NerdSailorMay 4
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Show threadStrypeyApr 20

"Growing levels of sexism and violence among boys and young men are also exacerbated by online porn, which routinely depicts men treating women in sexist and degrading ways."

https://www.rnz.co.nz/life/wellbeing/why-we-need-to-stop-using-the-phrase-toxic-masculinity

Kink shaming much? This is pure judgement, based on the writer's own (presumably) vanilla sexuality. From a kinkster POV it's like a straight writer describing gay porn as 'online porn that depicts men treating other men in violent and degrading ways'.

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#kink #KinkShaming #PowerExchange #sex

Why we need to stop using the phrase 'toxic masculinity'

Many boys and men who are already feeling defensive mishear the phrase as a criticism of maleness itself, says Australian sociology professor Michael Flood.

RNZ
NömenlōonyApr 2

Never ever kink shame.

Unless that person is an ultra conservative shit bag who uses his power and influence to spread hate on the LGBTQ community.

Yeah, you floppy donkey cock - you fucking deserve this.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/kristi-noem-bryon-photos-ai-neighbors-b2950198.html

#byronnoem #kinkshaming #kinkshame

Kristi Noem’s neighbors refuse to believe bombshell cross-dressing pictures of husband are real: ‘Must be AI’

Residents of Castlewood said Bryon Noem was a supportive spouse who shied away from being in the limelight

The Independent
Show threadscreamingvikingJan 29

@TheZeldaZone
The phrase I use for this is "It's not for me." And it works for more than just kink--food, events, organizations, and the occasional person.

#kinkshaming #kink

Zelda 🎀🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈Jan 29

Kink talk:

I try to say "I am not interested in X" rather than "X is disgusting" or whatever.

You are not required to enjoy any/all kinks, but how you word your preferences can be upsetting and honestly, people with that "problematic kink" probably already feel weird about it, no need to pile on.

As long as it is consentual and/or fantasy, live and let live.

#kinkshaming #NSFW #kink

NömenlōonyDec 11

Oh I have to meet up with Mr Beige today.

He's the guy who has had the front to comment on my various outfits including my leather and rubber get ups. He does it in front of others and will often show them a picture of me in latex as if I'm going to be embarrassed by the fact I wear it very proudly.

This guy's idea of an exciting outfit is olive green pleated chinos rather than beige.

He's an employee at a company I do work for so it's not an option to avoid him.

#bullying #kinkshaming

Show threadRicardo HarvinSep 11, 2025

@rod2ik.bsky.social Don't compare cucks to ICE.

Cucks are usually decent, caring, brave people. ICE never is and can never be.

#KinkShaming

Reinald KirchnerSep 5, 2025

#Faschismus ist die Mutter fast aller aktuellen Probleme. Und der bürgerlich rechte #Konservativismus ist der willig devote #Toyboy, der brav zur Stelle ist, wenn Mutter ruft.

Jaja, ich weiß, no #kinkshaming .

LevkaDec 15, 2024

#porn #adolescents #KinkShaming

"In February, Dr. Bothe was an author of a paper that found that some types of pornography could affect the sexual well-being of viewers. The study, a survey of 827 young adults, found that people who watched passionate or romantic pornography reported higher sexual satisfaction in their relationships, whereas watching 'power, control and rough-sex pornography was associated with lower sexual satisfaction.' (The study also noted that the passionate, romantic and multipartner material was more widely viewed than the harder-core categories.)"

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/12/12/science/pornography-adolescents-teenagers.html

It’s Time to Talk About Pornography, Scholars Say

More adolescents than ever are watching it. What’s needed, researchers say, are frank conversations and “porn literacy.”

The New York Times
AstroMancer5G (she/her)Oct 22, 2024
In general, don't use #pantswetting as an #insult. It's #ableist, #ageist, and #kinkshaming all in one. Don't even treat it like a negative reflection on the person. People think it's shameful because it's like little #kids, old people, #disabled people, and people with #kinks they don't have, none of which is a bad thing to be. Assume that you will #wet yourself at least once more at some point in your life (you probably will), and act like you will want other people to act when you do.