@cmconseils So rich people are just more anxious/ insecure?

@MaierAmsden @cmconseils

I'd argue that the rich are simply greedy.

Imagine that you had enough money to do whatever you wanted (buy a nice house, nice car, take whatever vacations you wanted, etc)... what would motivate you to want even more money (i.e. money to the point that you can't even spend it all)?

@RantingCanuck @MaierAmsden @cmconseils espechally when one has so much money and wealth that even if money was abolished they'd still have so many assets and property that they and every offspring of theirs born in their lifetime would not have to engage in wagework for their whole life.

Like some "wealth-based Neo-#nobility" class

@MaierAmsden @cmconseils Big time emotional regulation issues. A lot of daddy and mommy issues in the group, and maybe we should be talking about that more.

@MaierAmsden @cmconseils I'd argue that rich people are the most insecure out of everybody. They know their fortune could change and they could lose it all in a blink of an eye. A deal may go bad, a market might crash and for tax reasons everything they do is leveraged through debt held by banks against their stock holdings. Their expenses are through the roof with the multiple homes and yachts and private jets and an entire staff of people with their hands out just to manage their wealth.

Rich people are nothing but paranoia and constant struggle. This is why none would so much as give you a nickel if you asked.

I'd think "not to worry anymore" in the meme is a midway-point where you can afford a home, can afford transportation, can afford food, and an annual vacation.

@MaierAmsden The key words there are “most people”.
@MaierAmsden @cmconseils If you plan to be rich my advice is to keep it very low key like you stole every last cent. The ostentatiously wealthy get no rest. If you have a preferred charity - keep it anonymous. You are expected: to keep up appearances, get stuck with the bill, get pitched stupid ideas constantly, get sent/given random things you never asked for, meet the worst people, are not allowed to complain, everyone is awkward and weird... and there is always someone richer but that's ok
@MaierAmsden @cmconseils I don't think people realize this, there are a hell of a lot of high net worth people, much more new money than old, literally in the millions in the UK. Very many 'aristocrats' appear wealthy but are living in leaking 400 year old ruins and £10m in the red for lead roofing or just desperately trying not to die leaving their family a huge tax bill. New money are some of the most ghastly people you could ever meet, you'd think they'd be happy having 'made it'. /2

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That’s actually a very interesting statement with a deeper sense behind it. They key word is “most”, because it touches the statistical composition of the society. Just like most people aren’t violent, the very term “most” implies that there are “some” who are, and the society has to deal with them. In the same way, most people are empathic but there are “some” who are sociopaths or psychopaths, and there are “some” who are obsessed with being excessively rich because that’s how their brain is composed. At the same time, because most people tend to project their own worldview and preferences onto others, they don’t quite accept the prevalence of sociopaths or people obsessed with wealth as a statistical phenomenon, preferring instead to view it as a moral challenge. But these people are part of society and if we see these behaviours as destructive (which I believe they are), it’s the society that has to design means to control them.

@cmconseils At somepoint i feel like money becomes pointless and billionaires just become nihilists. Like imagine having billions on ur bank account but you still have no real friends and you have the same health problems as anyone and you know you will still die someday no matter where you go. Then we all suffer from their coping mechanisms.

@cmconseils I've seen research and convincing commentary/analysis that says this is what drives many rich people's most antisocial richperson behavior.

When do you stop worrying? When you have a middle-class income and some hope of retirement? When your retirement is enough for you to stay middle-class? When your children, if any, have ample college funds? When you have enough to deal with a tree falling on your house? A full-house robbery? The death of a loved one? A long-term disability that takes you or other loved ones out of the workforce for years? A kidnapping and ransom situation (increasingly likely the more money you have)? A cancer diagnosis? Multiple loved ones with cancer diagnoses? The collapse of the real estate market? A stock market crash taking your 401(k) with it? The collapse of the US or global economy?

The terms "enough" and "secure" aren't binary; there's no clear point at which they happen. I suspect even Bezos partly wants more money to hedge against certain low-probability but awful catastrophes. Rich people are driven by their situations just like everyone else.

This isn't to say we should stop holding people accountable for behavior--we don't have a legal/moral framework for anything else. Maybe the answer is what people have been saying for generations: stronger socialized, collective protections against the things we worry about, so there's less temptation to follow the "I need more money because I'm still not protected against some dangers" path.

And aggressively tax high wealth at the same time.

@cmconseils Springsteen sang in Badlands:
Poor man wanna be rich, rich man wanna be king
And a king ain't satisfied 'til he rules everything

@cmconseils Exactly so.

We buy lottery tickets but openly discuss how I mean sure, we’ll of course take the $40 million (or whatever) if that’s how it plays out, but honestly, if it can clear our mortgage and let my wife finally retire, even a tiny fraction of that would be a life changer.

