I Am Seen: Uriel’s Story

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I am Uriel. I have been many things in my life — a servant of the queen, her treasurer, a man entrusted with her wealth, her correspondence, her secrets. Respected, feared, admired. Yet in the quiet of my heart, I have often felt… unseen. Not just overlooked by men, but unseen by God.

For years, I had believed that my position, my intelligence, my loyalty, and my ability to navigate the intrigues of court life could define me. That I could earn respect, perhaps even God’s favor, through accomplishment. But the truth I carried in my heart told a different story. I was a eunuch, a man marked by society as incomplete, and no title, no honor, no treasure could hide the ache of exclusion.

That day, I rode south on the desert road from Jerusalem to Gaza. My chariot rattled over stones that seemed to mock the rhythm of my heartbeat, the sun pressing down with a relentless weight. In my hands was a scroll — Isaiah 53 — the words of the suffering servant, pierced for our transgressions, led like a lamb to the slaughter. I had read these words many times before, but today they burned differently.

As I read, I reflected on Isaiah 56:3-5 — the promise to eunuchs and the marginalized. I felt a warmth in my chest as if God were speaking directly to me: “Some are born that way, some are made that way, some choose devotion for the kingdom of heaven. God sees you. You are not lesser. You are not overlooked.”

Could it really be true? Could a man like me — excluded from family, from the society I served, defined by usefulness rather than worth — truly belong? Could I be accepted by God?

I thought of the queen’s court. Every day, I managed treasures, counseled ministers, carried the queen’s correspondence. I was trusted with her wealth, her secrets, her reputation. Men came to me for advice, for judgment, for strategy. Yet I walked among them as a man seen only for what he could do, not who he was. Every glance reminded me: I was different — useful, yes, but incomplete.

I reflected on my own pride. I had relied on titles and intellect, on influence and cunning, to craft my identity. I had learned to hide my loneliness behind a mask of competence. But in the heat of the desert and the stillness of my soul, I realized that all of it was hollow. Who truly saw me? Who truly knew me?

Then he appeared. Philip. Walking steadily toward me, eyes focused, yet gentle. Later I learned he had been sent by an angel of the Lord — divinely orchestrated, guided to this road at exactly this moment. My breath caught. There was authority in him, yes, but also a kindness I had rarely encountered. Something in his presence radiated God’s intent.

Philip spoke simply: “Do you understand what you are reading?”

I hesitated, pride rising as it always did. I knew the scriptures. I could recite them, interpret them, debate them with scholars. But he did not speak to test my knowledge. His question invited honesty. I spoke of Isaiah 53, of the suffering servant who bore our pain, pierced for our transgressions. I confessed my confusion, my longing, my sense of unworthiness. “How can a man like me,” I asked, “find a place in God’s kingdom? I am a eunuch. I have no sons, no family legacy. I am… incomplete.”

Philip nodded, his expression steady, patient. “The Spirit opens hearts to see what is true,” he said. “God looks at the heart, not at status or appearance. He sees you, Uriel. He calls you.”

I felt again the echo of Jesus’ words about eunuchs — self-denial, surrender, devotion beyond societal expectations. This was the path God offered: not pride, not titles, not the approval of men, but humility and obedience. My walls began to crumble. The pride that had insulated me for years, the fear of exposure, the ache of exclusion — all were being unmasked in the light of God’s acceptance.

I thought back to my days in the palace: the careful calculations, the whispered secrets, the constant weighing of trust and betrayal. I had been a man of influence, yes, but never a man free. Always performing, always measured. Always hiding the parts of myself that the world deemed “incomplete.” I realized then that God’s kingdom did not measure me by what society demanded, but by what He saw — a heart capable of faith, a soul capable of surrender.

I looked down at the water in the desert ravine, a narrow pool glimmering under the sun. My chest tightened. “See,” I said to Philip, pointing, “here is water! What prevents me from being baptized?”

We left the chariot together. I stepped into the cool water, the desert air contrasting sharply against the stream’s embrace. As I lowered myself beneath the surface, I felt more than water surrounding me — I felt the weight of years of shame and fear, pride and secrecy, lifting. When I rose again, I gasped, tasting freedom for the first time in my life.

Philip smiled. We sat for a while on the bank, the scroll still in my hands. He asked quietly about my life, my fears, my doubts. I spoke of the isolation I had felt as a eunuch in a society that prizes legacy and masculinity, of the times I wondered if God could ever use someone like me. He listened. And I understood, in a way I never had before, that God’s acceptance is not earned through achievement or conformity, but received through honesty, humility, and surrender.

