"Growing levels of sexism and violence among boys and young men are also exacerbated by online porn, which routinely depicts men treating women in sexist and degrading ways."
https://www.rnz.co.nz/life/wellbeing/why-we-need-to-stop-using-the-phrase-toxic-masculinity
Kink shaming much? This is pure judgement, based on the writer's own (presumably) vanilla sexuality. From a kinkster POV it's like a straight writer describing gay porn as 'online porn that depicts men treating other men in violent and degrading ways'.
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Never ever kink shame.
Unless that person is an ultra conservative shit bag who uses his power and influence to spread hate on the LGBTQ community.
Yeah, you floppy donkey cock - you fucking deserve this.
@TheZeldaZone
The phrase I use for this is "It's not for me." And it works for more than just kink--food, events, organizations, and the occasional person.
Kink talk:
I try to say "I am not interested in X" rather than "X is disgusting" or whatever.
You are not required to enjoy any/all kinks, but how you word your preferences can be upsetting and honestly, people with that "problematic kink" probably already feel weird about it, no need to pile on.
As long as it is consentual and/or fantasy, live and let live.
Oh I have to meet up with Mr Beige today.
He's the guy who has had the front to comment on my various outfits including my leather and rubber get ups. He does it in front of others and will often show them a picture of me in latex as if I'm going to be embarrassed by the fact I wear it very proudly.
This guy's idea of an exciting outfit is olive green pleated chinos rather than beige.
He's an employee at a company I do work for so it's not an option to avoid him.
@rod2ik.bsky.social Don't compare cucks to ICE.
Cucks are usually decent, caring, brave people. ICE never is and can never be.
#Faschismus ist die Mutter fast aller aktuellen Probleme. Und der bürgerlich rechte #Konservativismus ist der willig devote #Toyboy, der brav zur Stelle ist, wenn Mutter ruft.
Jaja, ich weiß, no #kinkshaming .
#porn #adolescents #KinkShaming
"In February, Dr. Bothe was an author of a paper that found that some types of pornography could affect the sexual well-being of viewers. The study, a survey of 827 young adults, found that people who watched passionate or romantic pornography reported higher sexual satisfaction in their relationships, whereas watching 'power, control and rough-sex pornography was associated with lower sexual satisfaction.' (The study also noted that the passionate, romantic and multipartner material was more widely viewed than the harder-core categories.)"
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/12/science/pornography-adolescents-teenagers.html