Your mum’s false allegations to family court

It’s been a horrendous couple of days.

Yesterday I woke up to emails from your mum’s lawyers. Half asleep, my stomach tightened in reaction to what I dreaded would be inside… it was much worse that I thought possible.

Your mum has accused me of abuse. She is lying and maliciously exaggerating as a way of taking you from me. She doesn’t want us to have a relationship, or even develop a friendship.

I’m writing this on my phone on the train. I’m crying, it’s humiliating. Keeping busy is the only thing I can do to try to cope.

Everything I’ve prepared for and patience I’ve given to your mum is meaningless against her lies.

I treated her with care and looked after you both. You are precious to me. She is trying to destroy me and steal you from me.

All I can think about is how I won’t be able to look after you in a time of need and how she’s doing everything she can to ruin our relationship.

My hands are shaking. My body won’t release from panic mode. I’m a complete wreck.

If you need help 🆘

I understand how life can get really really hard. Please seek help if you’re struggling. There are many organisations that can lend an ear and offer compassion and privacy at your time of need.

Please do not suffer on your own. We all go through rough periods in our lives and may need support to see that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Contact Samaritans (UK) or one of the other organisations if you’re having suicidal or difficult thoughts.

I have compiled a list of organisations that support men and women in the UK. You can also google for support where you are in the world.

Listen through the podcast

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