Today’s dilemmas of women in #Russia - article titled “Can a war hero beat his wife?” Anna Dolgareva writes:
Does one previous noble deed outweigh subsequent, less noble ones? Or is it more correct to consider the sum of all deeds? To simplify, we can rephrase the question as follows: does participation in the SVO grant absolution for any subsequent actions?
In a typical Russian 2025 journalism style for most of the text she is beating around the bush (I love this phrase) only to conclude that no, in general participation in the “SVO” doesn’t automatically grant you the right to kill and rape civilians in Russian towns after his return.
Her article is a polemic against some other Russian “patriotic” publicists who literally said that she should be “kissing his feet” because he participated in “SVO” at some point, implying that she should also suffer beatings and abuse:
https://video.echelon.pl/w/n67KEUdafxiaiZfk7qX6MJ
But here’s that typically Russian twist: Dolgareva believes this moral stance only applies to Russian women in Russia. It does specifically not apply to Ukrainian women in Ukraine because only 4 months ago she publicly explained that explains that the process of “denazification” of #Ukraine can be only conducted with purely physical means, by exterminating everyone resisting Russia and “reeducating their children in Russian spirit”:
https://video.echelon.pl/w/q2aEBUg6Cz8xccdWtHxkgf
And in today’s article she said kind of the same thing:
I would also like to add one more thing. As I already mentioned, part of the tragedy of the Afghan generation was caused by the apparent senselessness of the war in which these soldiers were fighting. The chances of a tragedy for the SVO generation will probably be lower if this war ends in victory rather than a temporary truce.
As always, the Russian official articles are most interesting at the end. Dolgareva essentially said that the veterans must believe that the war was “won”, but at the same time she herself admits it’s a hopeless task:
I am not talking about the need to storm Kyiv – we must set ourselves realistic goals. But the end result must be such that every soldier who survived the meat grinders of Bakhmut or Volchansk understands that this is the victory they fought for. And this is undoubtedly an extremely difficult task, which requires not only military skill but also the art of negotiation.
How do you explain to millions of Russians that the way #Putin started was practically lost a month after it started with retreat from Kyiv, and then for several years he was sending ~800k Russian men to be killed and mutilated for… what exactly, ruins of Bakhmut? So yes, Anna - you need not “art of negotiation” but fucking magic 🤦
Full article: https://vz.ru/opinions/2025/5/7/1330262.html (in Russian
