My commentary on this month's E-Lust is up!

E-Lust is a fabulous monthly digest of sex and kink bloggers, helpfully organised by topic.

Among many delicious and pervy things, this month’s E-Lust covers maintenance spanking, fucking machines (twice), prostate massage, and some insightful commentary on kinky themes in Dracula. There's also some interesting commentary on the increasing censorship of SWers from Google search.

Having a read helps support a lot of lovely sex workers and sex and kink bloggers, so do take a look if you have a moment. And if anyone's post catches your eye, do leave support them by leaving a comment for the alogrithm :)

https://www.silkenclaws.com/e-lust-167-maintenance-spanking-misreading-dracula-and-fucking-machines/

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With Locktober chastity mania looming, I think it's important to remember it's not *every* domme's cup of tea.

Chastity is so often a part of the discussion around female dominance, that people seem to it's a requisite. But dominant women aren't a hive mind and chastity is not a femdom essential!

So much of the writing out there is either about the benefits of chastity, or a how-to guide. So, I wrote an article outlining why it's not really my thing just to add a splash of diversity.

Thoughts from either side of the slash appreciated in the comments for a variety of perspectives.

https://www.silkenclaws.com/male-chastity-not-a-femdom-essential/

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As a sadist, I hate using narrative of punishment. No offence to anyone who's into it, but I just find it so unnecessary. If I want to hurt my sub, I will *just hurt him*. I don't need an excuse.

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