A guy from Fetlife has found my VANILLA insta.. which is fine. I don't feel any sort of way about it.

BUT.

He's commented on one of my (once again..) VANILLA pictures. It's just a picture of my face, but he's made sexual comments about wanting to see where "all" my piercings are. It's fucking creepy to make sexual comments on non-sexual pictures without consent.

He's then commented again, asking me if I'm going to be attending either of the munches being held at [pub name] on [date] or [other date]. He specifically mentions they're Fetlife events.

This is not only outing me on a public platform, but it also tells everyone where I might physically be on these two dates.

This is potentially putting me in very real danger. But I'm sure he'd insist that he's a nice guy.

It's not good enough, guys.

Fucking do better.

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* yes, I am personally "out", but he doesn't know that.

** I don't attend in person events, so I won't be going to either of these munches, but again.. he doesn't know that.

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