James Finn

@JamesFinn@stranger.social
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LGBTQ columnist. Publisher of Prism & Pen. Gay man. Cat person. Emotional and proud of it. Former member Act Up New York, Queer Nation. Fierce advocate of LGBTQ equality. Trans folks rock! Black lives matter!

Though I knew about “women disguising themselves as men in order to fight” I knew very little about the sacrifices of Trans soldiers.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/transgender-civil-war-hero-albert-cashier-c557c53970fa

#LGBTQ #Transgender #QueerHistory #History #CivilWar #AlbertCashier

Transgender Civil War Hero Albert Cashier - Prism & Pen - Medium

Teaching in one of the poorest and most rural counties in the state, I found that many of my students had somewhat narrow horizons. Many were quite intelligent, hardworking, and curious. But they…

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#Asexual people have always existed. But in a world obsessed with sex, their existence gets continually erased — sometimes through silence, sometimes through mockery, and sometimes through loud and proud ignorance.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/asexuality-is-real-why-does-that-make-people-uncomfortable-3f3458041899?sk=be763120e51e32dcf692f8a75277335f

#LGBTQ #Asexuality #JKRowling #Bigotry

Asexuality Is Real — Why Does That Make People Uncomfortable?

Asexual people have always existed. But in a world obsessed with sex, their existence gets continually erased — sometimes through silence, sometimes through mockery, and sometimes through loud and…

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As a #bisexual person “hiding” in what looks like a heterosexual marriage, I realize that I’ll need to constantly out myself whenever I want someone to know the real me.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/my-bisexual-manifesto-6ee2ce713fba?sk=e435511dadefb514c77cc3bb96a39ac2

#LGBTQ #ComingOut #Identity

My Bisexual Manifesto - Prism & Pen - Medium

As a bisexual person “hiding” in what looks like a heterosexual marriage, I realize that I’ll need to constantly out myself whenever I want someone to know the real me. Theo was a colleague I’d been…

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Teenage years hit me like a train. I wasn’t ready. So you could imagine how my world came crashing down when my dad said, “Rohan, you have to like women. What will your cousin say? What will mom say?”
https://medium.com/prismnpen/what-does-a-gay-teenager-say-to-the-world-c58aaf917f6b

#LGBTQ #Gay #ComingOfAge #India #Family

What Does A Gay Teenager Say To The World? - Prism & Pen - Medium

My tongue feels the chocolate moving around in circles. The sweetness is hard to describe — saturated fats? Pleasure? As a kid, I thought I was special. I thought some higher power put me on this…

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You had to ruin everything, didn’t you? With just a few weeks to go, I almost made it out unscathed and undetected. None of you had a clue what was underneath.
https://medium.com/prismnpen/the-den-of-the-lion-gay-masking-in-an-unconventional-high-school-spy-story-0b694894a5d7?sk=9afc95bde23060a4c18bc7cdcb643f51

#LGBTQ #HighSchool #ComingOut #Sports

In the Den of the Lion: An Unconventional Gay High School Spy Story

You had to ruin everything, didn’t you? With just a few weeks to go, I almost made it out unscathed and undetected. None of you had a clue what was underneath. Yes, I, Daniel Owen, had infiltrated…

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I couldn’t believe I was on a train in New York City, one of the most liberal places in the world, and someone was saying the word fruity, right to my face. I had to assume he still didn’t realize he was talking to a gay person.
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#LGBTQ #Gay #NYC #Masculinity #Homophobia

Why Are All the Men Who Embody Healthy Masculinity “Fruity”?

I sat next to him because I thought he was pretty. Snuggled in a window seat of the subway, reading a book with a title I couldn’t quite decipher, he had so much lovely tenderness in his face, I felt…

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Over the last couple of years, we’ve seen how people getting mad at and criticizing games for apparently “going woke” has become an industry in and of itself.
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#LGBTQ #Transgender #VideoGames #DragonAge #Backlash

The ‘Dragon Age Veilguard’ Trans Backlash: Six Months On

Over the last couple of years, we’ve seen how people getting mad at and criticizing games for apparently “going woke” has become an industry in and of itself. Just on Twitter, there are entire…

Prism & Pen

Hitting that key and launching my creation out into the universe was tough. But after spending several years shopping around for an agent and getting no one to bite it became clear that this was the only way to get it out there.
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#LGBTQ #Books #QueerBooks #SelfPublishing

Fag Rag. My First E-Book. - Prism & Pen - Medium

Hitting that key and launching my creation out into the universe was tough. But after spending several years shopping around for an agent and getting no one to bite it became clear that this was the…

Prism & Pen

I needed a Fairy Godmother ASAP, better yet a big sister. My therapist recommended the latter. In the beginning, I had no idea how to be the woman I shouted to the world that I am. How can one be a woman and not know how to be a woman? But I was!
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#LGBTQ #Transgender #Womanhood

The Silly Things I Did as a Novice Trans Girl - Prism & Pen - Medium

This is me, the novice girl, when I finally came out in 2016. I was 56 years old, and this was my first attempt with makeup. Spent most of my life observing cis females and envying everything that…

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Less than 72 hours after asking for my hand in marriage, he broke things off with me. One fight, our first and only, and that was that. He soon moved on to the best friend he swore I never needed to worry about.
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#LGBTQ #Gay #Love #Relationships #Dating

Sweets and Sweet Nothings in My Gay Dating Life - Prism & Pen - Medium

As a hopeless romantic, his proposal was the end of a journey that, for far too long, I believed I’d never stop traversing. Growing up gay and Black in the Bronx, I experienced heartbreak early and…

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