‘People just don’t believe I’m disabled’ — Llanddeusant farmer speaks out as research shows half of MS patients in Wales face abuse over accessible facilities
A sheep farmer from a small Carmarthenshire village who has lived with multiple sclerosis for more than 25 years says she is regularly questioned about using her Blue Badge — because nothing about her appearance suggests she has a disability.
Gemma Williams, 48, lives with her husband and two children on a farm in Llanddeusant. She was diagnosed with MS at 21 after being hospitalised with numbness from the chest down. Her symptoms now include fatigue, pain, and occasional difficulty walking — but because those symptoms are often invisible to others, she says the assumptions people make can be exhausting.
“Sometimes I’m questioned about using my Blue Badge because there is nothing about my appearance that suggests I have a disability,” she said. “I still use the badge when I need it, but I have had occasions where people have challenged me about it.”
She added that the misunderstanding extends beyond car parks. “People often assume that I am capable of doing things when I am not. If I get on a bus when my legs are weak, people do not assume I might need a seat. If I go into a pub, people do not assume that I need a chair. But there are times when I am simply not capable of standing.”
Gemma Williams, 48, from Llanddeusant in Carmarthenshire, who has lived with multiple sclerosis since her diagnosis at 21. Image: MS SocietyGemma says the root of the problem is a fixed idea of what MS looks like. “I think that when people hear the term ‘MS’, they expect someone to look very ill. When you do not fit that image, people often seem confused.”
Her experience is reflected in new research published to mark MS Awareness Week, which runs from 20 to 26 April. A survey of 90 people living with MS in Wales, carried out by a coalition of leading MS charities, found that almost half — 48% — had been questioned or challenged for using accessible facilities including Blue Badge parking spaces, accessible toilets or priority seats on public transport.
Almost a quarter had been challenged for using an accessible toilet, and 22% for using a Blue Badge space. The research also revealed that over half of Welsh respondents — 57% — had avoided using accessible facilities altogether out of fear of being challenged or judged. Almost a third said that fear of judgement had stopped them from leaving the house entirely.
The findings also highlight how widespread invisible symptoms are among people with MS in Wales. A total of 96% of those surveyed said they experience at least one invisible symptom — such as fatigue, brain fog or pain — and of those, more than half said they had been made to feel as though their symptoms were not real.
More than eight in ten — 84% — said they had been told they “don’t look sick” or received similar comments. And the judgement is not limited to invisible symptoms: 59% of Welsh respondents said they had felt judged for visible symptoms including difficulties with mobility, balance or tremors.
Over 6,100 people in Wales are living with MS, which affects the brain and spinal cord and impacts how people move, think and feel. Symptoms vary significantly between individuals and can worsen over time. MS is the most common neurological condition among young adults, with most people diagnosed in their 30s and 40s.
Shelley Elgin, Country Director for Wales at the MS Society, said: “Living with MS can be debilitating, exhausting and unpredictable. And on top of that, facing judgement and harassment can make life even harder than it needs to be. These troubling new findings show us how widespread negative attitudes and assumptions are, and remind us how important it is to speak out and raise much-needed awareness about MS.”
The MS Awareness Week campaign — MS Think Again — is led by a collaboration of the UK’s biggest MS charities including the MS Society, MS Together, MS Trust, MS-UK, Shift.ms, Overcoming MS, Neuro Therapy Network and Talks with MS.
Anyone affected by MS can find support and information at mssociety.org.uk/wales. The MS Society’s free Help Hub offers emotional support, benefits and legal advice. The MS Trust helpline can be reached on 0800 032 38 39.
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