Every time I do tech support for my family I get very angry about people who whine about lacking "tech literacy".

90% of the stuff I have to teach them is how to navigate manipulative software and dark patterns. This has nothing to do with tech, but with capitalism. Tech is not complicated, it is just made maximally confusing on purpose to remove agency.

Better tech ed won't fix this.

@piegames
You know, there was a time when it was a lot of 'Okay, click on the network that you just named, and...yes okay, but click....okay, the moving thing moves the cursor' tier.

A lot of really basic, really simple stuff that was a bit frustrating to deal with. However, that time is not now. People know how to open menus, pull up keyboards on their phones, know what 'the back button' is.

Now it's 'Yes, they deliberately obfuscated this and tricked you because they're awful, do this'.

@Oggie @piegames don't remind me of those dark times 🫣🤣

@0xZogG @Oggie @piegames I live with that every day with people who struggle between click and double click and "What apple do you mean in the upper left corner of the screen?"

But yeah there's also actual design things like suddenly changing all the text entry to be right justified instead of left, which seems innocuous until you realize everyone is trying to click at the end of the text and they can't because it's such a small clickbox area now.

@Oggie @piegames We still get that around the age of entering secondary school. When the students get their first chromebook and get to use the school computers. They know tech, but they know phone-tech. You can tell because they type capitals with capslock-letter-capslock.

@Qybat

No way, is that actually a thing?
In their defence (or rather, lack of mine), I usually don’t bother to type capital letters at all.

@piegames well there IS that, but also people just don't _read_. like, _anything_. 50% of the time it's a dark pattern, but the other 50% there's just a popup that clearly says what they should do, and NOBODY. EVER. READS. IT.

@lanzz @piegames

Yup. Whenever I'm standing next to someone and giving them some tech help and a Dialog opens up and they click a button and it closes, I always ask "What did the dialog say?" Hardly anyone replies correctly.

@gsymon @lanzz @piegames

I think of popups like spam calls.

At least where I live, almost every phone call is an attempt to manipulate the recipient into providing data that can be used against them. An unexpected message that is both needed and useful is so rare that people are conditioned by the system to ignore everything they did not have a good reason to anticipate.

We need better regulation of computer technology in addition to better instructional resources on how it works.

@shadowsminder @gsymon @lanzz @piegames Tech-literate people will know which popups they have to read, and which one they can ignore.

You encounter popups that you don't read all the time: EULAs, ads, newsletter signups, etc. But you know which one are interesting/out of place, and which one are not related to your current activity and can ignore.

For tech-illiterate people, even having to use the computer is juts a hurdle they have to go through to achieve their goal, and so are popups.

@teroshan

True.

Tech-illiterate people have no reason to trust an image popping up is useful, and they quickly learn from experience that most aren't.

@gsymon @lanzz @piegames

@shadowsminder I agree, and that relates to the original poster's dark patterns gripe, but you'd think at least when they encounter a problem they might reconsider the value of popups happening around the problem @teroshan @gsymon @piegames
@teroshan @shadowsminder @gsymon @lanzz @piegames This is a big issue in cybersecurity with things like warning and authentication fatigue which is why you should strive to put the burden of maintaining security in the system/architecture as much as possible and not users. But we do the opposite all the time.

@shadowsminder @gsymon @lanzz @piegames

Yeah! They don't read the popup because the last 99 popups were pointless wastes of time!

Would you like to subscribe? No
Get our reminders! Don't want them
We have a special offer! Don't care
Do you accept our cookies? No (or for many people, yes, because one of the commonest manipulative patterns is to make yes quicker to click than no)

I _do_ read the popups, but at least 99% of the web site ones are just irritating friction.

@lanzz
Which is why, even as incompetent newbie, I can do surprising amount of tech support by just linking the Friendly manual page. There is a lot of learned helplesness outside of this issue
@piegames
@piegames legit so much of tech is a cottage industry held up by corruption, grifting, and elitism

@avesbury_rosetta @piegames

Absolutely 100%. There's loads of times I'm writing code and the documentation goes "it works like this really annoying way" without answering why it needs the really annoying implementation instead of doing something sane and standardized.

It would be awesome if programming was standardized like plumbing or electrical work where there was one good way to do it that everyone agreed on. But if that happens a lot of developers are going to be very, very sad.

But let me give some examples off the top of my head. Axios, one of the main packages used for web requests in Javascript, has no retry functionality built in, you can't tell it to auto-retry something if the connection blips out for a second or so, it has to be hacked together custom. For anything remotely important, you obviously want it to try a bunch of times before just giving up. There is a axios-retry package though, it just needs to be loaded in with webpack at build time, so you *have* to use webpack now, there's no non-webpack way to get the module loaded. Super aggrivating. And really there's no reason why stuff *has* to be this way.

