What I was worth a minute in 2025, according to the government, which varies monthly:
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February: $0.0281498016 (not a leap year I'm worth less)
Four months out of the year: $0.0262731481

So that's cool I guess.
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Are You Prime Time Material or Just a Backup Friend

Are You Getting Prime Time or Spare Time

Are you prime time material? That is the real question. Do your friends give you their prime time or do they only reach out when nothing else is going on? Are you the side friend, the filler friend, the one who never shows up on social media, never gets posted, never gets the real invitations?

Prime time used to mean something very specific. Before streaming, prime time TV was between six and ten at night, with the peak around eight or nine. That was when shows mattered. That was when advertisers paid top dollar. That was when attention counted.

Friendships work the same way.

Who Gets Your Friday and Saturday Nights

Pay attention to when people want to see you. Do they ask you to grab coffee on a Monday afternoon at three o’clock? Do they suggest a quick catch-up when they are bored or killing time? But when Friday or Saturday night comes around, they disappear.

They go out with their real friends. Their prime time group. Their main circle. The dinners, parties, clubs, new restaurants, and events are reserved for someone else.

If you are never invited to those moments, that is not accidental. That is a ranking.

Being the Backup Friend

If someone only calls you when their real plans fall through, you are not a priority. You are a placeholder. You are the person they see when they have free time and nothing better to do.

They will happily spend an hour with you early in the evening, then head out later with their real friends. They will keep you just close enough to fill a gap, but not close enough to share the good stuff.

That is not friendship. That is convenience.

Prime Time Friends Get Chosen First

When people want a good time, they choose their prime time friends. When they get tickets, make reservations, plan trips, or celebrate milestones, they invite the people who matter most to them.

If you are never part of those plans, you already have your answer.

Social media makes this even clearer. Look at who gets posted. Look at who is tagged. Look at who is present during the moments that matter. If you are invisible during those times, you are not in the prime time category.

The Friend Zone Version of Friendship

Being a non-prime time friend is like being stuck in the friend zone of a relationship. You are close enough to be used for attention, conversation, or emotional support, but not close enough to be chosen.

You are there to pass the time. You are there to fill the silence. You are not there for the real moments.

If this pattern repeats, it is not bad luck. It is a signal.

Test It and Be Honest

If you are unsure, test it. Ask a friend to make plans during the actual prime time. A Friday night. A Saturday night. A real event.

Watch the response. Watch the excuses. Then watch their social media later that night.

You will see exactly where you stand.

Know Your Value

If you realize you are not a prime-time friend, stop negotiating your worth. Stop accepting scraps. Stop showing up for people who never show up for you.

Look for friendships where you are chosen, not fitted in. Where your time is valued, not tolerated.

Before you head out tonight or this weekend, ask yourself one thing. Are you prime time material, or are you just filling time until something better comes along?

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