Miss Rosalie

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Lifestyle #Domme | 24/7 #TPE Dynamic | Sadist

If you like my thoughts, there's more of them on my #blog at SilkenClaws.com

Oh, and I do have a sense of humour around here somewhere. You've been warned.

Favourites, boosts etc by all means welcome. Just for the love of all that's green, **do not call me 'Mistress'**.

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Miss RosalieNov 17, 2023
Vel, Velvet, VelveteenNov 17, 2023
Top and bottom is not equivalent to dominant and submissive and I wish fedi would quit acting like it is
Miss RosalieNov 17, 2023

My commentary on this month's E-Lust is up!

E-Lust is a fabulous monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic.

Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers maintenance spanking, fucking machines (twice), prostate massage, and some insightful commentary on kinky themes in Dracula. There's also some interesting commentary on the increasing censorship of SWers from Google search.

Having a read helps support a lot of lovely sex workers and sex and kink bloggers, so do take a look if you have a moment. And if anyone's post catches your eye, do leave support them by leaving a comment for the alogrithm :)

https://www.silkenclaws.com/e-lust-167-maintenance-spanking-misreading-dracula-and-fucking-machines/

#sexblog #BDSM #sex #sexblogger #BDSMcommunity #kink #femdom

E-Lust 167 - Maintenance Spanking, (Mis)reading Dracula and Fucking Machines

Welcome to E-Lust – a monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic. Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers

SilkenClaws
Miss RosalieSep 28, 2023

With Locktober chastity mania looming, I think it's important to remember it's not *every* domme's cup of tea.

Chastity is so often a part of the discussion around female dominance, that people seem to it's a requisite. But dominant women aren't a hive mind and chastity is not a femdom essential!

So much of the writing out there is either about the benefits of chastity, or a how-to guide. So, I wrote an article outlining why it's not really my thing just to add a splash of diversity.

Thoughts from either side of the slash appreciated in the comments for a variety of perspectives.

https://www.silkenclaws.com/male-chastity-not-a-femdom-essential/

#kink #BDSM #femdom #chastity #sexblog #BDSMlifestyle #BDSMcommunity

Why Male Chastity Is Not A Femdom Essential

Chastity is often framed as a must-have in femdom dynamics. Have a read and delve into why male chastity really isn't a femdom essential.

SilkenClaws
Miss RosalieSep 4, 2023

As a sadist, I hate using narrative of punishment. No offence to anyone who's into it, but I just find it so unnecessary. If I want to hurt my sub, I will *just hurt him*. I don't need an excuse.

#kink #BDSM #punishment

Miss RosalieAug 8, 2023
Show threadIslarAug 7, 2023
@SilkenClaws thank you so much for sharing a such clear insight about punishments.
That piece should be read for everyone willing to navigate towards a
D/s and-or 24/7 TPE relationship !
Miss RosalieAug 7, 2023
Show threadStarcrossAug 7, 2023
@SilkenClaws I've just skim-read this and will keep coming back to it for deeper reads, but for now I had to say how impressed I am with your detailed, methodical approach. There's so much here for me to take away and learn from, it's going to be a great source of inspiration. Thanks for putting together this amazing resource and for sharing it
Miss RosalieAug 3, 2023
Miss RosalieJul 19, 2023

People are not projects. If a sub doesn't see you as a person, they're not going to start, no matter what you do. Basic empathy and decency isn't something you can 'train'.

Saw another newbie domme on Reddit making that mistake recently and I think it's a common pitfall. It's a weird variant of the 'but I can fix him' trope.

No, you can't. Don't try.

#kink #thoughts #relationships #BDSMcommunity #BDSMlifestyle #powerexchange #femdomblog #femdom

Miss RosalieAug 3, 2023
Show threadJoy AFAug 3, 2023
@SilkenClaws yeah, I always automatically duck out of a conversation with a potential top if they make any kind of reference to spanking me for being ‘naughty’ because I love being spanked (and hate the word naughty, but that’s another thing) so how the fuck is that supposed to even work, Martin? You do know that masochists exist, yes?
Miss RosalieAug 3, 2023

BDSM MYTH: Punishment = Beatings.

It's not true! Punishment is defined by the intent to modify behavior. It's not about physical pain, but creating an unpleasant consequence. And what's unpleasant is entirely an individual thing.

I'm in the processing of writing a comprehensive guide on effective punishment, and it just surprises me how common this misconceptions is.

#kink #BDSM #femdom #Dominant #submissive #BDSMcommunity #BDSMlifestyle #powerexchange

Miss RosalieAug 1, 2023
Girl on the NetAug 1, 2023
I don’t know who needs to hear this but the baseline for how a romantic partner should treat you is ‘at least as well as my friends treat me.’