has fundamentally shaped my understanding of how children develop as readers, describes reading as âan unnatural actâ that requires us to connect disparate neural pathways in ways evolution never intended.
Wolfâs work reveals something remarkable about the reading brain. When we read, weâre essentially performing a complex neural symphony. Our brains must coordinate visual processing, language comprehension, memory systems, and abstract thinkingâall in milliseconds. This isnât something that happens automatically. Itâs built through practice, repetition, and what Wolf calls âdeep reading circuits.â
Children who become strong readers develop these circuits through thousands of hours of focused attention on text. Their brains learn to process written language with increasing ïŹuency until the act becomes as natural as breathing. But hereâs the crucial part: these circuits are fragile, especially in the early years. They require sustained, focused attention to develop properly.
This is where our modern digital landscape becomes genuinely problematic. Not because screens are inherently evil, but because many of todayâs digital experiences are speciïŹcally designed to prevent such sustained attention.
When Screens Turned Predatory
The screens of my childhood were fundamentally different than what our children encounter today. When I played Where In The World Is Carmen Sandiego, the game wanted me to stay engaged, certainly, but it didnât have access to sophisticated behavioral data about what kept me playing. It couldnât A/B test different reward schedules or generate feedback loops from my friends with every action I took. Carmen didnât appear suddenly with a sponsored post that preyed on my insecurities and tried to sell me teeth whitening gel.
Todayâs digital experiences are built on what tech insiders call âpersuasive designââinterfaces deliberately crafted to maximize time on screen through intermittent variable rewards, social validation loops, and carefully calibrated frustration. These arenât accidents. Theyâre the result of millions of dollars in research into human psychology and memory, designed speciïŹcally to capture (and fragment) attention.
The average child now receives their ïŹrst smartphone around age 10 and spends over seven hours a day on screens. But far more troubling than the raw hours is how this time is spent: in short bursts, rapidly switching between apps, constantly responding to notiïŹcations and alerts.
This creates what researchers call âcontinuous partial attentionââa state where weâre always monitoring multiple streams of information but never fully focused on any single task. Itâs the cognitive equivalent of trying to build muscles by switching between machines every few seconds before we can get in a single quality set.
And yet, hereâs what gives me hope in the data: not all children are struggling. While average reading scores have indeed declined, the top-performing readers are actually doing better than ever before. This suggests that the challenge isnât insurmountableâsome families and schools are successfully navigating this landscape. The question is: what are they doing differently?
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