Don't like strangers busting into your mentions to give unsolicited opinions?

This could be solved if the Fediverse had better comment controls.

You should be able to make a read-only post if you want.

And you should be able to make a public post that's only writeable to followers.

You should also be able to lock a thread if it becomes a vector for abuse.

"Just make locked posts" is the worst response to this because that so-called "solution" basically tells people to reduce their visibility.

Many people don't want their visibility to be reduced.

However, they want a reduction in harassment.

In fact, much of the "I don't want search to exist" crowd exists due to lack of comment control.

People don't want to be found on search because they can't control the potential replies that might occur through a search vector.

I know this because plenty of the anti-search crowd wants public visibility -- but they don't want harassment.

No, a public post doesn't mean "talk to me".

Public means "publicly visible".

It's about being *read*.

Reading is different from writing.

Just as there's different settings for visibility, there should be different settings for replying.

On Mastodon, there's different visibility settings. They are:

* Public
* Unlisted
* Follower-only
* Mentioned people only

I think you could largely apply this to reply settings as well.

Except, reply settings could be:

* Public
* Local-only
* Follower-only
* Mentioned people only

If there were a way to prevent comments through search results, that would be good too.

It's funny. Regarding potential comment control on the Fediverse, people who are "pro" and "con" tend to be divided along gender lines.

Dudes tend to not want comment control 🤔

But there's a lot of women who very much want this feature. Many of them are DMing me privately to express support -- and that should tell you everything.

This entire thread is literally reply guys who are sad about a possibility that they might not be able to reply 😆

But seriously, the reply guy problem on Mastodon is embarrassing.

And it really puts a dent in the whole argument that Mastodon has got rid of social media toxicity.

Of course, that's not true. People have been complaining about reply guys for years.

It's becoming so bad that "Well, akshually..." has become a Mastodon stereotype.

This is why it's better to have more moderation tools, not less.

This reply guy thinks he's "literally entitled to harass".

No, he's not.

@atomicpoet Everyone should preemptively block him
@70sgayspaceangel @atomicpoet Chris just proposed an easy mechanism for that.
@atomicpoet As much of an asshole as this guy definitely comes off, you took their words out of context to mean something other than what they actually said.
The point of that statement was to draw comparison to the fact that disagreement is tantamount to harassment, as you probably feel about me for commenting on your dozens of public posts.

@haelos I'm not taking anything out of context. In fact, I screenshot the whole post.

The guy wrote "I'm literally entitled to harass".

@atomicpoet Okay, what about the rest of the sentence, which you cut off prematurely?
What does that mean?
@atomicpoet I was thinking about this just a few days ago - my only concern was a user could misuse "no reply" posts for spam/preaching/trolling etc, but if the site is well moderated that should at least be picked up on and said user yeeted like they would be for any other bad behaviour...
@vfrmedia Exactly. Spammers/preachers/trollers should simply be yeeted. And a "report abuse" function should override comment control.
@atomicpoet I think the reports go via a different route to comments anyway (TBH the UI of this bit needs work as its not always clear if the report has been sent or gone down a rabbithole, but on the rare occasions I've had to report stuff its definitely been acted upon and dealt with)
@atomicpoet @vfrmedia Sounds a lot like echo chamber creation to me. I joined to have spirited conversations with people, not to only see posts from people with the exact same opinions as me. Blocking is available to those who are too rigid to consider a different point of view. As long as it's done politely it should be encouraged. What you're describing here is not abuse, it's a minor inconvenience at most. If this is what mastodon turns into I'm done.

@DarryB @vfrmedia Again, you're not entitled to an audience. No one needs to hear from you, nor should they be forced to hear from you.

If freedom of association bothers you then tough beans 🤷‍♂️

@atomicpoet @vfrmedia If someone saying something you don't necessarily agree with...tough beans.
@DarryB @vfrmedia You can say whatever you want. I don't have to hear it.
@atomicpoet @vfrmedia So block. Simple. All I'm saying is that's easy to do. Forget it.
@atomicpoet @vfrmedia Nobody needs to hear from you either, do they bud. But hear you are. So the choice now is do you have a sensible discussion with someone, or do you turn tail and go back to only seeing posts from those who agree with you on everything, which I personally.think is boring.
@atomicpoet So, white dudes then. 🙄
@atomicpoet After thinking about this for a bit, I’ve decided it’s an unfair comment. I meant cis, white dudes. 👍
@atomicpoet oh - I have missed the debate on /introduction to the idea of comment control. After years on Twitter and Facebook I have gotten pretty good at filtering out what I don't want to see - although I have to say that it is only recently that I've used block and mute on Twitter.
@atomicpoet Hi, you have described a blog with comments disabled.
@tprophet Yes, that's exactly it -- but federated via ActivityPub.
@atomicpoet You could effectively get this today by posting from a bot instance (where replies are assumed to go into the ether) and ignoring replies. Also easier for everyone to filter out this kind of non-interactive content.

@tprophet Yeah, I don't think the majority of people who want comment control know how to set up posting from a bot instance. So that's a no go.

Comment control settings for their *current* account is a hell of a lot more usable.

@atomicpoet Brands and governments would love this feature! Any unpopular thing they announce could have replies disabled. So there is that. I totally get what you're trying to solve for, but I'm not sure the proposed solution wouldn't create entirely new and different problems.

@tprophet Again, freedom of association.

You're entitled to say whatever you want. But you're not entitled to an audience 🙂

@atomicpoet @tprophet why is the original poster entitled to an audience but not someone commenting?
@Victang @tprophet An original poster isn’t entitled to an audience either.

