My chains start to rust, a slave to this lust.
Craving your touch, I tremble, frustrated enough.
Etched in my mind, habitual, dissolving my trust,
Imprisoned, bear witness, as I turn to dust.

#poem #poetry #hypersexual #hypersexuality

#Hypersexuality fucking sucks some times.

#bipolar

The shame is enough to make the benefits of #hypersexuality seem mute.
#bipolar hypomania for some comes with it. Just another way im fucking broken.

#mentalhealth

@melindrea @actuallyautistic I also agree with @pathfinder's comment about the likely connection between #hypersexuality and sensation seeking in general. On balance I'm very much a sensation seeker rather than a sensation avoider. And that, too, may place me as an exception to the exception, a minority within a minority. To me #hypersexuality is very much of a piece with my love for elderflower and violet liqueurs, menthol, and rose candies. Maybe if you looked at female #autistics who are sensation seekers in general, you might indeed find #hypersexuality.

@melindrea @actuallyautistic Since I'm male AND very new to self-recognition as #autistic, I may not be the most qualified to comment, but I've only heard of this once, and not as a truth, but as a literal JOKE.

My impression so far from observing the community here is that #autistics, both male and female, are far more likely to be #ace / #aro / #demi than to be in any way #hypersexual. So much so that, as a cishet male with at least some tendencies toward #hypersexuality, I now often feel like an exception to the exception, a minority within a minority.

Aftermath of Psychosis and Hypersexuality

Personal Perspective: I had a lot of shame about things I did in mania and psychosis. To forgive myself, I needed to separate my behaviour from who I was.

Psychology Today

So tired of trying. #Depressed and fucking #horny. I need an online LTR with someone not afraid to be kinky and willing to be available whenever I need it. Cannot predict when my #hypersexuality will kick in. But no one wants me.

Just ready to give up and leave this plane.

Tonight is a bad night for my #depression. Why does my #hypersexuality flair up when I am depressed? It only makes things worse. I get rejected everywhere I turn and that makes me feel worthless. It is a struggle just to keep going.

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Kinkly - Straight up Sex Talk With a Twist

I had a poor kid come to me. For reasons that I'm not going to go into here, he's not turned on by the idea of sex right now.

"A kid? 😱 How old?"

An adult, okay? I call everybody 40 and under "kids."

He's been helping a lady who suffers from hypersexuality. He's told her he's turned off by sex... but... well... you probably guessed it. She was able to reign it in, but at some point, she came on to him *hard*, with superb bullshit like "you're a man, surely you'll want me."

 

He ghosted her.

I approved. He stated his boundaries, and she ignored them.

Why am I posting this? See, I'm sex positive. Some people imagine that being sex positive means that you want to get it on with every single being on the planet and want everyone to get it on.

Nope.

Boundaries exist. I have boundaries. I don't want to bed everyone and everything. This kid has boundaries. Good for him for having ghosted her!

Oh, and "you're a man, surely..." is a nice piece of patriarchal bullcrap.

#sex #hypersexuality #asexuality #SexPositive #boundaries #patriarchy