Miss RosalieAug 3, 2023

BDSM MYTH: Punishment = Beatings.

It's not true! Punishment is defined by the intent to modify behavior. It's not about physical pain, but creating an unpleasant consequence. And what's unpleasant is entirely an individual thing.

I'm in the processing of writing a comprehensive guide on effective punishment, and it just surprises me how common this misconceptions is.

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Show threadStarcrossAug 3, 2023
@SilkenClaws I'd like to read that guide, I often seek ideas for creative punishments
Show threadMiss RosalieAug 7, 2023

@Starcross

My comprehensive guide on how to implement effective punishments in D/s dynamic is now up, for anyone who is curious. It's based on my years of reading and experience and plenty of trail and error in my 24/7 TPE dynamic.

A lot of what is easily accessible out there amounts to a listcle of fun play ideas. So, I really wanted to cover techniques for communication and all of the pragmatic points that need to be considered to really make punishment effective, as well as how to really integrate it into the day to day of a dynamic.

There's a bit of something helpful for everyone (hopefully).

https://www.silkenclaws.com/punishment-for-subs-guide/

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Effective Punishment for Subs: A Comprehensive Guide for D/s Dynamics

A comprehensive guide which covers all the nuances of punishment for subs: from understanding the role of punishment to a step-by-step on how to set effective protocol, this guide covers all the bases.

SilkenClaws
Show threadStarcross
@SilkenClaws I've just skim-read this and will keep coming back to it for deeper reads, but for now I had to say how impressed I am with your detailed, methodical approach. There's so much here for me to take away and learn from, it's going to be a great source of inspiration. Thanks for putting together this amazing resource and for sharing it
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Show threadMiss RosalieAug 7, 2023
@Starcross
Thanks! I wanted to put something a little bit better out there. And hopefully, a whole bit more helpful haha. It's taken me a fair while, so it's lovely to have someone appreciate it :)
Show threadStarcrossAug 8, 2023
@SilkenClaws it must have been a lot of work! Are you happy for me to boost the link you shared?
Show threadMiss RosalieAug 8, 2023
@Starcross Yes, by all means! I wrote it to be a helpful resource, so the more people happen upon it, the better :)