BDSM MYTH: Punishment = Beatings.
It's not true! Punishment is defined by the intent to modify behavior. It's not about physical pain, but creating an unpleasant consequence. And what's unpleasant is entirely an individual thing.
I'm in the processing of writing a comprehensive guide on effective punishment, and it just surprises me how common this misconceptions is.
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My comprehensive guide on how to implement effective punishments in D/s dynamic is now up, for anyone who is curious. It's based on my years of reading and experience and plenty of trail and error in my 24/7 TPE dynamic.
A lot of what is easily accessible out there amounts to a listcle of fun play ideas. So, I really wanted to cover techniques for communication and all of the pragmatic points that need to be considered to really make punishment effective, as well as how to really integrate it into the day to day of a dynamic.
There's a bit of something helpful for everyone (hopefully).
https://www.silkenclaws.com/punishment-for-subs-guide/
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