@piegames well, if everybody would learn how to work around dark patterns, they'd cheese to be a thing.
Never the less I do agree with you that the healthier (and fastest) way should be fixing capitalism.
@piegames you're lucky then. While ofc deceptive patterns is a thing and there have been situations where that was the issue, I did have to give tech support to people who knew absolutely nothing about computers. Not an issue ofc. People like this tend to trust me to just fix their issue without constantly looking over my shoulder and question everything I do

@piegames Historically, my experience is that 90% of the tech support for family and friends is just to dare clicking around the user interface.

I haven't really thought about the part of navigating dark patterns. So I guess you're right. It's 90% enshitified capitalism, 9% just daring to click around, and 1% actually knowing stuff.

@piegames I had an example of this hit my parents. I wrote it up as a newsletter post (When Software Turns Evil: On how my elderly parents were utterly bewildered by some seriously nasty, software updates...):

https://buttondown.email/TheNexusFiles/archive/when-software-turns-evil/

When Software Turns Evil

On how my elderly parents were utterly bewildered by some seriously nasty, software updates...

The Nexus Files

@jonnynexus @piegames if you log into outlook using a browser (so viewing hotmail.com emails online).

The top email in the inbox is ALWAYS an ad, inserted by Microsoft.

@piegames while i do that too, i've had to show family many times what folders are and how to create one, how to move or copy files, and similar things

and i had to do that for older and younger people...

sure dark patterns are a big part of it when showing them how to do something online, but when doing something on the device itself, tech literacy is usually lacking

that doesn't account for phones tho, phones try to hide as much as that as possible too... ugh...
@navi Yeah, that is the point. Up until recently you could just mess around until you got the result you wanted and there wasn't a big risk to trying stuff out.
Nowadays you have to be able to recognize what is a safe space to mess around and what isn't, which means less savvy people who are aware "unsafe spaces" exist will, obviously, treat everything as such out of caution.
@piegames
@navi And current tech trends towards maximizing obfuscation from the users. Every app, OS, service, etc. targeted at a mainstream audience wants you to treat it like a magic box that automatically does what you want, without giving any chance to the user to understand it. Everything wants to "just work", the problem is that nothing does and everything is an unknowable black box.
@piegames
@piegames Yes, Windows is an appalling pile of junk that seems designed to confuse and sap it's users.

@piegames

Yeah I've had variations of this conversation a few times:

"How do I read that article?"
"There's a link at the top of the page."

(Some time later)

"It made me download an app before I could read it."
"You had to download an app, just to read a web page?"
"Yeah, that's where the link took me."
"Oh I see. No the actual link is that small one, the massive buttony one is a distraction designed to make you think you have to install their shitty app, when actually you don't."'

@siblingpastry @piegames I work in a public library and yes. It has become a lot worse recently. For staff, all applications are now in the cloud and accessing any program is delayed - by waiting, by pop-ups to swat away. With less & less content on our desktops, I'm reminded of the days of mainframes & dumb terminals. In our area in Nashville, the public library is where folks come for tech help. We deal with mobile devices all day long. Internally, there are multiple communication channels and intranets are still the lame, never updated sites they have always tended to be. I preach that you need to have alerts sent to a single email account to centralize updates in various Teams feeds, intranet, Sharepoint folders, Google calendar, etc, to even be on the same page with coworkers. But many updates are missed and communications fail. Good news for me, I retire in December.
@siblingpastry @piegames I notice that when you visit certain sites on mobile, they wither ask you to install the app or outright demand it, refusing to let you see the site otherwise. Though you can on PC. I always assume this is because the app either 1. Collects precious, precious data or 2. Provides an easier route towards microtransactions at a later date.
@piegames what does update mean?😐
@piegames What dark patterns you may be explaining how to deal with?
@piegames "90% of the stuff I have to teach them is how to navigate manipulative software and dark patterns." while telling them, yes, actually, the school is doing it wrong and harmful. As are your friends, they just don't know it yet.
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I visited my Dad today. He's in his mid-80s now, still generally healthy, but some things are getting harder, particularly eyesight. When I visit I usually end up fixing something or other on his computer. Today it was website push notifications that he'd probably accidentally allowed and were pretending to be antivirus software producing scary messages. Also Thunderbird had moved a bunch of its UI around and confused him to the point where he'd felt the only thing to do was to reinstall it.