I mounted my chariot once more, the scroll of Isaiah 53 still in my hands, but now a new understanding in my heart. I was not merely a treasurer, not merely a eunuch, not merely a man defined by society. I was seen. Fully. By God. And in that sight, I was made whole.

As I rode down the road, I thought of men I knew — proud, successful, burdened by secrecy or shame, afraid to be seen as they truly are. I thought of the armor we wear, the masks we craft, the chains of pride we carry. I wanted to tell them: true strength is not measured by titles, wealth, or control. True strength is courage, humility, and surrender. To be seen by God is freedom beyond any earthly measure.

I am Uriel. I am seen. I am known. And I will never be the same.

Author’s Note – Inclusion and God’s Promise

There are times in life when we feel invisible — when the world notices what we do but never who we truly are. Perhaps you’ve carried the weight of pride, fear, or isolation, wondering if anyone really sees you.

We don’t know the name of the eunuch that day on the desert road, but God does. History preserves his title, his position, his nationality — but not the man’s name. Yet in God’s eyes, he is known. He has a new name, one that is written on a memorial, within the walls of God’s temple. He new name is etched in eternity. Isaiah 56:4–8 promises:

“To the eunuchs who keep my Sabbaths,
who choose what pleases me and hold fast to my covenant—
to them I will give within my temple and its walls a memorial and a name better than sons and daughters; I will give them an everlasting name that will endure forever.

And foreigners who bind themselves to the Lord to minister to him,
to love the name of the Lord, and to be his servants,
all who keep the Sabbath without desecrating it
and who hold fast to my covenant—these I will bring to my holy mountain and give them joy in my house of prayer. Their burnt offerings and sacrifices will be accepted on my altar; for my house will be called a house of prayer for all nations.”

Notice that Isaiah specifically promises that “their burnt offerings and sacrifices will be accepted…for all nations.” God intended the temple to be a place where those excluded by society — eunuchs, foreigners, outsiders — could encounter Him fully.

Yet centuries later, Jesus braided a whip and overturned the tables of the money changers in the temple. Why? Because the vendors were in the Court of the Gentiles, the only place where non-Jews could approach God. They had turned God’s house — God’s house of prayer for all nations — into a marketplace that excluded and exploited outsiders.

This act reveals God’s heart: He calls the marginalized to worship freely, and He opposes systems that keep them out. The eunuch’s story on the desert road echoes this truth: even if society excludes or overlooks you, God sees you, welcomes you, and your devotion is honored in His eternal house.

May this promise speak to anyone who has ever felt unseen or excluded. You are seen. You are known. And your name is written on the walls of God’s eternal temple.

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Sources

• Acts 8:26-40 – Philip and the Ethiopian Eunuch
• Isaiah 53 – The Suffering Servant
• Matthew Henry Commentary on Acts 8
• Baptism and New Beginnings – Desiring God
• The Ethiopian Eunuch – GotQuestions.org
• Who Was the Ethiopian Eunuch?
• Acts 8:36 Commentary – BibleRef.com
• Acts 8 Commentary – BibleStudyTools
• What Baptism Means – Crossway
• The Ethiopian Eunuch in Christian History
• Matthew Henry’s Commentary – Acts 8
• Acts 8:38 – Baptism Verse Study
• Acts 8 Bible Verses – Topical Study
• Baptism as New Beginning – Ligonier Ministries
• Baptism – OpenBible.info

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The views and opinions expressed in this post are solely those of the author. The information provided is based on personal research, experience, and understanding of the subject matter at the time of writing. Readers should consult relevant experts or authorities for specific guidance related to their unique situations.

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The Happiness Trilogy: 3 of 3-Part Blog Series

You Need More Good Friends!

A Roadmap To Friendships

Understanding that relationships are the foundation of happiness and health is one thing; actually building and maintaining those connections in our busy, distracted modern lives is another challenge entirely. The Harvard Study of Adult Development doesn’t just tell us that relationships matter; it provides a roadmap for cultivating the kinds of connections that truly transform our lives. Here’s how to put that research into action.

Start Where You Are: Assessing Your Current Connections

Before building new relationships, take an honest inventory of your existing ones. The Harvard research suggests quality matters far more than quantity. Ask yourself: Who can I call at 2 AM if I need help? Who really knows me? Whose company genuinely energizes rather than drains me?

