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When Is It Okay to Not Save Enough? A Balanced Financial Approach

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Insights from The Mind Money Spectrum Podcast Episode #127

As a fiduciary financial advisor committed to helping high-performance professionals achieve financial security and freedom, I often lean on the timeless advice: save more, invest wisely, and harness the power of compound growth. This mantra especially rings true for those in their 20s and 30s, when laying the foundation for a robust retirement plan is critical. Yet, in my practice, I’ve come to understand that there are very real life scenarios where it is okay not to save as much as possible—and sometimes, prioritizing well-being and life satisfaction over aggressive saving can be the wiser choice.

In this post, inspired by a deep conversation on the Mind Money Spectrum podcast, I want to explore when not saving enough might be a reasonable decision, what underlying principles can guide those choices, and how professionals can balance financial prudence with life’s complex realities.

The Traditional Advice: Save More, Start Early, Work Longer

First, let’s acknowledge what the data and decades of financial planning theory emphasize. The earlier you start saving—especially in retirement accounts like 401(k)s and IRAs—the more you benefit from compound interest. Starting to save aggressively in your 20s can yield greater nest eggs than starting later and saving much more each year.

This advice is especially relevant in the context of pursuing Financial Independence and Retiring Early (FIRE), where a high savings rate fuels an accelerated path to freedom from traditional employment. The math is simple: starting sooner means money has more time to grow.

However, life is rarely linear. People’s priorities shift. Careers evolve. Family grows. And sometimes, the traditional saving trajectory doesn’t fit the rich tapestry of someone’s journey.

When Is It Okay to Save Less?

So, when is it okay not to save ‘enough’? Let me emphasize, this is not a free pass to be fiscally reckless. Instead, it’s about intentional, well-thought-out deviations from the classical plan informed by your unique circumstances, values, and future flexibility.

1. Prioritizing Life Well-being and Satisfaction

Some clients choose to invest more in experiences that enhance their quality of life now—whether that means buying a home that better fits their family’s needs, taking a career sabbatical, or relocating for better lifestyle quality. In doing so, they may temporarily lower their savings rate, understand this increases the likelihood of working longer or adjusting their retirement expectations, and accept that trade-off.

For example, a growing family may want to move into a larger home in a preferred school district, even if it means cutting back on discretionary savings for several years. The decision is less about ignoring financial reality and more about intentionally valuing “living well today” alongside or over “saving aggressively for the unknown future.” This is where truly personalized financial planning shines—by quantifying the impact and offering flexibility without sacrificing your long-term goals entirely.

2. Embracing Flexibility in Career and Employment

The notion that retirement means ceasing all paid work is increasingly outdated. Many high-performing professionals I work with aspire to be “recreationally employed”—meaning they want to do work that provides joy, fulfillment, and perhaps some income, but without the pressure of maximized savings or grinding long hours.

If you expect to stay engaged professionally, even at a different pace or in a different role, your required savings may be lower. That income stream and ongoing engagement serve as a buffer, reduce reliance on portfolio withdrawals, and allow more leeway in your financial plan.

For instance, some clients have achieved or nearly achieved financial independence but continue working because they find enormous satisfaction and stimulation in their fields. In such cases, I sometimes encourage them to spend more freely and enjoy their earnings—since the long horizon and steady income minimize risk.

3. Planned Temporary Reductions in Savings

Life happens. Job loss, health changes, starting a business, or furthering education may cause short-term drops in savings. Provided you have a thoughtful plan to get back on track and sufficient resources to cover needs, these temporary deviations can be a healthy trade-off for personal growth and happiness.

A client laid off but who opts to take time off with a supportive spouse’s income to boost family time or travel, for example, might lower their retirement contributions for a year or two. Through careful cash flow management and realistic future income assumptions, this need not spell disaster.

The Importance of Planning for Flexibility

One common thread connecting all these scenarios is the critical value of flexibility. While conventional plans often assume a fixed retirement age, earnings growth, and static withdrawal rates, real life rarely follows a straight line.

