Can someone please explain to me why Malaysians like to address strangers as "dear"—more in text, but I think even in person? Like, even someone who I'm pretty sure is at least ten years younger than me is texting me as "dear" when I'm ordering something from her...
Coming from older people, men or women, I often find it sounds patronising, even though in most cases I'm sure it's not meant as such. But I don't know what to make of it coming from someone much younger?! 😆


