Much of human behavior isn’t chosen—it’s learned. Social conditioning shapes beliefs, habits, and identity long before awareness kicks in. Understanding it gives you your choices back.
#Psychology #SocialConditioning #HumanBehavior #SelfAwareness #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #MentalClarity #IndependentThinking
https://thedigitalcove.blog/2026/01/14/how-environment-shapes-human-behavior/
You know what's not sexy?
Performative toxic masculinity.
I see Nice Guys™️ throw around a bit of toxic masculinity from time to time like garnish on the edge of an otherwise delicious plate or nasty window dressing, It always feels like they are signaling that they are still cool actually, or still part of the tribe, or whatever.
Guys, I really understand gender performance pressure and the tight spot you're in, plus how much you manage to get right.
But go on, keep decolonizing your heart and brain. You can get right out, to the point that Cool Points™ don't matter any more. I promise you can do it.
Signed,
Someone who wrestles with their own toxic social conditioning every day and is a comrade in this battle
A study left groups of kids unsupervised for 5 days. The whole thing was caught on camera.
https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://www.upworthy.com/study-reveals-differences-between-boys-and-girls-ex1
How do I overcome social conditioning to confront assholes?
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Yesterday, I went to the coop with my friend. Arriving at the same time as us was an old white person [coded: woman] wearing a Barbie-pink MAGA baseball cap with a small US flag patch on it.
The coop is a hippy/liberal grocery and social space. I was safe, and in a culturally supportive environment. My friend is a disabled martial arts badass, who could protect me if it came to that. That hat, and the smug face under it made me angry. Which probably it was supposed to.
Despite my anger and desire to confront her, I didn't. I felt stifled by a lifetime of "be polite," "don't embarass your friend," etc.
I'm working on some strategies for overcoming this and know there must be other people here who are/have struggled with the same thing.
What's worked for you?
#Advice #Confrontations #USpol #Fascists
#Anarchists #Psychology #SocialConditioning
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