This assessment isn’t about judgment; it’s about clarity. You might discover you have fewer close relationships than you thought, or that some connections have drifted due to neglect rather than incompatibility. You might realize certain relationships are actively harming your well-being. Understanding your current landscape is the first step toward intentional change.

Consider keeping a simple connection journal for two weeks. Note your interactions: who you spend time with, how you feel afterward, and whether conversations go deeper than surface pleasantries. Patterns will emerge that help you understand where to invest your energy and where boundaries might be needed.

Prioritize Depth Over Breadth

Our culture celebrates large social networks and constant social engagement, but the happiness research points in a different direction. Having three close friends you can truly count on predicts better health outcomes than having thirty acquaintances you see occasionally. This is liberating news for introverts and anyone feeling overwhelmed by social obligations.

Focus on deepening a few key relationships rather than maintaining an exhausting roster of casual connections. This might mean saying no to large group events to create space for one-on-one time with people who matter most. It might mean having fewer but longer conversations, moving past “How are you?” to questions that invite vulnerability and authenticity.

Depth develops through consistency and openness. Share something real about your life. Ask questions that show genuine curiosity. Follow up on previous conversations to demonstrate you were listening and care. These small acts accumulate into the kind of secure attachment the research identifies as protective.

The Power of Regular Rituals

The strongest relationships in the Harvard study often featured regular, predictable interactions, weekly dinners, morning walks, and monthly book clubs. These rituals provide structure that makes connection effortless, even when life gets hectic. They remove the friction of constant planning and create reliable touchpoints.

Establish simple rituals with the people who matter most. This could be a weekly phone call with a distant friend, a standing coffee date with a colleague, or a monthly dinner with neighbours. The specific activity matters less than the regularity. What you’re really building is the confidence that this connection won’t disappear even when you’re both busy.

Rituals also create opportunities for deeper conversation. Once you’ve covered surface updates in the first few minutes, recurring meetings naturally move into more meaningful territory. There’s safety in predictability that allows vulnerability to emerge.

Practice Active Repair in Relationships

The Harvard research found that even couples who argued frequently showed positive health benefits if they felt confident they could count on each other when it mattered. This highlights an essential skill: relationship repair. Conflict is inevitable in any close relationship; what matters is how quickly and effectively you repair the ruptures.

Active repair means acknowledging when you’ve hurt someone, apologizing sincerely, and taking responsibility without defensiveness. It means reaching out after a disagreement rather than letting resentment calcify. It means assuming good intentions and addressing issues before they become insurmountable.

Many people avoid conflict or let problems fester because they fear difficult conversations. The research suggests the opposite approach: addressing issues promptly and with compassion actually strengthens relationships. It demonstrates that the relationship matters enough to fight for, and builds trust in your ability to weather storms together.

Invest in Face-to-Face Connection

While technology enables us to stay in touch across distances, the Harvard study participants built their closest bonds through in-person interaction. There’s something about physical presence, reading body language, sharing space, engaging all our senses, that deepens connection in ways that screens can’t fully replicate.

This doesn’t mean abandoning digital communication, but rather being intentional about its role. Use technology to maintain connection between in-person meetings, but prioritize face-to-face time when possible. A video call is better than nothing, but a walk together or a shared meal creates bonds that texts and emails cannot.

If distance makes regular in-person connections impossible, maximize the visits you do have. Plan longer, less frequent trips rather than rushing through quick visits. Create space for unstructured time together rather than packing every moment with activities.

Cultivate Community Beyond Close Friends

While intimate relationships are crucial, the research also highlights the importance of broader community involvement. Belonging to groups, whether religious congregations, volunteer organizations, hobby clubs, or neighbourhood associations, provides multiple layers of support and meaning.

Community involvement offers something different from close friendships: a sense of purpose beyond yourself, exposure to diverse perspectives, and the satisfaction of contributing to something larger. These connections might not be as intimate as your closest relationships, but they provide resilience through variety and prevent over-dependence on just one or two people.

Start with your interests. Join a running club, a book group, or a community garden. Volunteer for a cause you care about. Take a class. Show up consistently at the same places and allow relationships to develop organically. Community isn’t built overnight, but regular presence in shared spaces creates familiarity that often blossoms into friendship.