Financial plans should not be rigid scripts but dynamic roadmaps that you revisit and adjust as circumstances change. Here’s how you can build that flexibility into your planning:

  • Accept Moderate Confidence in Success: Instead of targeting a 95% success probability (which demands very conservative saving and spending), consider a moderate 80% success rate that acknowledges some risk and potential changes. You improve your odds by committing to adjustments if needed.
  • Prepare for Plan Adjustments: Know the potential “what ifs”—working a few extra years, trimming discretionary spending during market downturns, or increasing income sources. These contingencies create a buffer without derailing your plan.
  • Utilize Distribution Strategies: Tax-efficient withdrawal sequences, Roth conversions, and delaying Social Security can enhance your portfolio’s longevity.
  • Leverage Nontraditional Assets When Needed: While I don’t favor alternative investments, options such as reverse mortgages or annuities can sometimes provide last-resort sources of income if traditional portfolios are stressed in retirement.
  • Consider “Recreational Employment”: Maintaining some engagement in enjoyable work post-FIRE can provide income, purpose, and offset lower savings.

Intentionality Is Everything: Avoiding Impulse Financial Decisions

Deciding to save less or deviate from conservative plans must be intentional and based on solid understanding, not impulsive emotional decisions. The clients I work with who find success here commit to open, ongoing conversations and transparent planning processes.

They ask themselves:

  • Am I comfortable with potential risks or setbacks if my plan needs adjustments later?
  • How important is the lifestyle value I’m gaining now compared to accelerating financial independence?
  • Do I trust that I will have the discipline and ability to revisit and revise my plan regularly?
  • Have I accounted for potential changes in income, expenses, and market returns?
  • Can I tolerate the uncertainty and complexity of choosing a moderate confidence level plan versus a fully conservative approach?

Practical Steps for Professionals Considering Saving Less

If you relate to any of these scenarios and believe it’s okay for you to save less—for example, to buy a better home, temporarily reduce savings during career transitions, or lean into a more fulfilling work-life balance—here’s how you can proceed with confidence.

1. Start with a Comprehensive Plan

Work with a fiduciary advisor to model your current savings trajectory versus adjusted savings rates. Understand the potential impact on your projected retirement date, portfolio longevity, and flexibility needs.

2. Identify Key Assumptions and Risks

What assumptions about market returns, salary growth, inflation, and spending patterns are baked into your plan? Scenario analysis can clarify what happens in downturns and upside markets and whether you have buffers.

3. Build in Regular Reviews and Adjustments

Commit to meeting your advisor frequently—preferably quarterly or biannually—to reassess your situation and make course corrections. This iterative, agile approach mimics the best practices of modern project management and accounts for life’s uncertainties.

4. Prepare Contingency Plans

Have a toolbox of strategies ready: delay retirement by a few years, delay Social Security, reduce discretionary expenses, or consider partial/unconventional income sources.

5. Embrace a Life-Planning Mindset

Financial planning is not only about numbers, but about how those numbers map to your life satisfaction. Explore exercises like George Kinder’s three life questions or design your ideal day/week/year to align your money decisions with what truly matters to you.

Final Thoughts: Beyond the “Save More” Mantra

As much as I advocate for saving early and consistently, I recognize that a rigid fixation on aggressive saving isn’t always the best fit—especially for high-performance professionals navigating multifaceted lives.

Sometimes, being financially prudent means allowing space for life’s complexities—valuing happiness, family, career fulfillment, and meaningful experiences—even if that means saving a little less temporarily or not following the strictest conservative path to financial independence.

Embracing this requires a disciplined but flexible approach—ongoing planning, transparent conversations, and readiness to adjust along the way.

If you’re seeking financial security and freedom, remember that the right plan is not always the most conservative one. It’s the plan that fits your life, offers you choices, and empowers you to live intentionally.

If you’d like to discuss how a flexible, life-centered financial plan could work for you, I’m here to help.

