1. Dad is not as combative in his dementia now that he’s receiving IV meds for his pneumonia.
2. Thanks to the cane I keep in the back of my car,
I was able to walk the 1/4 mile and back between the parking garage and hospital (construction going on)
3. The geriatrics nurse practitioner called and offered some much needed new information and advice and tips for me on how they’re planning to help manage dad’s sundowning when he’s past the flu and pneumonia. Honestly, it was like a light was turned back on in the tunnel of darkness I’ve been in.

#threeGoodThings #3goodthings #agingparents #anxiety #gratitude

Got a bit behind on my Small Moments posts. Yesterday was a hard day. They had to bring dad to the ER from the rehab facility as he’d had quite a sundowning episode. Turned out he has Flu A and pneumonia in the lower left lobe. No real symptoms, no abnormal temp, nothing.

Infections like this are known to make dementia sundowning episodes a lot worse. He’s on IV antibiotics and we are hoping to get a geriatric team consult to help navigate his journey in dementia. This is so hard.

#Caregiving #Dementia #AgingParents #MentalHealth #SmallMoments

@lonelystone #agingparents
I just had my mom up for the holiday. I truly thought only her body was failing but while I am used to repetition ( after all I have heard most of her stories ) she’s changing things around and it’s disturbing.
Events that I was present for happening before I was born , people at events who did not attend. I am calling her doctor tomorrow, thankfully I have medical POA.
#agingparents #aging #dementia
So let’s talk about extremely elderly parents.

In moving photo series, woman captures her parents waving goodbye to her for 27 years

https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/leaving-and-waving-parents-photo-series-ex1

Crisis averted. She saw ‘Mobil’ (the gas station) on her credit card statement and panicked because she had just set up an X account, after being constantly badgered into it by her Google searches. 🙃

#Scammed #OldPeople #AgingParents #InfoSec

Happy Halloween (+1)

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We love our elderly parents but sometimes it's hard to take care of them. This post is about how to keep our patience while caring for aging parents. https://zurl.co/D4EaG #agingparents #elderlyparents #caregiver #caregivers
3 Ways to Avoid Meltdowns While Caring for Aging Parents - Selfless Esteem ®

Dear Selfless Esteem, I'm losing patience with my elderly mother. I've been taking care of her and she's so stubborn. My brothers and sisters can't help

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If you take a spill, these gadgets can automatically alert someone who can come check on you, be it a family member, friend, or even emergency services.

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Falls: A Big Deal, But We’ve Got Tech on Our Side - L. Brent Huston - Medium

Let’s talk about something important today — staying safe and independent at home as we get older. Now, you might have heard that falls are a pretty common concern for folks like us. And it’s true…

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