@cmconseils in my opinion all rich people's were poor at some point or there parents were poor. So some kind of hate against poverty. They want to get all money and tells everyone that we can buy anything we have more money thn you, we are more successful than you. They think achieving everything makes them successful in front of whole world.

@GOKUSHRM @cmconseils I am not sure that this is true. I know New Money is a thing, but the wealthiest families are Old Money - multi-generational dynastic family wealth.

Those people really want power, and money is just a way to have power. And when they are unable to become more powerful by acquiring more money, they will try to gain power by impoverishing others instead.

@simagick @cmconseils might be possible.,but all of them are alone even after that money. And at the end all ll go with empty hands
@GOKUSHRM @cmconseils One can never truly "win" in life, but some people are uniquely positioned to harm a lot of people to make themselves feel powerful.
@simagick @cmconseils true... These kind of peoples not aware of true knowledge about life. That's why they running blindly

@cmconseils

universal 👏
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@cmconseils I want enough to be comfortable and do what I like yea.
Nothing more, nothing less.
@cmconseils Not having to worry is communism.
@cmconseils Based on Greta: They want you to panic.

@cmconseils I would do my best NOT to be rich, ever

If the point comes when you have TOO much you spend it on people who NEED it

@cmconseils

Greed alters the brain. It's almost like a mental illness.

@cmconseils From observation: I find that the rich kind of slip into needing more and more because they only associate socially with the wealthy. They need to keep up with their tax accountant’s suggestions, their financial advisors recommendations, their charitable foundations, their country club and yacht fees, etc.

CEOs often don’t have ANY idea how hard the poor work just to survive.

@cmconseils wobei das ja eine Illusion ist.
Egal wie viel Geld man hat. Die Sorgen kommen aus den Gedanken, nicht aus dem Materiellen.
@cmconseils everyone who is rich makes malware or shitty decisions so

@cmconseils true, true.

"Normal" people merely see money as a tool, as means to "grease things" and achieve tings faster, with less stress and higher success rate…

@cmconseils
Being rich is , if you make the best of the money you have, being happy is making the best of what you are.
If you don´t have enough money, you are poor, no matter how rich you are...

@cmconseils

We all want to pay our bills and be able to afford to live.
In the Richest country in the world, there is hardly any safety net for its citizens.
America needs Universal Free Healthcare, a Social Security system that takes into account those in need, instead of tax breaks for the rich, illegal wars and people dying because they cannot afford to access healthcare.
America, are u civilised? Or do your opinions reflect those of an Orange Rapist and convicted Felon?
You choose!

@cmconseils 100% agreed. I always wanted enough money to not think what I can order at a restaurant and when I reached this, I actually realized I do not know what to do whit the rest of the money
@cmconseils Really seems like hitting that sweet spot is becoming more and more difficult. You hit a wall where you have to be a bigger bastard than most CEOs, but then you either dramatically shoot past it or die.
@cmconseils

"Too much wealth brings disaster. When you increase your wealth, you fear losing it. To ease that fear, you spend money to make more of it. The idiot boy doesn't realize how empty it all is."
-Sverkel, Vinland Saga
@cmconseils we all have to tighten our belts, so that a few insatiable bastards can keep on accumulating more
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I guess I'm not most people then.

@cmconseils

i want so much money that all people have to worry...

@cmconseils I would be considered rich by some people. I dont have near enough future stability to no be worried. The fucked state of college and medical care in the US makes this true for many people.

Im not worried about food (for now), but the struggle to not return to that state is a real thing.

The crazy thing is by top whatever percent im up high, but that isn't enough in the US to not worry. The middle class is probably the 93 - 95 percentile, or something similarly dumb

@cmconseils I want enough money so that I can build my own solar powered home cabin either in the middle of a forest, mountain or a body of water and be a farmer or fisher, get my own food, only living with just a radio or a telly to watch my cartoons or whatever the antenna picks up.

I don't want friends. Heck, I don't even want computers. I don't want a big house or cars or anything expensive.

It's like living off the grid but I'd like to be left alone permanently, for the rest of my life.

@cmconseils “Enough money that I don’t have to worry” is my definition of “rich”

@cmconseils Amen to that, I just want enough to buy my way out of having to feed the elite for my slice of the pie.

Freedom from housing costs would largely do it by my count.

@cmconseils The trick to save the Earth from being eaten by anxious greedy bastards would be to make people feel safe without needing more and more money.

@cmconseils Beyond that I feel like a lot of people want like *one or two* nice things.

They want to know that if they buy one nice thing, that's not going to be the thing that bankrupts them. Nobody wants to be the guy who treated himself to his first ever new car only to lose his job and get moralized at for not buying used.

@cmconseils "Money can't buy happiness, but it sure can buy off misery..."
@cmconseils And we know how much money that is:
Data : Killingworth 2020