Be Present and Curious

Perhaps the simplest and most powerful strategy: when you’re with someone, really be with them. Put away your phone. Listen with genuine curiosity rather than planning your response. Ask follow-up questions. Notice details about their lives and remember them for next time.

Presence is increasingly rare in our distracted world, which makes it all the more valuable. When you give someone your full attention, you communicate that they matter, that their words and experiences are worth your focus. This creates safety and trust that allows relationships to deepen naturally.

Curiosity keeps relationships fresh even after years. There’s always more to learn about someone if you’re genuinely interested. Ask about their childhood, their dreams, and their opinions on topics you’ve never discussed. Treat even long-term relationships with the exploratory spirit of a new friendship.

Your Future Self Will Thank You

Building relationships that transform your life doesn’t require dramatic gestures or extensive free time. It requires intention, consistency, and the willingness to show up authentically. Start small: reach out to one person this week. Schedule one meaningful conversation. Join one community group. The Harvard research is detailed; these aren’t just nice-to-haves but essential investments in your health, happiness, and longevity. Your future self will thank you for every moment you spend building the connections that make life worth living.

The Happiness Trilogy: 1 of 3-Part Blog Series

Are You Happy?

Fascinating, if You Ask Me!

For nearly eight decades, Harvard researchers have been tracking the lives of hundreds of individuals in what has become one of the most comprehensive studies on human happiness ever conducted. The Harvard Study of Adult Development didn’t just follow people through good times and bad; it revealed fundamental truths about what makes life worth living. What they discovered challenges everything we think we know about success, health, and happiness.

The Surprising Power of Relationships

When Harvard scientists began analyzing decades of health data, medical records, and personal interviews, they expected to find that genetics, wealth, or career success would be the key predictors of a long and happy life. Instead, they discovered something far more profound: the quality of our relationships matters more than anything else.

People who were most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80. This wasn’t just about feeling good emotionally—close relationships actually protected physical health better than cholesterol levels, blood pressure, or family medical history. The strength of your social bonds literally predicts how long you’ll live and how well you’ll age.

Director Robert Waldinger, a psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital, puts it simply: relationships are a form of self-care. While we invest time and money into gym memberships, organic food, and health supplements, we often neglect the single most important factor in our wellbeing—the people around us.

Loneliness: The Silent Killer

The research revealed a darker side, too. Loneliness isn’t just an emotional burden; it’s a serious health risk. The study found that social isolation has health consequences as severe as smoking or alcoholism. People who felt lonely experienced faster physical and mental decline, regardless of how well they took care of their bodies in other ways.

This finding takes on new significance in our modern world, where technology promises connection but often delivers isolation. We can have hundreds of online friends yet feel profoundly alone. The Harvard study reminds us that it’s not the number of connections that matters, but their quality and depth.

Beyond Genetics: What Really Determines Healthy Aging

The study identified six key factors that predicted healthy aging, and genetics wasn’t at the top of the list. Physical activity, absence of smoking and alcohol abuse, mature coping mechanisms for stress, maintaining a healthy weight, and having a stable marriage all proved more important than having long-lived ancestors.

For the inner-city participants in the study, education emerged as an additional protective factor. Higher education correlated with better health choices throughout life, including avoiding smoking, eating well, and using alcohol moderately.

Perhaps most encouraging, the research showed that our life trajectories aren’t fixed in our twenties. People who struggled early in life could become thriving octogenarians, while those who seemed destined for success could derail through alcoholism or depression. Change is always possible.

The Brain-Body Connection

One of the most fascinating discoveries was how relationships protect cognitive function. People in happy marriages maintained better memory and mental sharpness as they aged. Even couples who bickered frequently showed this protective effect, as long as they felt they could count on each other when it mattered most.

This brain-body connection works both ways. Marital dissatisfaction didn’t just affect mood; it actually increased physical pain in older adults. Those in unhappy relationships reported more emotional distress and greater physical discomfort on the same days, showing how deeply intertwined our social and physical health really are.

Conclusion

The Harvard Study of Adult Development offers a clear prescription for a good life, and it’s simpler than we might think. Invest in relationships. Show up for the people who matter. Build communities that support you through hard times. Take care of your body, but remember that tending to your connections is just as vital.

In a world obsessed with productivity, achievement, and individual success, this research delivers a counter-cultural message: happiness isn’t something we achieve alone. It’s something we build together, one relationship at a time.

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