Ellis C. A. Arcwolf (Author)Dec 29

Some neurotypical person may have to explain to me why the socially acceptable thing to do when someone calls you pretentious is to checks notes say thank you and lick their boot.

I'm autistic, so as we all know, I struggle to understand "common sense" things like that and am eager to learn so that I can be included in this delusionally toxic society of ours.

Some of that was likely sarcasm.

Things to keep in mind:

  • If you're a woman, and someone calls you manipulative, they're afraid of the only power they've allowed you to keep.
  • If you're an autist, and someone calls you pretentious, they are forcing you to do emotional labor to protect them, your attacker, from their own insecurity.

Never accept as feedback what is intended as abuse.

#SocialEngineering #BoundarySetting #EmotionalLabor #Sociology #Ontology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity #AutisticJoy #DoubleEmpathyProblem #Masking #IntersectionalFeminism #PowerDynamics #Assertiveness #InternalizedMisogyny

Sam Chavez (she/they/he) 🌈🤠Nov 11

“I think a lot of gay people who are not dealing with their homosexuality get into right- wing politics.” — 🌈 Armistead Maupin

Anita Bryant walked so JK Rowling could run. Self hatred isn’t new, it’s just that they have way too much power.
#TERF #internalizedmisogyny #LGBTQ #trans

Estelle KeerthanaJul 11, 2025

தமிழ் நாட்டின் #lgbtiqa சமூகத்தில் வர வர இது தான் நடக்கிறது…
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is what happens nowadays in the Tamil Nadu LGBTIQA+ community…. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

#lgbt #transphobia #internalizedmisogyny #internalizedhomophobia #internalizedtransphobia #internalizedqueerphobia #transgender #nonbinary

Apocalypse & AvocadosJun 12, 2025

New episode just dropped: “Hot Girl Walks and Internalized Misogyny” 🧘‍♀️💅
We started walking for our mental health and somehow ended up sprinting through self-judgment in matching sets.
Listen now, then take a lap. For your mental health… and the drama. 🎧

#Podcast #HotGirlWalk #InternalizedMisogyny #QueerPodcasts #MillennialHumor

Apocalypse & AvocadosJun 12, 2025

New episode just dropped: “Hot Girl Walks and Internalized Misogyny” 🧘‍♀️💅
We started walking for our mental health and somehow ended up sprinting through self-judgment in matching sets.
Listen now, then take a lap. For your mental health… and the drama. 🎧

#Podcast #HotGirlWalk #InternalizedMisogyny #QueerPodcasts #MillennialHumor

Cleo of Topless TopicsDec 3, 2024
Every time a dude asks how he can help the cause for #gender equal anti #censorship aka #topfree / #topless #equality, I tell them that they're in a unique position to use their #malePrivilege to advocate for #feminism to people who are unlikely to listen when it comes from a woman. (they can also post their chests online without getting banned for "sexually explicit nudity" which just further highlights the #hypocrisy and #misogyny of #sexist #doubleStandards). Yes, you will have other men (and women with #internalizedMisogyny) accuse you of "just wanting to see more tits" but you can disregard such opinions because they only demonstrate that the person saying it is incapable of seeing women as humans who deserve #equalRights, instead of as objects that serve the pleasure of the #maleGaze.
Court Cantrell does not complyJul 31, 2024

Hey y'all. In case you haven't read or heard about this yet, here's the basic reason why you need to stop calling her "Kamala." She is Harris or VP Harris.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C-AxW2LvuXh/?igsh=MW50ZGxhZzhpdmo3NQ==

#SayHerLastName
#Harris2024
#respect
#WordsMatter
#NamesMatter
#InternalizedMisogyny

Adam Aleksic on Instagram: "The RateMyProfessor thing is especially crazy to me #linguistics #language #names #gender #sociology"

197K likes, 2,869 comments - etymologynerd on July 29, 2024: "The RateMyProfessor thing is especially crazy to me #linguistics #language #names #gender #sociology".

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Show threadbatoutofmelMay 26, 2024

Like don’t get me started about spay/neuter, keeping cats indoors, coyote season, but jam CRACKERS, that is one busy lady, these past few days

Look at me, second-thoughting the gentlemen #InternalizedMisogyny

Show threadPhoenixSerenityMay 25, 2024

I bring that up only because many #fascists / #WhiteSupremacists really love to recruit #POC & exploit them to try to show public - we ain't #racist because we have #BIPOC people who support us.

Guess what folks? POC with massive #InternalizedRacism & #InternalizedMisogyny are easily recruited/exploited by #bigots for evil purposes. It's not new. It's been happening for a long time. It goes back to #colonialism & #imperialism divide/conquer tactics of Indigenous peoples genocides, globally.

aztecladyJan 8, 2024

Welp!

Or: how internalized misogyny means that many women don't look behind the surface of "women burn through money for no reason, they are behind more than 85% of all purchases!" to find all the unpaid labor women perform as they engage with capitalism because they literally have no choice.

(also, why I still check twitter: many smart Black women remain there)

#InternalizedMisogyny #Misogyny #Sexism