Don't like strangers busting into your mentions to give unsolicited opinions?

This could be solved if the Fediverse had better comment controls.

You should be able to make a read-only post if you want.

And you should be able to make a public post that's only writeable to followers.

You should also be able to lock a thread if it becomes a vector for abuse.

"Just make locked posts" is the worst response to this because that so-called "solution" basically tells people to reduce their visibility.

Many people don't want their visibility to be reduced.

However, they want a reduction in harassment.

In fact, much of the "I don't want search to exist" crowd exists due to lack of comment control.

People don't want to be found on search because they can't control the potential replies that might occur through a search vector.

I know this because plenty of the anti-search crowd wants public visibility -- but they don't want harassment.

No, a public post doesn't mean "talk to me".

Public means "publicly visible".

It's about being *read*.

Reading is different from writing.

Just as there's different settings for visibility, there should be different settings for replying.

On Mastodon, there's different visibility settings. They are:

* Public
* Unlisted
* Follower-only
* Mentioned people only

I think you could largely apply this to reply settings as well.

Except, reply settings could be:

* Public
* Local-only
* Follower-only
* Mentioned people only

If there were a way to prevent comments through search results, that would be good too.

It's funny. Regarding potential comment control on the Fediverse, people who are "pro" and "con" tend to be divided along gender lines.

Dudes tend to not want comment control 🤔

But there's a lot of women who very much want this feature. Many of them are DMing me privately to express support -- and that should tell you everything.

This entire thread is literally reply guys who are sad about a possibility that they might not be able to reply 😆

But seriously, the reply guy problem on Mastodon is embarrassing.

And it really puts a dent in the whole argument that Mastodon has got rid of social media toxicity.

Of course, that's not true. People have been complaining about reply guys for years.

It's becoming so bad that "Well, akshually..." has become a Mastodon stereotype.

This is why it's better to have more moderation tools, not less.

@atomicpoet I was thinking about this just a few days ago - my only concern was a user could misuse "no reply" posts for spam/preaching/trolling etc, but if the site is well moderated that should at least be picked up on and said user yeeted like they would be for any other bad behaviour...
@vfrmedia Exactly. Spammers/preachers/trollers should simply be yeeted. And a "report abuse" function should override comment control.
@atomicpoet I think the reports go via a different route to comments anyway (TBH the UI of this bit needs work as its not always clear if the report has been sent or gone down a rabbithole, but on the rare occasions I've had to report stuff its definitely been acted upon and dealt with)
@atomicpoet @vfrmedia Sounds a lot like echo chamber creation to me. I joined to have spirited conversations with people, not to only see posts from people with the exact same opinions as me. Blocking is available to those who are too rigid to consider a different point of view. As long as it's done politely it should be encouraged. What you're describing here is not abuse, it's a minor inconvenience at most. If this is what mastodon turns into I'm done.

@DarryB @vfrmedia Again, you're not entitled to an audience. No one needs to hear from you, nor should they be forced to hear from you.

If freedom of association bothers you then tough beans 🤷‍♂️

@atomicpoet @vfrmedia If someone saying something you don't necessarily agree with...tough beans.
@DarryB @vfrmedia You can say whatever you want. I don't have to hear it.
@atomicpoet @vfrmedia So block. Simple. All I'm saying is that's easy to do. Forget it.
@atomicpoet @vfrmedia Nobody needs to hear from you either, do they bud. But hear you are. So the choice now is do you have a sensible discussion with someone, or do you turn tail and go back to only seeing posts from those who agree with you on everything, which I personally.think is boring.