Big B

You can keep blocking
As many as you want to
But how will you block life
That will keep expressing itself
Through every pore of your being?
And who is the one
That is choosing to block
And who is the one
Writing these lines
In asking such questions
Maybe one will come to realize
Life itself is expressing itself
As Big B sometimes
And as the one who writes these lines
There are no boundaries
Where I end
And another begins.

He spent almost a week trying to get under my skin. I ignored it and set boundaries. I didn't change him, the guy changed himself.

He's not broken. He just never had a safe place to reflect on those behaviours.

#Boundaries #MentalHealth #Healing #HumanNature #PersonalGrowth

"""
So... the Little Wiggles need the help of a Little Munchy Guy to solve the problem of how have better boundaries. And this is why we don't all have to play the same way and if your friends want to play a way you don't want to, that's ok
"""
--- me explaining boundaries to my son, in the hope that he has better luck

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Also, the fitness function of the genetic algorithm based solver is the product of transmission probabilities across all constraints — which is e^{−Σκᵢdᵢ}, the total cost across all barriers. Same function applied to the high school exam scheduler I wrote in high school for math class. And a cell. And a star.

Boundaries, not just for when our friends don't want to play the way we want to

https://bubbled.from.loss.dev/interludes/origins/prokaryotic-split

#autopoiesis #boundaries

#FabuFriday… Some days it’s not about doing more ~ it’s about carrying less…

#AlwaysOn #CollectiveStress #EmotionalWisdom #Stress #Boundaries

Read On:
https://tinyurl.com/StressSteadiness

@zponderings
@ZPonderings.bsky.social

https://zpond.substack.com/ = SubStack
https://linktr.ee/ChangeAndThrivalHood = Change and ThrivalHood
https://pegaphinz.com = Byte Wise Thriving

Gentle reminders: for when the world feels frightening.

#healthyhabits #boundaries #healthyboundaries #emotions #feelings #mentalhealth #mentalhealthmatters #mentalwellness #mentalwellbeing #ymhc

Sometimes tiredness comes from what is absorbed…Not yours to carry…

#AlwaysOn #CollectiveStress #EmotionalWisdom #Stress #Boundaries

Read On:
https://tinyurl.com/StressSteadiness

Dear control freaks: you don’t intimidate me. You only present a challenge — one that pushes me to rise, heal, and grow stronger. Keep underestimating me; it won’t end well for you.

https://whothefami.substack.com/p/a-letter-to-control-freaks

#SelfGrowth #Boundaries #Resilience #PersonalPower #LifeLessons

Having compassion and empathy for why someone behaves the way they do based on their experiences, never means you have to tolerate the behavior or hold space for it. By @maryamhasnaa

#selfcare #selflove #boundaries #healthyboundaries #selfcompassion #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #compassion #ymhc

In the Current ~ Returning Steadiness…

#CurrentSteadiness #CollectiveStress #EmotionalWisdom #Stress #Boundaries

Read On:
https://tinyurl.com/StressSteadiness

@zponderings
@ZPonderings.bsky.social

https://zpond.substack.com/ = SubStack
https://linktr.ee/ChangeAndThrivalHood = Change and ThrivalHood
https://pegaphinz.com = Byte Wise Thriving