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@piegames Websites and emails used to be more accessible before flashy colours and autoplay videos and popups and advertising too. For blind and low vision readers, websites that used to be OK to navigate with a screenreader or with magnification now may be impenetrable or require 2FA by mobile phone to access or apps to reduce glare or adblockers to make sites easier to use. Yes, capitalism is to blame, and even public services meant to be available to all have been caught up!
@piegames It used to be "They don't make that anymore" struck fear into my heart. Now its updates, the capitalist demon spawn of "New & Improved!" A good chunk of which are a field of funnels into various rent-seeking walled gardens.
@piegames 1/3 Fully agree. Please tell it clearly WHO it is. It is manipulative software, created on purpose by malevolent persons. Not just some abstract "software" or "corporation", it is malevolent persons, namely psychopaths we are fighting, who deliberately want to harm others. (~to gain money and/or power)
@piegames stop being the family tech guy does too
@piegames 2/3 Psychopaths, who gave the orders to build such codes/software, psychopathic psychologists, who optimize such software, and psychopathic software developers who do not refuse but obey but create such software. All of them exactly know what they are doing and do it deliberately.
@piegames 3/3 (🤓 :) ~def.:Psychopathy -in the US sometimes falsely called sociopathy- inherited psychiatric disorder. Persons are born extreme egoists, emotionally degenerated, incapable of emotional connection to others + defect dopamine circle, which gives them a boost if they deliberately harm others. No therapy possible, these persons are born malevolent and stay that way, occasionally faking social compatibility if they see any immediate gain of it. Most in business, politics and IT.)
@piegames lets not forget about gate-keeping developers who think that who does not understand their software is at fault. We need to make better understandable and accessible software.

@piegames some decades ago, I felt like tech was made for dummies with no way to accidentally irreversibly destroy important data. Go wild, explore what your device can, you're safe here!

Today, though? Today I am really confused. How can I teach people to use their devices, when I barely understand them myself with my decades of experience? When you need to disable 10 settings and press 20 buttons BEFORE you can do something meaningful, is it really worth it? Just ask a tech person for help.

@piegames True indeed! At least for my family circle, when possible, I go with open source! Proton, Bitwarden, RustDesk, etc. Basically, taking into consideration cost, maintenance and so forth.
@piegames We live in a world that requires not tech literacy, but capitalism literacy.

@piegames
My brother & I spent almost two hours trying to get his iPad to fill in the username and password (stored in the iPad's local keyring) into his bank's app and/or website.

He taught me my first computer language, and I made a lifetime career out of that, and we couldn't get it to work.

Internet advice boiled down to "try turning it off then on again", and "delete your credentials then re-enter them".

@piegames, while I get where your perspective is coming from, I don’t agree. Tech literacy is about being able to recognize repeatable patterns and knowing when and where to apply those patterns; recognizing when something has changed and why; and determining whether or not a change is relevant to the context you’re in. Tech literacy is made up of tools that are useful in life, with or without tech.
@piegames You are absolutely right, and I think there is a second layer where people, having been convinced that they aren't technically adept, fall into a learned helplessness. Because all you need to do to be considered "technically sophisticated" is google the directions and then follow them.
@piegames this is valid right up until you do professional tech support and realize that the overwhelming majority of tech illiterate people are also not reading literate at a good level.

@piegames I was thinking about this last month. Early computer adopters are still better at navigating software than the rest of their age group, and I used to assume it was because they were all programmers—they kinda had to be. But I recently met one of the first non-programmers to use computers: she was in the first group of Stanford professors to get them for work, and she's computer-fluent too.

I eventually concluded that early adopters didn't just learn how to use software, they learned how to teach themselves to use it. They come from a world where you RTFM first, not just when you encounter problems!

This is the exact opposite of the behavior encouraged by guided setup processes or modal-window tutorials, which are often comorbid with other hostile design elements. The makers of manipulative software don't want users who can teach themselves, because those users teach themselves to avoid the dark patterns.

@piegames With better tech ed, maybe more people would be using #Linux #opensource and there'd be far fewer dark patterns

@piegames I want to punch my mother-in-laws Chromecast personally "it just works!" until it doesn't and then instead of being able to fix it by just checking settings you have to do a huge song and dance of weird usage patterns to see where and how it broke and how to fix it.

In her case I had to change her WiFi name to something new. I don't know why, I will never know, but in the end that fixed everything.

@piegames Dark patterns in software design refer to user interface strategies designed to trick or manipulate users into doing things they might not otherwise do. These can include making it difficult to cancel subscriptions, using confusing language to coerce consent for data collection, or presenting one option in a way that overshadows others, encouraging users to choose something not in their best interest. Essentially, dark patterns steer user behavior.

@piegames Just adding to the chorus of agreement at this point. I have so many friends and family who beat themselves up for “not understanding” tech when it’s the terrible design that’s to blame, not them.

Our culture has trained people to call themselves stupid rather than call out bad (or hostile) design.

@piegames It drives me up a wall when my mom needs help doing something on a website, and the thing she is trying to do intuitively is EXACTLY how it SHOULD work, but for some really bullshit reason it doesn't work
@piegames those of us who have been using software long enough to know how to work around this type of thing are just so used to it that it became muscle memory. Scroll past the flashing "download now!" link, find the opt-out checkbox, etc.
@prettygood I'd suggest to us muscle memory to use the ublock thingy to block permanently the flashing "download now" link.
@piegames and so much stuff breaking for no apparent reason! I want more reliability damn it!