VicarofDishley

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Mum. Wife. Priest. Anglican. Chaplain. 
SCP Priest @scpeurope. 
Unashamedly inclusive @InclusiveChurch.
A real Vicar, but not like normal ones. 
💖💜💙

“What good do you think can come from putting a label on it?” – my GP when I requested a referral to a specialist

Being undiagnosed never protected me from labels. Growing up, I was labelled constantly. Lazy, careless, stupid, weird, rude, clumsy, fussy, a daydreamer, a show off, a liar. I can’t say that a diagnosis would have prevented that (this was the 90s after all), but it would have been something.

#ADHD #Dyspraxia #Autism #Neurodivergence

Having now been on #Mastodon for 1 month, a few observations:

- Mastodon makes me realize how much the #Twitter algorithm maximized user outrage to boost engagement for profit. Gross. Here, my feed is interesting & supportive.

- There's a culture of kindness - at least so far. It's extremely appealing & should be normalized on & offline.

- Beyond reactions to toots, people share songs, poetry & ask great questions. I can't remember the last time I found social media to be fun.

#introduction
I'm Ollie, and any pronouns that are neutral or masculine are fine by me 🦉   nice to meet you!

i am: #pagan #trans, #nonbinary, #autistic, utahn, american, and #furry

i like: #Languages, #ThemeParks, #disneyland, #DonaldDuck , #computers, #SherlockHolmes, in-n-out hamburgers, linux, #coding, playing #VideoGames, wikipedia diving

i speak: 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 (L1), 🇫🇷 (decently) , 🇸🇪 (slowly), and study half a dozen other languages on-and-off for fun

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The Vicar’s Christmas cards are a bit dark this year

Just a reminder #advent
It’s 3 Generate planning time! The annual #Methodist #church gathering of #children and #youngpeople. 2 days planning at the #NEC with some fab colleagues!
And finally an early 1st attempt at shooting the York Shambles. Not as good as the one on my pinned tweet which was viewed 33m times but still it's not come out too bad overall as an early shot. #Yorkshire #northyorkshire #York #yorkshambles #Shambles #nightshoot #architecture #photography #olympus #longexposure #historic

It’s been a horrific week of #vestibular #migraines and #vertigo. A condition I’ve had for several years but which is usually well managed with meds.

Throughout it all has been this beautiful soul. She has slept beside me when I’ve not been able to lift my head or get out of bed. She’s followed me everywhere and has never been far from my side. She’s just come and found me, and plonked herself on my lap for a cuddle. What a wonderful companion and nursemaid she’s been - I’m so thankful for her.

An image taken back in January this year. I hoping for more days like this in the next coming months. #photography #monochrome #trees

OMG. This is definitely the queer joy I needed.

2 women in a French old people's home got married after being closeted for ages😍😭

"""
That day, during the meal, we were talking about gay marriage. And Liliane and Andrée came to ask us if it was actually possible to do that in real life. They had thought that same-sex marriage was only possible on TV. … We told them it was possible. And a few minutes later, Andrée proposed to Liliane in front of us.
""" (My translation)

https://www.lobservateur.fr/valenciennes-deux-residentes-dun-ehpad-se-marient-apres-avoir-longtemps-vecu-leur-amour-en-secret

Valenciennes. Deux résidentes d’un EHPAD se marient après avoir longtemps vécu leur amour en secret

Ce mardi 15 novembre, deux résidentes de l'EHPAD du Val de l'Escaut se sont mariées après avoir longtemps vécu leur amour en secret.

L'Observateur