Originally published on July 18, 2023

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Satisfaction with safety and future security did not appear to be strongly affected by voluntary simplicity. “Consumer culture promotes happiness as being typically associated with high levels of income and the capability it affords to acquire and accumulate material possessions,” the researchers explained. “However, our research shows people are happier when they live more simply because it frees up time and resources to connect with others, live in line with their values, and participate in their communities.” “Voluntary simplicity basically the conscious choice to live with ‘enough’ rather than excess. It’s not about deprivation or giving up everything you own, but about reducing unnecessary consumption to focus on what truly matters, relationships, purpose, and meaningful experiences. These connections and shared experiences – not just the absence of stuff – are what boost wellbeing. 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Between 2000 and 2019, global domestic material consumption increased by 66 per cent, tripling since the 1970s to reach 95.1 billion metric tons,” said Professor Robert Aitken and Associate Professor Leah Watkins, both of the University of Otago. “At the same time, international research suggests that there’s a point where more money and things stops making us happier, that once basic needs are met and financial stress is reduced, extra income and more material consumption bring only marginal gains in life satisfaction, and in some cases, it can actually increase stress. So, we set out to understand more about the relationship between consumption and wellbeing – specifically is living more simply, which is good for the planet, also good for our wellbeing, and how does this relationship work.” For their study, the researchers analyzed data from 1,643 participants in the New Zealand Consumer Lifestyles Study. 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Satisfaction with safety and future security did not appear to be strongly affected by voluntary simplicity. “Consumer culture promotes happiness as being typically associated with high levels of income and the capability it affords to acquire and accumulate material possessions,” the researchers explained. “However, our research shows people are happier when they live more simply because it frees up time and resources to connect with others, live in line with their values, and participate in their communities.” “Voluntary simplicity basically the conscious choice to live with ‘enough’ rather than excess. It’s not about deprivation or giving up everything you own, but about reducing unnecessary consumption to focus on what truly matters, relationships, purpose, and meaningful experiences. These connections and shared experiences – not just the absence of stuff – are what boost wellbeing. 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Exploring how these needs are met through different simplifying behaviors could clarify why some aspects of the lifestyle matter more than others. “Recent warnings confirm alarming trends of environmental degradation from human consumption ‘that pose existential threats to natural systems, economies and societies’ (Wiedmann et al., 2020), so reductions in per capita consumption are urgent and necessary,” Aitken and Watkins said. “To do that we need to better understand the relationship between consumption and wellbeing, including the values that drive behaviours like voluntary simplicity and the impacts of factors like personality – so these are areas for future research.” “Marketing has been incredibly successful at linking identity and happiness to material goods. But those same tools – storytelling, imagery, and aspirational branding – could be repurposed to make simple living or ‘enough’ aspirational. 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    Check out the 3-part series:)

    What Are You Chasing?

    We chase it relentlessly. We sacrifice relationships for it. We measure our success by it. Money, we’re convinced it’s the answer to happiness. Yet Harvard’s 80-year study on adult development tells a radically different story. After following hundreds of people from young adulthood through old age, tracking every variable imaginable, researchers discovered something that challenges our deepest cultural assumptions: the things we think will make us happy, and the things that actually do are often completely different.

    The Illusion We All Believe

    From childhood, we’re taught that financial success equals happiness. Get good grades, land a high-paying job, buy a house, accumulate wealth, follow this formula and happiness will follow. This narrative is so pervasive that we rarely question it. We see wealthy people and assume they must be happier than the rest of us. We believe that if only we had more money, our problems would dissolve and contentment would arrive.
    The Harvard study included people who became extremely successful financially, such as business executives, lawyers, and doctors, earning impressive incomes. It also included inner-city residents who struggled economically throughout their lives. If money were the key to happiness, the pattern would be obvious. The wealthy participants should have been healthier, happier, and more satisfied across the board.

    But The Truth Is

    That’s not what researchers found. When they analyzed decades of data, financial success showed surprisingly little correlation with life satisfaction, health outcomes, or happiness in later years. Some of the wealthiest participants ended up miserable and isolated. Some who never achieved financial success lived deeply fulfilling lives surrounded by loving relationships.
    The disconnect between what we believe about money and what actually predicts happiness represents one of the most costly mistakes we make. We spend our lives pursuing something that can’t deliver what we really want.

    What Money Can and Cannot Do

    This isn’t to say money doesn’t matter at all. Financial stability provides security, reduces stress about basic needs, and creates opportunities. Research consistently shows that money does increase happiness, up to a point. Once your basic needs are met and you have some financial cushion, additional wealth shows diminishing returns on wellbeing.
    The problem is that we keep chasing more even after crossing that threshold. We sacrifice time with family for overtime pay we don’t need. We take high-stress jobs we hate because of the salary. We move away from our communities for career advancement. We’re so busy climbing the ladder that we don’t notice it’s leaning against the wrong wall.


    Money Buys Comfort

    Money can buy comfort, experiences, and temporary pleasure. It cannot buy the things the Harvard study identified as crucial: deep relationships, a sense of purpose, and feeling genuinely known and valued by others. You can hire people to be around you, but you cannot purchase an authentic connection. You can buy entertainment, but not meaning. You can afford the best healthcare, but loneliness will damage your health anyway.
    The wealthiest participants in the study who prioritized career over relationships often found themselves successful but alone. They had impressive resumes and bank accounts, but nobody to share their lives with. In their final years, not one of them wished they’d spent more time at the office or accumulated more wealth.