@atomicpoet @tprophet but if he's supplied the vehicle to that audience, shouldn't the commenter have use of the same vehicle?

Or maybe you consider that "ride-sharing" 🙂

@Victang @tprophet I don’t even understand your analogy.
@atomicpoet @Victang @tprophet Somehow I suspect these are the same folks who feel entitled to butt into private conversations simply because they are taking place in public settings.
@shawrd773 @atomicpoet @tprophet the problem I see with that equivalency is that having a "private" conversation in a "public" setting makes that conversation, by definition, not private.
@Victang @atomicpoet @tprophet So…. You see a couple of friends having a personal conversation on a park bench and you think the location means you can sit down and join in? You’d not last long in most cities with an attitude like that.
@shawrd773 @atomicpoet @tprophet that's not exactly what I said. Interesting interpretation though 🙂
@Victang @atomicpoet @tprophet What DID you mean, then?
@shawrd773 @Victang @atomicpoet
I think you may both be arguing the same side (my interpretation).
I'll butt out now. :)

@Victang @atomicpoet @tprophet

The Original Poster ISN'T entitled to an audience. If the OP doesn't have any/many followers, and users that can see the post in local, explore, federated aren't boosting it, then the OP doesn't gain traction/audience.

@Victang @atomicpoet @tprophet you can have your own audience in a different corner. There's no right to visibility in within the original post's context.

Yes some people will use it to say dumb shit without replies. But others will use it to be able to speak their mind without having to deal with harassment by idiots who can't accept differing opinions. The latter is more important to me.

@tprophet @atomicpoet I'm a bit (okay, more than a bit) frustrated about the lack of search/discoverability here, for which hashtags are a very poor substitution, but i understand the wariness of those who were exposed to harassment elsewhere, so at first blush your suggestion about comment control seem like a welcome compromise.
@tprophet @atomicpoet I do worry how, as TProphet said, it could create new problems instead though. Thanks to its so far fairly niche existence Mastodon seems to have only experienced a fraction of the concerted disinformation efforts that reached such massive audiences on FB and Twitter, seeded at scale by certain governments and parties. Of course you can block or mute disinfo accounts, but others will still be influenced by them.

@tprophet @atomicpoet One moderately effective if obv hugely imperfect restraint on that influence is when false claims are called out en masse in the replies - it's crude but at least it's something. Facilitating comment control precludes that kind of mitigation.

Might be worth the trade off anyhow. Just worry about the law of unintended consequences when Mastodon is growing and changing fast, i guess. (Sorry, super verbose.)

@tprophet @atomicpoet The use of the comments below popular accounts as a public space is a terrible antipattern that I think we should build better alternatives to, not attempt to preserve.

Additionally, I don't really like the idea of making things less convenient for 90+% of people (who don't have social media managers to bear the emotional brunt) in order to make things less convenient for 10-% of people (who do). That's not a trade-off I care to make.

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@tprophet @atomicpoet

or #WriteFreely, which is exactly a blog with no comments.
(well, when self hosted there certainly are no comments)

@tprophet @atomicpoet

Well, Twitter, Mastodon, etc HAVE been described as "mirco-blogging", so yeah, the analogy is extremely apt.

@atomicpoet I suppose the question on searching is whether it *needs* to exist. Are #Hashtags enough? I don't have the answers to this, and I wouldn't claim to, but it is one of the questions.

@lemonflavoured If a worthwhile goal is discoverability -- and it is -- then search needs to exist.

The bigger question is: why do *some* people not want search to exist?

And that's because search can be used for harassment.

However, with better comment controls, this becomes less of a problem since potential abusers could be thwarted from writing.

@lemonflavoured @atomicpoet Nope, #hashtags are not enough! Most people don't use them at all, or they don't use them properly, or some topics don't lend themselves to hashtagging. I find Mastodon's trending hashtags useless, they're always just #HashtagGames, maybe one news topic. #Search function allows users to find what interests them.
@erchanda @lemonflavoured @atomicpoet Not being able to search other people's posts is a design choice and i respect it. Prevents a lot of abuse. you may use guppe groups or forum systems like #lemmy for concentrated discourse.
@edendestroyer @lemonflavoured @atomicpoet I see what you mean, being able to search through millions of users' every word in every toot is very intrusive & would be impossible for a human to do without the tech. And the Cambridge Analytica horror story shows how that tech can be abused. Even in a "public" space, people can & should have some privacy. Sigh. I just would like better browsing/discovery tools to see what's going on in the world, find new things that might interest me, etc.
@erchanda @edendestroyer @atomicpoet The obvious answer is convince people to actually use hashtags better.
@lemonflavoured @edendestroyer @atomicpoet True! Or to consciously choose NOT to use #hashtags if they prefer to be less discoverable, but not just "forgot/couldn't be bothered" to use them. And #alttext for all images! And #contentwarnings when needed. Phew! It's a lot to learn, but sooooo worth it to make #Mastodon a safe, enjoyable, inclusive community! I'm loving the friendly nerdiness, that's my people!
@edendestroyer @lemonflavoured @atomicpoet But then YouTube's discovery algorithm is another horror story! I have no idea how privacy-respecting discovery tools could be designed, but Mastodon would be the one to do it! I'm so impressed by how thoughtful this community is! So OK, I take back my hashtags demanding the search ban be lifted. I'll wait for Masto to find a safer solution! 😊