@pattykimura @sgt1372 In real life and by mail, it was Asian and those who now call themselves #Hapa I loved, who first distanced or completely ghosted me.
I remember overhearing the parents and grandparents of my Pinoy and Spanish speaking neighbors caution against spending too much time with me because I was too dark skinned.
That memory of that distant past is still painful, because today so many still think that way.