    The Real Currency of Happiness

    If money isn’t the answer, what is? The Harvard research provides clear direction: relationships are the real currency of a good life. The quality of your connections at age 50 predicts your health at age 80 better than your cholesterol levels or your net worth. The satisfaction you feel in your relationships matters more than any other factor researchers measured.
    This finding is both challenging and liberating. Challenging because we’ve built our lives around different priorities. We’ve neglected friendships, sacrificed family time, and delayed personal relationships, believing we should “get established” first. Liberating because the path to happiness is more accessible than we thought. You don’t need wealth or extraordinary circumstances; you need to invest in the relationships right in front of you.
    Think about what this means practically. That promotion requiring 70-hour weeks might increase your salary but decrease your happiness if it costs you time with loved ones. The impressive house you can barely afford might provide status, but it creates financial stress that damages your relationships. The career move to a new city might boost your resume, but sever the community ties that support your well-being. We’re making these trade-offs constantly, usually without conscious awareness. We assume we’ll have time for relationships later, after we’ve achieved financial security. The Harvard study shows this is backwards. The relationships are the security. Everything else is secondary.

    The Success Stories Nobody Talks About

    When the researchers looked at who thrived in their 70s and 80s, who was healthy, happy, and still engaged with life, they weren’t the wealthiest participants. They were the ones who maintained close relationships throughout their lives. They were people who prioritized family dinners over networking events. Who said no to career opportunities that would have separated them from their communities? Who invested time in friendships even when their calendars were packed.
    One participant became a successful businessman but always made time for weekly dinners with his siblings. Another never earned a high salary but was deeply involved in his neighbourhood and religious community. In their later years, the businessman’s wealth couldn’t prevent his loneliness after prioritizing work over relationships. The lower-income participant with strong community ties thrived, surrounded by people who cared about him.
    The study’s most important finding is that our lives don’t have to be extraordinary to be happy. We don’t need fame, fortune, or exceptional achievement. We need people who know us, care about us, and show up for us through life’s ups and downs. This is achievable for virtually everyone, regardless of income or circumstances.

    Redefining Success

    Perhaps the most radical implication of this research is that we need to completely redefine what success means. Our culture measures success by salary, title, possessions, and achievements. We celebrate people who sacrifice everything for career advancement. We admire workaholics who climb to the top of their fields.
    But what if we measured success by different metrics? What if we asked: How many people genuinely care about you? How connected do you feel to your community? Can you name three people who would drop everything if you needed help? Do you have regular, meaningful conversations with people who know you deeply? These questions predict your future happiness and health far better than questions about your bank balance.
    This shift requires courage because it means swimming against cultural currents. It means potentially earning less, achieving less conventional success, and appearing less impressive on paper. It means admitting that we’ve been chasing the wrong things and having the humility to change course.
    The Harvard participants who ended up happiest weren’t those who never made mistakes. They were those who recognized their missteps and corrected them. Some prioritized career early in life but eventually shifted their focus to relationships. Others maintained balance throughout. The common thread was the willingness to value connection over achievement when the two conflicted.

    Making the Shift: From Money to Meaning

    So how do we actually change course when everything around us screams that money matters most? Start by recognizing that this isn’t about becoming irresponsible with finances or abandoning career ambitions. It’s about reordering priorities. Money and career success aren’t inherently bad; they become problems only when we sacrifice what actually matters to pursue them.
    Evaluate your current trade-offs honestly. Are you working extra hours for money you don’t need while your relationships suffer? Are you living somewhere that maximizes income but minimizes community? Are you so focused on providing financially for your family that you’re not actually present with them?
    Begin making small shifts. Turn down the project that would mean missing your kid’s events. Choose the job with a better work-life balance over the one with higher pay. Invest time in friendships even when you’re busy. Host dinners. Join community groups. Show up for people. These choices might feel insignificant compared to major career decisions, but the research shows they’re actually the most important decisions you’ll make.

    Prioritize Relationships

    Eighty years of research delivers a message our culture doesn’t want to hear: money doesn’t buy happiness, at least not the kind that lasts or the kind that matters. The participants who lived longest and happiest weren’t those who accumulated the most wealth. They were those who invested in relationships, who built communities, who showed up for people consistently over decades. This isn’t just feel-good advice; it’s hard science. Your relationships predict your future health and happiness better than your income ever could. The question isn’t whether you can afford to prioritize relationships over money. It’s whether you can afford not to.

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