Forgot to post this version, the grey shading makes it more obvious that his belt is white, completing the Ace flag look, black, grey, white and purple, with an aegosexual flagged tucked into his hat band to clarify what part of the ace spectrum he's on.

Drawn by the great @meg

#Pride #AfricanWildDog #Ace #Asexual #TopHat #Aegosexual

Sure, its a few weeks early, but then again, is it ever too early for Pride?

This is my boy Chuff wearing the ace pride flag colours, and sporting an aegosexual pride flag, a subset of the ace sexuality, in his top hat.

Drawn by the great @meg

#Pride #African Wild Dog #ACE #Asexual #Top Hat #Aegosexual

https://www.tumblr.com/until-another-one-comes/785696388055957504

For all my fellow #KinkyAce furs, enjoy and make use as you see fit. 

#Furry #FurryArt #Asexual #Aegosexual #Ace

I consider myself to be on the asexual and aromantic spectrum. Regarding the aromantic part, it is pretty simple: I almost never feel romantic attraction to people. Only when I have a very close bond to a person, romantic feelings can happen (demiromantic). Romantic traditions and activities are generally something that I dislike, no matter of the feelings.

My asexuality is a lot more complex. I've spend the past year trying to figure out, where on the spectrum I would position myself. The one I can relate to the most, is aegosexuality. I do feel sexual arousal, but I have no desire for sexual activity with another person. This is the norm how I function.

However, there is one exception: Demisexuality. Similar to my romantic feelings, I can feel sexual attraction to a person, when I have a very close bond to them. Sometimes, I feel like it could be nice to experience this again. However, due to my AuDHD, I have also come to the conclusion, that I really enjoy being alone and I definitely do not want to give that up. In addition, the potential sexual activity with a person, is limited to a very small subset of actions that I would truly enjoy doing.

All this now leads to my following question: Is there a way for me, an aromantic, asexual, AuDHD and non-binary Person, to connect with like minded people who would be fine with my way of, I have no better description for it, this kind of friendship plus? I do not really enjoy to hook up with new people, as it takes up a lot of spoons and there is pretty much no guarantee that I would get what I would like out of that friendship, which always leads me back to "Oh, it's not worth it.", as I'm fine with the way I live.

On the other hand, I think there must be other people feeling similar. How do they connect with people? How do they find relationships, that fit in their needs? Maybe there's someone here with similar feelings, experiences, or even has found a solution for themselves. I would be glad to hear from you.

#Asexual #Asexuality #Aegosexual #Demisexual #Aromantic #NonBinary #Enby #ActuallyAuDHD #ActuallyAutistic #ActuallyADHD

Happy pride month!

*pan-ace aegosexual ping!*

Also uploaded to:
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https://www.furaffinity.net/view/61081110/
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#Furry #FurryArt #Hypno #Pansexual #Asexual #Aegosexual #Pride

This page is Queer Owned. I identify with Queer. I am non-binary, aegosexual, and panromantic.

#queerowned #nonbinary #aegosexual #panromantic #beverlylanderson #beverlylandersonbooks #whoiam #identity #identities #whatmakesmeme #gender #sexuality #asexual #ace

Quiero conectar con personas #LGBTQIA+ sobre todo personas del espectro asexual.

🏳️‍🌈 Soy nobinaria, bi y grisasexual. Me identifico mucho con el término 'queer'.

#asexual #grisexual #grisasexual #demisexual #fraisexual #aegosexual #aceflux #aspec #ace

So! With it being Pride Month, I've been meaning to type something on this up but just keep getting distracted or just flat out forgetting, but... Hi! I'm Kavu, and I think I'm Aegosexual!

Let's talk about that. Falling under the Ace umbrella, Aegosexual is someone who feels a disconnect between sexual arousal, and the SUBJECT of sexual arousal. Essentially, while I get horny, masturbate, and fantasize about a LOT of stuff, when it comes down to ACTUALLY doing sexual acts... a lot of times... there just isn't any drive or turn on.

For me, kink helps blur that line and gives me an outlet to enjoy intimacy with others. While I have ZERO interest in having penetrative sex with my Daddy, he knows that rubbing or buzzing the front of my diaper and using kinky phrases or ahm... threats/teases.... will absolutely smash my buttons. He's tried giving me a pawjob before, and it's unfortunately not something that works for me, because... the act itself isn't hot, and it's difficult to do that exact grip and squeeze that works best for me. Diapers however.... play directly into that fantasy concept or idea that arouses me, and they also FEEL good, so it lets me be intimate with him without direct interaction with our bits. This is entertainingly why to a certain extent, I vibed so much with the whole #diapersexual thing. Cause in a way... I am. The DIAPER is what brings those horny fantasy thoughts into the real world to act on them.

With others, I've found grinding diapers to be an incredibly amazing experience, because again... the diapers are the subject of arousal, not the sex act with another person. It's hard sometimes in retrospect to separate the two, but somehow, to me, they are. I find some of my friends very hot and absolutely have wonderfully hot, erotic ideas or fantasies about them, but they almost ALWAYS are kink related, and are never going to be simple sex fantasies, or even kinky fantasies that involve sex as it's own thing.

Weird, right? And this killed my 11 year relationship because it's taken me until the age of 33 to learn about and articulate this. My Ex is VERY sexual, and I... struggled to perform. To the extent that my dry spell went on for YEARS, and was absolutely unfair to her(which is actually why we opened our relationship and why I met my Daddy!)

But yeah! Welcome to a bit about me. Want to tie my wrists and ankles up, diaper me, tease the hell out of me about being a helpless diaper dependent kitten who NEEDS his diapers to get off, then vibe the fuck out of my soaked diaper while threatening to take the wand away if I don't come quick enough? Boom, Buttons smashed. The moment actual sex becomes involved though... nope. Doesn't matter if I find you hot, it's the fantasy idea involving the kink that does it for me, not the act itself.

For the few people I've had relations with IRL who might be reading this, I need you to know I absolutely loved EVERY second of those moments together >.> Diaper Grinding is an absolute turn on, and again, having the diaper there plays into the fantasy, bringing the IRL act together with the mental fantasy in a wonderfully conjoined act of .. HUFF. 10/10 can't wait to see you all again and do even more things. <3

#PrideMonth #aegosexual #diapersexual