If you are in your late thirties to mid-forties right now, there is a good chance that you have spent most of your life in a cycle of making some sort of home on the internet only to have it crumble beneath you like chalk and having to start over.
@evacide i miss the time when my home was irc and usenet
@mark
@evacide mine still is irc! It survives in dark corners :)

both of those places still exist and are active @mark @evacide

Your "homes on the internet"( in those two examples) didn't crumble,  you just left home.

Maybe it's time to revisit them 😀

@krejgo @mark @evacide every time I have tried usenet over the last 20 years it's all been piracy and spam.
@draeath @krejgo @mark @evacide Spraking of piracy, through about 2006-2007 I was able to use Usenet for serious discussions of pirate radio transmitter design and operation.

@krejgo @mark @evacide Re: Usenet: I went there, I saw, I stayed a while, and I fucked off.

There’s probably a reason Mark did, too. #lang_en

@mark @evacide My home is still irc. Usenet on the other hand :( I miss that

@gullevek @mark @evacide Lately I've filled my irc niche with the local #meshcore community. Low reliability, low bandwidth, mostly "test" messages, but it's got that, je ne sais quoi, nerd roost vibe I guess.

(I still miss #initgame.)

@ozdreaming @mark @evacide The nice thing about my irc life is that there are still the same people there that where there more than 30
Years ago
@evacide keep the chalk for the inevitable indigestion
@evacide usenet (which probably betrays my age)

@nxskok @evacide

Usenet and Multics forums for me

Gods how I still miss Multics forums...

@nxskok @evacide
usenet too, where I was too afraid to go to irl meets till I was ~17/18 - people were shocked, they thought I was 30+… ironically - now, when I’m 30++ - I write like im 12;)
@evacide Letting big tech companies host and own your accounts was a mistake. In the early days we hosted our own stuff, our own websites, email, etc.. We need to go back to that. Not your keys, not your home.

@wayubi
> Letting big tech companies host and own your accounts was a mistake

Agreed.

> In the early days we hosted our own stuff, our own websites, email, etc

This is a common legend, not entirely true. It was quite normal in the 1990s to trust hosting of email, etc, to institutions with which we had a direct relationship; universities, ISPs, etc. The move to hosting by faceless platforms like Yahoo, Hotmail, EGroups, etc, began in the late 1990s, as the DotCom bubble inflated.

@evacide

@strypey @evacide I used to host my own stuff on bluehost and geocities before that when I was still in my teens

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@wayubi
> I used to host my own stuff on bluehost and geocities

Good for you. I had a website in the late 1990s on Orcon's gratis hosting, which I made using NVu and uploaded over FTP with Filezilla. But this style of self-hosting wasn't universal ever. As I say community-hosting by a trusted org was just as common, if not more common.

@evacide

@strypey @evacide it was a lot more common before MySpace, blogger, flickr and that sort of thing. I'm sorry your memory is failing you, it happens with age.

@wayubi
> I'm sorry your memory is failing you, it happens with age

I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt, and presume that was intended as light-hearted humour. But FYI that kind of joke doesn't always land when posting in a text-only medium, or when talking to strangers, and especially when you're doing both.

@evacide

@wayubi
> I'm sorry your memory is failing you, it happens with age.
That sort of snarky remarks belong on X, not Mastodon…

If this was Lemmy or reddit, I'd downvote your comment. There was no need for it. Let's try to keep things friendly here?

@strypey @evacide

@aerion @strypey @evacide Hide your drugs, the Mastodon police is here. 🚨

@wayubi
OK, you're blocked. This sort of attitude is NOT welcome here.

@strypey @evacide

@aerion
> OK, you're blocked. This sort of attitude is NOT welcome here

Just out of curiosity, why a Block rather than just a Mute?

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It's akin to the way obtain veges. It's true we haven't always relied on corporations to supply them. Some people still grow their own, and it's true that a generation ago more of us did that. But even then, plenty of people got at least some of our veges from local greengrocers, farners markets, and small, locally-owned supermarkets.

Some of us are lucky enough to still have such things, and increasing the availability of them is just as valid as a way of de-corporatising vege supply.

@wayubi
Strictly speaking, Geocities wasn't self-hosting.
@strypey @evacide
@aerion @strypey @evacide Strictly speaking, neither are any of the self hosting services in existence (or the domain resolution services you need to drive traffic there), but it's understood that your own code uploaded to a web server via ftp counts as self hosting, and not everyone has a stick up their ass.
@evacide is that old enough to have had a geocities page? 😊
I still kind of feel like the idea that we would all have "homepages" linked together by common interests and spontaneous social networking was one of our better ones. Fediverse is pretty cool too though...

@adaroc @evacide

webrings and banner links and pixel icons to show off our fandoms!

+ coding in little workarounds to circumvent Geocities ads. XD

@adaroc @evacide We have https://neocities.org/ now! I am still active in IRC, and the Fediverse is a cosy place to be, too. I miss StudiVZ a bit, and these small creative forums for everything.
Neocities

Create and surf awesome websites for free.

@Mecrisp
> I miss StudiVZ a bit, and these small creative forums for everything

Hopefully more people make use of Lemmy, MBin, nodeBB, Discourse (+AP plugin), PieFed, and other forum-style apps that can now be part of the fediverse too.

@adaroc @evacide

@evacide it's true but then we built it on the sand of private billionaire beaches, that's on us, maybe we let the sea take it all and start again on firmer freer ground.
@zoneghost @evacide
I would love this. How do we do this without being billionaires or nation states ourselves? To my mind, the only way to accomplish this is to seize the means of production.

@zoneghost
To be fair, many of those places didn't start out like that. Probably didn't even intend to turn into what they've become now. Investors happened, and with that enshitification followed.

Just look at the origins of Facebook, that didn't start as a disguised advertising company driven by a mass corporate surveillance machine.

@evacide

@evacide
Memories of Google+. 😏
@evacide let me see... IRC, ICQ, Forums and message boards, Facebook, MMORPG, Twitter... yes, pretty much. I feel a bit like a drifter now. No real home. Just go in and out, take what I need, wave hello, and carry on.

@evacide

......is that just on the internet, or in general?

@evacide "[…] The Temple […] grows cold and strong, but the wind blows stronger, cold and long"
true in many a context

@evacide one more reason to have a persistent handle and a fursona.

The chalk may crumble, but I will find my friends again.

@pencilears @evacide I've had a fursona and been furry for decades and it never occurred to me how useful a fursona is as a defacto universal internet identity.

I just like imagining I'm a blue rat but like yeah no if you wanna find me, follow the blue rat!